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By *osmics OP   Man
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Just wondering.

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I've had five club visits and managed play on three of them. Is this about normal? What are other peoples experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We go to clubs for the social aspect... We never really go intending to play.

I would say we always do but sometimes that's just with each other. If I go as a single girl its rare if ever I will play

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

That's a really good ratio wish mine was that good well done mate!.

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By *osmics OP   Man
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"That's a really good ratio wish mine was that good well done mate!. "

Cheers

Must have just hit it lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's really quite good I don't think I was ever that lucky as a single guy (Abfab 100% I only went once as a single) I think more men would do better but some just give off the weird vibe. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single female I play probably 50% of the time. I love the social side as much as the sex side.

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By *untimetonks69Couple
over a year ago

IRVING


"That's really quite good I don't think I was ever that lucky as a single guy (Abfab 100% I only went once as a single) I think more men would do better but some just give off the weird vibe. Lol "
yes they do! Their cocks take over their minds and they forget we are human too

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Yes we play about 50 percent of the time we visit . Depending on who we meet . Other times weay just let people watch , but also enjoy the social side

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By *osmics OP   Man
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"That's really quite good I don't think I was ever that lucky as a single guy (Abfab 100% I only went once as a single) I think more men would do better but some just give off the weird vibe. Lol yes they do! Their cocks take over their minds and they forget we are human too"

More lile Single male morphs into one big cock

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By *osmics OP   Man
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"As a single female I play probably 50% of the time. I love the social side as much as the sex side."

Sadly, not managed to break into the social side in the same way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50/50

I love the social side of clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All things considered those are great numbers dude. The honest answer that everyone wants to ignore is its about looks period. The guys that are called creepy or give off the bad vibe translation for the ladies is he just isn't attractive to play with. I have spoke with many ladies about this as this is such a big issue for men, they all say privately that the guys that go to these parties are just not hot enough. Hot guys do not have to go to parties as they always have top notch women to play with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's quite a good success rate. When your a single guy there tends to be a lot of competition especially in clubs where there is no single guy limit.

It isn't unheard of to find a 8:1 male:female ratio. To beat the other 7 guys half of the time is definitely beating the odds. Whatever your doing it seems to work quite well.

Unless the lady is very accommodating aka greedy girl, your unlikely to get much above a 15-25% play record.

We only go for the social side of the scene. So your success rate with lady delorian is a permanent 0%. Lol

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

Same for us, love social side too, sadly a couple of times have been spoiled by the sad individuals that follow women wanking , puts me right off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many club visits many different ones too..

100 % satisfied and never been without play on each visit.

Although it's not my aim for attending.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I have been a few times and asked to play each time. Wish it was my thing as the ladies were lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I play every time i go, i don't go to socialise though i just go for sex

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

I would say 95% of the time we end up playing with someone, but mainly go for the relaxed chilled out atmosphere. Those times we dont play with anyone else we always have fun together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've bern really lucky and have always played every time I've gone to a club. Not a case of must play. Just been lucky that I've found someone ive been attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All things considered those are great numbers dude. The honest answer that everyone wants to ignore is its about looks period. The guys that are called creepy or give off the bad vibe translation for the ladies is he just isn't attractive to play with. I have spoke with many ladies about this as this is such a big issue for men, they all say privately that the guys that go to these parties are just not hot enough. Hot guys do not have to go to parties as they always have top notch women to play with."

See I disagree. We have been to loads of clubs and parties and there have been many times I didn't want to play as the guys were too nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same for us, love social side too, sadly a couple of times have been spoiled by the sad individuals that follow women wanking , puts me right off"

That is the main reason it's taking myself and lady delorean to work up to same room sex, We are up for the idea of some exhibitionism in the couples room, but single guys are off putting as we can see them loitering by the doors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your playing in a public room with viewing ( which I've never known a couples room not have) then you can not really moan about guys watching from outside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a bit of a "bone" question really. Depends on who's there how you feel and how everyone else feels. Too many variables really.

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

From my limited experience that is a good ratio. For me the thrill is also being in a sexual situation where I don't have any expectation but am accepted. Hope that makes sense

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire


"Same for us, love social side too, sadly a couple of times have been spoiled by the sad individuals that follow women wanking , puts me right off

That is the main reason it's taking myself and lady delorean to work up to same room sex, We are up for the idea of some exhibitionism in the couples room, but single guys are off putting as we can see them loitering by the doors."

We were in a public room so fair enough...but he was an inch away from my face at one point , had to tell him to back off quite nastily as he laughed when I asked politely

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By *ilver FoxMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Same for us, love social side too, sadly a couple of times have been spoiled by the sad individuals that follow women wanking , puts me right off

That is the main reason it's taking myself and lady delorean to work up to same room sex, We are up for the idea of some exhibitionism in the couples room, but single guys are off putting as we can see them loitering by the doors.

We were in a public room so fair enough...but he was an inch away from my face at one point , had to tell him to back off quite nastily as he laughed when I asked politely "

There's always one that spoils it for the rest. Guys - leave your cocks in your towels/boxers till asked, and don't touch without permission. Remember, to touch without permission is a criminal assault.

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