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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I really want to give the club scene a go. I've not met anyone that I'd really want to go with. I've spoke to a couple of females about going alone and they've said definitely not! Should I really not go by myself? Any advice appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been alone to clubs to find f/f fun and never ever had problems enjoyed myself and had fun.

If there was an issue told staff and it was sorted. Just tell staff on door when you get to club that you are alone and if it is a good club they keep an eye on you... And a "no" is a "no" in a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went on my own it was fine but i think i was lucky to get chatting to nice people. Maybe chat to a couple on here and arrange to go o the same night, your not walking into starngers then xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou ladies. I think il start my hunt for some people to meet there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really want to give the club scene a go. I've not met anyone that I'd really want to go with. I've spoke to a couple of females about going alone and they've said definitely not! Should I really not go by myself? Any advice appreciated "

I go alone.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I have been to many clubs alone. Its better with a club buddy though, as you've got someone to talk to between shags.

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

I nearly always go alone. Go on a single guy night and you'll have an entourage within minutes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it depends on you as well. if your confidant stand on your own two feet you have no problem. if your shy or unsure of your self making a few friends to meet there is a good idea. and remember no really dose mean no so your safe in a club just tell staff if your getting unwanted attention

good luck have fun

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Going alone is fine but I'd say maybe for your first visit going with someone, male or female, who knows the club would be useful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youll be fine , just chat to the staff and let them know your on your own and they should introduce you to some couples there to keep an eye out for you . All the people we have met at clubs have been respectful ... go and have fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really want to give the club scene a go. I've not met anyone that I'd really want to go with. I've spoke to a couple of females about going alone and they've said definitely not! Should I really not go by myself? Any advice appreciated "

Why have they said definitely not, I go both along and with others, I arrange meets their so I'm not tied to someone all night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

V here. I often go to clubs alone. I prefer nights where single guys are allowed. As everyone else has said.... Confidence, be clear when you say "no", talk to staff for the low down, and just talk to people. You'll be fine. It's a fun night out usually even if you don't get naughty with anyone.

Enjoy xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt go alone but thats just me - lots do and have a fine old time - maybe attend a social at a club rather than just a regular club night for your first and try and find out who is going and chat to them ahead of time - wont feel like you are going into a room of strangers then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm close enough to take you....if you fancy a trip to Xtasia then let me know.

No promises, no expectations....just a safe escort/chaperone then bring you home.

Feel free to PM me.

xx. Chris

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I really want to give the club scene a go. I've not met anyone that I'd really want to go with. I've spoke to a couple of females about going alone and they've said definitely not! Should I really not go by myself? Any advice appreciated "

I used to go on my own all the time and it was fine! Never had a bad experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go on my own, its great fun!!

Be proactive though and speak to people, all the advice given to single guys about clubs on the forums work for us too.

And don't be worried to be vocal.. if Someone does something your not comfortable with tell them very clearly no, although I've not had to do this very often at all.

Have lots of fun!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id just say chose your club carefully. Some clubs are much better Tha others. I've had mixed experiences, although nothing horrible has happened. Arranging to meet people in a club is good advice.

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire


"I have been to many clubs alone. Its better with a club buddy though, as you've got someone to talk to between shags. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really want to give the club scene a go. I've not met anyone that I'd really want to go with. I've spoke to a couple of females about going alone and they've said definitely not! Should I really not go by myself? Any advice appreciated "

I have been on my own many times and its great fun

I havn't had any problems either, just lots of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't go to chat to people or make friends or socialise anyway so it suits me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Decide what club you want to go to and the date you want to go.

And you could post a meet for that date. Or look through the meets section to see if anyone has posted a meet. Introduce yourself and see what happens.

Means you will at least have others to say hello too in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably safer going to a club like that than you would be going to a normal club

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By *essieBooWoman
over a year ago

Inverness and everywhere else.

I am happy to go alone. Just be confident and enjoy yourself. If you feel someone is giving you hassle then tell staf. And don't forget to have lots of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiya,I like to go alone sometimes and always have a great time. If you fancy a social to meet some peeps then the Gloucester social, first Thursday of every month is a really busy and friendly event. Let me know if you want to go along and you can come with us xx

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By *aydeesclubCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

We get lots of ladies come along to our club on their own, we always look after them and any one else who comes along. When we get newbies in now they always tell us that other people on fab have recommended us as the first club to attend.

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