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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey everyone

Newbies here, signed up online for _tasia, just wanted to know some do's and dont's and what we are likely to expect x and how to get over any nerves x

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By *ove121LustCouple
over a year ago

LaLa Land

Hi and welcome

We love Xtasia - it's more like a normal club with added extras. Its a fab to 'test the water' and the booze is very reasonable.

You'll be given a guided tour, people respect boundaries and no means no! Feel free to message us if you have any questions

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi and welcome

We love Xtasia - it's more like a normal club with added extras. Its a fab to 'test the water' and the booze is very reasonable.

You'll be given a guided tour, people respect boundaries and no means no! Feel free to message us if you have any questions

xx"

Thanks both much appreciated and reasonable booze prices are good but not if it goes down too well and get too much of it haha

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By *ove121LustCouple
over a year ago

LaLa Land

"Hi and welcome

We love Xtasia - it's more like a normal club with added extras. Its a fab to 'test the water' and the booze is very reasonable.

You'll be given a guided tour, people respect boundaries and no means no! Feel free to message us if you have any questions

Thanks both much appreciated and reasonable booze prices are good but not if it goes down too well and get too much of it haha"

Lol that's a risk! And because of nerves you'll probably end up pissed anyway! But we won't judge! We've all been there!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol im sure.many people have, if you see us there feel free to say hi, probably try out flirts bar before we go in x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Xtasia is a great club and just remember to tell the staff when you get there that it's your first visit and they'll give you a tour. Paul, Flirt and the staff well do a brilliant job of looking after you they always do.

Enjoy the nerves it's all part of the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Xtasia is a great club with great crowd of people all very friendly. .The owners and staff will take good care of you..Just remember everyone else are probably just as nervous as you..You will have a fantastic time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all cant wait

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I'm off to Xtasia this weekend, it'll be my first time there. Looking forward to it, excited

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"I'm off to Xtasia this weekend, it'll be my first time there. Looking forward to it, excited

Phukt this weekend, should be a good one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loooooove Xtasia! Fave club!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Xtasia is the perfect venue for your first club! As it's based on a nightclub feel it's very relaxed and easy to mingle. As previously mentioned here, this weekend is the Phukt event which will be full of sexy people! Get your name down and enjoy the party!! Absolutely no pressure environment which is fab!! xx

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"I'm off to Xtasia this weekend, it'll be my first time there. Looking forward to it, excited

Phukt this weekend, should be a good one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horrible club , will never go there again. Too big not enough private rooms reminds me of a 70s lounge and dirty. Just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm off to Xtasia this weekend, it'll be my first time there. Looking forward to it, excited

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Hope to spot you in your batman booty shorts then phuking the night away

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the infor guys appreciate it hope to see some of you there x

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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

"Horrible club , will never go there again. Too big not enough private rooms reminds me of a 70s lounge and dirty. Just my opinion. "
You really must look for the threads mentioning us, xx

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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

"Thanks for all the infor guys appreciate it hope to see some of you there x"
Pop across to our web site as well, there's a good page of FAQ's to have a wander through. They help as well. See you soon,

Paul & Flirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Horrible club , will never go there again. Too big not enough private rooms reminds me of a 70s lounge and dirty. Just my opinion. You really must look for the threads mentioning us, xx"

Nope I don't , this was top of forum while I was scrolling down. Anyway even if I was it's just my opinion and as such I'm allowed to air it. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Horrible club , will never go there again. Too big not enough private rooms reminds me of a 70s lounge and dirty. Just my opinion. "

You really need to go back and take a look

Flirt and paul have worked damm hard and its clean and the pub is coming on really well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Horrible club , will never go there again. Too big not enough private rooms reminds me of a 70s lounge and dirty. Just my opinion.

You really need to go back and take a look

Flirt and paul have worked damm hard and its clean and the pub is coming on really well

Ok just been across to look at the web site and in all honestly got put off right away by the social area pic. Again just my opinion but it just looks naff. Another thing I don't like is being able to use the hot tub but having to get dressed again to use the club. I like the hot tub but in lots of small doses as being in too long makes me feel yuk.

