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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all... Am sure this is dead boring for you well practised fabbers but as a newbie, what's the best club for a first timer? I literally have no idea what to expect !!!

For all I know, people would be fucking against the bar while ordering a packet of peanuts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chams!! Great for first timers!

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By *ereForFunCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Huntingdon

We made it to the car park of Tease 2 before I bottled it and we went home

I've heard really good things about it, and hope that I'll make it inside one day!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ooh thanks. Where is tht?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We've built it up into such a scary thing I bet I bottle it too!!

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By *ove121LustCouple
over a year ago

LaLa Land

I prefer Xtasia

Charms is a bit full on for me because the men have to wear towels

Xtasia you glam up and it's like a normal

Club with rooms for naughtiness - personally if I need to escape I can at Xtasia! Lol

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By *ereForFunCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Huntingdon

Tease 2 is at Alconbury on the A1, just north of Huntingdon.

Chams, I believe is Chameleons which is Birmingham way I think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That sounds good. Prefer somewhere I can take it slowly without getting naked too quickly

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

Please don't be scared. Everyone had a first night at a club...

Saying that we were very nervous but once we were through the door we wished we had gone sooner.

Even if you don't play with anyone else, it's great being in a place with like minded adults who are happy to chat about the things we can't share with people in the real world...

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Jaydess. So friendly. No dress down policy. And they don't even sell peanuts

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Not all clubs are the same.

The very first club I went to was one where it was people in open congress everywhere. I didn't know what to expect, what to wear or what I would do. I was guided by my ex - who has gone on to corrupt many others since.

The next had a social bar area where everyone was just as you would find them in your local pub and closed areas for everything else.

Don't be too nervous. It's not for everyone but don't build it up too much in your mind. Look at the club reviews and seek out a social.

There were lots of newbies to clubs at the party on Saturday and I don't think they left scared.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Jaydess. So friendly. No dress down policy. And they don't even sell peanuts "

Jaydees even... Stupid phone x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"That sounds good. Prefer somewhere I can take it slowly without getting naked too quickly "

You need to look at whether the club is wet or dry then. Wet clubs are generally towels/nudist. Dry ones you dress up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Jaydess. So friendly. No dress down policy. And they don't even sell peanuts "

Haha! Pork scratchings?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That sounds good. Prefer somewhere I can take it slowly without getting naked too quickly

You need to look at whether the club is wet or dry then. Wet clubs are generally towels/nudist. Dry ones you dress up.

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Ooh thanks for that!! Would never have known that's what they were called...

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Jaydess. So friendly. No dress down policy. And they don't even sell peanuts

Haha! Pork scratchings? "

Nope.. Safe from all snack type food items.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"That sounds good. Prefer somewhere I can take it slowly without getting naked too quickly

You need to look at whether the club is wet or dry then. Wet clubs are generally towels/nudist. Dry ones you dress up.

Ooh thanks for that!! Would never have known that's what they were called... "

I didn't either. Nothing to be embarrassed about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand why somebody found Tease2 a little intimidating from the outside. It is fine once you cross the car park and enter though. Jaydees is a nice friendly club albeit in the middle of nowhere.

Xtasia is a fantastic club, no different to any nightclub when you walk in.

Take it at your own pace and there is no pressure to play

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By *elsimCouple
over a year ago

colchester

Mingles,Colchester without a doubt. We are still fairly new but always feel welcome and meet new lovely people who are very patient and friendly.

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester


"That sounds good. Prefer somewhere I can take it slowly without getting naked too quickly

You need to look at whether the club is wet or dry then. Wet clubs are generally towels/nudist. Dry ones you dress up.

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I admit we haven't been to more than 5 clubs but the words towels/nudist are a bit misleading. Think of boxers or towels for men and lingerie, sexy clubwear etc for women.

Obviously people strip off in various rooms both private and open to have sex but again not all ladies are nude and no-one has to do anything they don't want to do.

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love both Xtasia and JayDees but for a first time I'd recommend Xtasia. It really does just feel like a nightclub. We didn't play the first couple of times we went but still felt like we'd had a great night out.

Geographically JayDees is probably better for you (although the Premier Inn is right next to Xtasia which makes it easy).

Our other advice? Go with friends. We went to Xtasia with 'Real Life' friends (that we don't play with), but we egged each other on which helped with the nerves.

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon


"We made it to the car park of Tease 2 before I bottled it and we went home

I've heard really good things about it, and hope that I'll make it inside one day!"

Contact me next time x I'll be more than happy to meet up with you outside and bring you in

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By *ereForFunCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Huntingdon


"We made it to the car park of Tease 2 before I bottled it and we went home

I've heard really good things about it, and hope that I'll make it inside one day!

Contact me next time x I'll be more than happy to meet up with you outside and bring you in "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone! Xtasia it is then!!! *eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeek* wish us luck!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Thanks everyone! Xtasia it is then!!! *eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeek* wish us luck! "

Good luck. Just do what you want to do - there is no pressure to do anything more than that. Xtasia do make rather large cocktails though so be careful.

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