FabSwingers.com forum: First time club visit

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've got all sorts of questions and worries.

What should I wear?

What is the etiquette for chatting, playing etc?

Any advice anyone can give would be greatly appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got all sorts of questions and worries.

What should I wear?

What is the etiquette for chatting, playing etc?

Any advice anyone can give would be greatly appreciated.

It will be sexy underwear or towel which is supplied by the club..

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

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Wear what you feel comfortable in. I usually wear a dress, or a skirt and top, with lingerie, hold ups and heels.

Once we've been in the club and socialised for a while, we get changed into towels (the club provides these), or I'll keep my lingerie on.

Just say hi to some people, get chatting and see how you get on, it usually evolves from there if there's mutual interest.

Etiquette wise, polite and respectful is key. If people don't want to be watched they'll lock the doors for privacy. If they want you to join they'll ask.

Have fun

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

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Depends on the club you are going to.

Some are dressed clubs so anything from lingerie to that little black dress (other colours are permitted

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Others are towel/wet clubs, so either a towel, you can either take your own or one surplied by the club. Lingerie, mesh dresses, bodysuits etc.

As to etiquette just chat to people like you would in a pub or party.

Just remember the golden rule of any club is no means no and ask before you touch, anyone gets touchy feely and you aren't interested just let the staff know, they can't do anything about something they know nothing about.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I've got all sorts of questions and worries.

What should I wear?

What is the etiquette for chatting, playing etc?

Any advice anyone can give would be greatly appreciated.

Clubs are great for women, you are totally safe and can dress as you want - we go raunchier than we would to a pub/vanilla club and see how much we want to take off!

Etiquette wise, just smile and be friendly and if you want something say so - equally if you don't want something or someone say so and people will respect your wishes.

Let the club know you ate on your own and they might introduce you to a few people so you dont feel on your own.

Maybe go the first time and plan not to play and just see how you feel

Plenty of clubs around you in Melksham, Burnham, Weston, Bristol and Exeter so give them a go. You may find one type of club suits you more than others. We prefer dry clubs as we like the dressing up bit!

Enjoy xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you everyone for your replies.

Sadly we didn't end up going but hopefully I will go soon before the nerves kick in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where are you thinking of going and what are you looking for from visiting a club? I have only been to a few but on the whole they do tend to be pretty relaxed places. Check reviews of them out first so that you have a feel for what goes but there's nothing to be nervous about!

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