It's too far away for me to visit just on the off chance I'm going to like it any better than the couple times I've been there but as been shown loads of people love this place and that's all that matters.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Horrible club , will never go there again. Too big not enough private rooms reminds me of a 70s lounge and dirty. Just my opinion. "

Big? Yep.

Not enough private rooms? More than I've seen at any other club.

70's lounge? Really? Which bit?

Dirty? Never has been on the many times we've visited. A couple of playrooms have been left 'wet' by previous users but that's down to inconsiderate guests rather than the management.

As for the hot tub? It's a dry club - clearly detailed on the website and many forum posts/reviews. You can of course wander the whole club in a towel, in underwear or naked should you choose - plenty do! If getting dressed/undressed is too much effort then yes - a wet club is a better option.

No club is perfect. But Xtasia comes as close as any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love this club and have never failed to have a fantastic time. Can't fault it. Owners are fantastic and can't do enough for you.

Looking forward to our next visit on Saturday.

#excited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Horrible club , will never go there again. Too big not enough private rooms reminds me of a 70s lounge and dirty. Just my opinion.

Big? Yep.

Not enough private rooms? More than I've seen at any other club.

70's lounge? Really? Which bit?

Dirty? Never has been on the many times we've visited. A couple of playrooms have been left 'wet' by previous users but that's down to inconsiderate guests rather than the management.

No club is perfect. But Xtasia comes as close as any.

Like I've said and will say again , just my opinion and in the bigger picture won't matter one little bit as there are loads that love it.

I will however until I am told otherwise by admin on here continue to voice my opinion if and when I happen to catch a thread about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Horrible club , will never go there again. Too big not enough private rooms reminds me of a 70s lounge and dirty. Just my opinion.

Big? Yep.

Not enough private rooms? More than I've seen at any other club.

70's lounge? Really? Which bit?

Dirty? Never has been on the many times we've visited. A couple of playrooms have been left 'wet' by previous users but that's down to inconsiderate guests rather than the management.

No club is perfect. But Xtasia comes as close as any.

the entry fee. Please note, we operate the wet area on the basis of using it with a towel around you, but you then get dressed again to come back up to the nightclub area on Friday and Saturday evenings. We also have a wet play area designed as a cinema for your enjoyment.

Just taken this from web site which clearly states having to get dressed again to come back up to night club area on a Friday or sat.

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

"Horrible club , will never go there again. Too big not enough private rooms reminds me of a 70s lounge and dirty. Just my opinion. "

Everyone is entitled to an an opinion but I guess we can all choose how best to express what we feel. Why do you post an inflammatory negative opinion whenever an Xtasia post appears? It just makes it look like you have an axe to grind over a personal matter.

This weekend will see one of the biggest and most spectacular swinger lifestyle events in the country being held at Xtasia. Nowhere else is big enough to cope with the hundreds of party goers. Nowhere else has the capacity to utilise high tech sound and lighting equipment and nowhere else has the following to guarantee a successful two night event.

Whoever and whatever has upset you, why not just clear the air instead of looking to stick the knife in at every opportunity? Xtasia is not perfect, but what you have there are hosts who are proactive and who listen to what people want and do their best to deliver it within the constraints and physical imitations of the building.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Horrible club , will never go there again. Too big not enough private rooms reminds me of a 70s lounge and dirty. Just my opinion.

Nothing had upset me , I don't like the club plain and simple.

It seems to me that those that have the problem are those that think only positive things should ever be said.

Like I have said before what is my opinion won't make an ounce of difference to the club but I uphold my right to have it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have opinions and moody was expressing hers.

I have made my opinions known about chams and wasn't attacked for it

Why as its choice and preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all have opinions and moody was expressing hers.

I have made my opinions known about chams and wasn't attacked for it

Why as its choice and preference

Thank you x

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

"We all have opinions and moody was expressing hers.

