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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I love the thought of going to a club with a hot tub. However I don't particularly want to go in it naked. Is swimwear allowed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the thought of going to a club with a hot tub. However I don't particularly want to go in it naked. Is swimwear allowed? "

I see why not, you can wander around the club in underwear or a swimsuit, you might be joining a minority of swimwear wearers, but it is certainly not against club rules..... Unless it is some sort of naturist or nude night. Then your not in proper dress code, rest of the time it's wear what you dare

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks. Doubt I'll brave it any time soon but wondered about that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks. Doubt I'll brave it any time soon but wondered about that!"

Looking at your profile I'd say you have no reason to cover up other than lack of confidence and confidence come quick enough when you in with the crowd, when in Rome and all that stuff.

We are looking at naturism as well as clubs, look at it as a chance to be clothing liberated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to go to Chams in Birmingham and Ab Fabs near Heathrow. Both have hot tubs that I've seen men and women in wearing swimsuits and bikinis including some men

To be honest the vast majority go in naked but I can understand why some people feel uncomfortable to start with.

By the way your pics are great and it seems a shame to hide that that great body away

Wherever you go you will have fun and the nerves do go pretty quickly!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks. Doubt I'll brave it any time soon but wondered about that!

Looking at your profile I'd say you have no reason to cover up other than lack of confidence and confidence come quick enough when you in with the crowd, when in Rome and all that stuff.

We are looking at naturism as well as clubs, look at it as a chance to be clothing liberated."

You're very kind.

I don't even like the mirror seeing me naked some days at the moment. I can see why it would be liberating. That's certainly the appeal of it. Just need to convince Mr N to come along with me xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for being so nice . Good to know I wouldn't be the only one not naked.I'm sure there are also many men who rock a mankini

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have some confidence Issues with seeing yourself naked, have a look your local naturist group, there are beaches, swim clubs and camping sites. There is no pressure to go nude straight away, unrobe in your own time, And it might be better for you longer term knowing your with like minded people, rather than being pressured in a swingers club when your trying to find your inner confidence and your discover some guy tugging his todger next to you. I find it very distracting. And that's being kind or it might just set your confidence back weeks.

Google naturist and naked Scotland Web sites.

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe


"I love the thought of going to a club with a hot tub. However I don't particularly want to go in it naked. Is swimwear allowed? "

Wear what ever you wish to feel comfortable in x no be gives a jot lol x well as long as dye doesn't run out lol xxx

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe


"I love the thought of going to a club with a hot tub. However I don't particularly want to go in it naked. Is swimwear allowed? "

Wear what ever you wish to feel comfortable in x no be gives a jot lol x well as long as dye doesn't run out lol xxx

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

Last year a lovely lady joined us for her first club outing at Partners. In the jacuzzi she started with a white T-shirt; then realised that there were people in there of all sorts and sizes. I have also seen men holding towels of their partners - and looking back we were a bit shy to start with for the usual reasons.

So wearing a little something is a good introduction and you can decide when and whether to strip off altogether.

Him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you have some confidence Issues with seeing yourself naked, have a look your local naturist group, there are beaches, swim clubs and camping sites. There is no pressure to go nude straight away, unrobe in your own time, And it might be better for you longer term knowing your with like minded people, rather than being pressured in a swingers club when your trying to find your inner confidence and your discover some guy tugging his todger next to you. I find it very distracting. And that's being kind or it might just set your confidence back weeks.

Google naturist and naked Scotland Web sites."

I'm not sure I could cope with that naked and exposed would freak me out even more! Thank you for the suggestion.. xx

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By *o_added_sugarWoman
over a year ago

A club not so many miles away

I never go in naked, always wear my play attire. Take extras so you can change when you get out. You would feel slightly out of place with a costume on but underwear is fine. There are allot of us that prefer not to get naked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be embarrassed of getting an erection and having to get out. Strange but true. If your in there chilling out in a none sexual contact scenario, it could be embarrassing. Iv yet to go to a club. Often wonder if it's frowned upon to walk about with an erection?