I have made my opinions known about chams and wasn't attacked for it

Why as its choice and preference

I don't think that I attacked the comment. I just stand by my impression that there is something more to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all have opinions and moody was expressing hers.

I have made my opinions known about chams and wasn't attacked for it

Why as its choice and preference

I don't think that I attacked the comment. I just stand by my impression that there is something more to it."

It was aimed in general not at you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all have opinions and moody was expressing hers.

I have made my opinions known about chams and wasn't attacked for it

Why as its choice and preference

I don't think that I attacked the comment. I just stand by my impression that there is something more to it."

Nothing more to it than I don't like club , plain and simple.

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By *ove121LustCouple
over a year ago

LaLa Land

"Horrible club , will never go there again. Too big not enough private rooms reminds me of a 70s lounge and dirty. Just my opinion.

Here here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gonna chuck our 5p in here since our event has been mentioned lol

Op you are entitled to your opinion granted, however scouring the the forums to post comments on a club you have visited once or twice and have no intention of visiting again is a little bit pointless ? Im sure you have better things to do with your time ??

And also we can safely say along with the other 3 -400 people that attend our events that Xtasia is far from dirty, 70's lounge like or any of the other things you said.

Still if you feel the need to carry on slating it at every opportunity then good luck to you, personally there are far better things to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apologies for the OP in our comment it was aimed at the lady slating Xtasia not the original post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apologies for the OP in our comment it was aimed at the lady slating Xtasia not the original post

So hang on now I'm not allowed an opinion unless it's an all sweetness and light one , well tough I'm no more a troll than any of you others are. I have been on the forums for probably more years than some of you and am known to many forum users past and present.

I did not look for this thread it was there and I stand by my right to have an opinion on the club. Some of the people that have posted on this thread actually have made me even more happy I do not use the club because if you come over the way you do in here I blooming well hate to think what you like in the club.

Now you all go and enjoy all the club to offer as not once have I slated any of you for your opinions.

Will say it one last time , I don't like the club plain and simple but what I think will have no difference to the club at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like we need to bring our dyson and dusters on Saturday. Might put a 70's shirt and medallion on. Bay city rollers anyone haha.

Let's party

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Maybe the forum rules should be changed to 'only give your opinion if it's nice'

Ive not been myself, I know a lot of people like it. Ive also heard quite a few people who dont like it and Wouldnt go back.

People shouldn't be called trolls for voicing their opinion though. She did say it was her opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back on topic, we have loved _tasia the 3 times we've been and were disappointed that Flirts wasn't open on Sunday before discobey to check that out too!

Does annoy me that I never knew about it when I lived in Oldbury just down the road though

OP decide for yourself whether you like it, if not their are plenty of other clubs and they all have their own feel and as this thread demonstrates what makes a club good is often totally sunjective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Back on topic, we have loved _tasia the 3 times we've been and were disappointed that Flirts wasn't open on Sunday before discobey to check that out too!

OP decide for yourself whether you like it, if not their are plenty of other clubs and they all have their own feel and as this thread demonstrates what makes a club good is often totally sunjective"

Good advice.

Its almost like

U read about a shit film but still you go see it and love it

The point is we all have different tastes

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"Sounds like we need to bring our dyson and dusters on Saturday. Might put a 70's shirt and medallion on. Bay city rollers anyone haha.

Let's party

I've got a 70's afro wig, but maybe thats a step too far.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry to cause such a bost up x will.definatley be going soon so will.see for ourselves, appreciate everyone who took the time to.offer advice x

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By *ove121LustCouple
over a year ago

LaLa Land

"Sounds like we need to bring our dyson and dusters on Saturday. Might put a 70's shirt and medallion on. Bay city rollers anyone haha.

Let's party

Keys in the fruit bowl?

We love Xtasia because it's more like a 'club club' and we can do what we want, dressed or otherwise at our pace.

And when we were newbies, it gave us the opportunity to go at our pace.

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