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By *o_added_sugarWoman
over a year ago

A club not so many miles away


"I'd be embarrassed of getting an erection and having to get out. Strange but true. If your in there chilling out in a none sexual contact scenario, it could be embarrassing. Iv yet to go to a club. Often wonder if it's frowned upon to walk about with an erection?"

Can tell you've never been to a club. It's not embarrassing to have a stiffy in a club, one would find it flattering. What isn't acceptable is putting it where it is not wanted before you ask permission

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wondered! I do tend to get a rod on at the hint of side boob!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rule #1 - Never, EVER trust a fart in a hot tub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be embarrassed of getting an erection and having to get out. Strange but true. If your in there chilling out in a none sexual contact scenario, it could be embarrassing. Iv yet to go to a club. Often wonder if it's frowned upon to walk about with an erection?"

Id be exactly the same

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By *obka3Couple
over a year ago

bournemouth


"I never go in naked, always wear my play attire. Take extras so you can change when you get out. You would feel slightly out of place with a costume on but underwear is fine. There are allot of us that prefer not to get naked "

Personally having a few clothes on is much sexier to look at, a bit of mystery adds interest, not many of us really believe we are drop dead gorgeous so most would feel like you, try a nudist beach if only topless to start with, you wont believe some of the sights but the feeling is great

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By *ity Slickers PartiesCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Brighton & Hove


"I'd be embarrassed of getting an erection and having to get out. Strange but true. If your in there chilling out in a none sexual contact scenario, it could be embarrassing. Iv yet to go to a club. Often wonder if it's frowned upon to walk about with an erection?"

In a Swinger Club you should feel embarrassed if you DO NOT get an erection my friend… be proud to show off your erection in the right place of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So walking round erect is fine? That's All that held me back lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No diving...?

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By *o_added_sugarWoman
over a year ago

A club not so many miles away


"So walking round erect is fine? That's All that held me back lol"

Yes it is perfectly normal. People do refrain from exposing themselves in the social areas but it is expected in the play areas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be embarrassed of getting an erection and having to get out. Strange but true. If your in there chilling out in a none sexual contact scenario, it could be embarrassing. Iv yet to go to a club. Often wonder if it's frowned upon to walk about with an erection?"

Lady delorean usually has a stroke of me under water whilst the bubbles can hid what she is doing. Getting an erection in the pool is part of her game lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what is the best club with hottub in manchester

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Hot tub etiquette wow you learn something new every day.

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By *xijenWoman
over a year ago

manchester


"So what is the best club with hottub in manchester "
Partners without a doupt..best wet area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what is the best club with hottub in manchester Partners without a doupt..best wet area"

Thanks will look for a night x

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton


"So what is the best club with hottub in manchester "

Ones that have the rule of NO fucking in them

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By *tormchaserMan
over a year ago

Bury


"Last year a lovely lady joined us for her first club outing at Partners. In the jacuzzi she started with a white T-shirt; then realised that there were people in there of all sorts and sizes. I have also seen men holding towels of their partners - and looking back we were a bit shy to start with for the usual reasons.

So wearing a little something is a good introduction and you can decide when and whether to strip off altogether.

Him"

I concur. Wear something to get in the water such as a t-shirt or swimming costume. You can always take it off under cover of the bubbles if and when you start to relax. Just make sure you have your towel handy when for when you get out. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks. Doubt I'll brave it any time soon but wondered about that!"

I am covered in scars all over my stomach from tummy tucks and go in naked. Honestly you won't have anything to worry about. X

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By *unknSoulCouple
over a year ago

dumfries-ish

Been to many a club and wore a bikini or pants and bra never a word said, just depends how i feel at the time if its busy when i walk in the wet area i tend to cover up if if quiet all off.

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

Not read the whole thread so may be duplicating.

There are some serious chemicals in club hot tubs so not a great idea to wear your £500 bikini.

A shower after though is a very good one.

xxx

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Last year a lovely lady joined us for her first club outing at Partners. In the jacuzzi she started with a white T-shirt; then realised that there were people in there of all sorts and sizes. I have also seen men holding towels of their partners - and looking back we were a bit shy to start with for the usual reasons.

So wearing a little something is a good introduction and you can decide when and whether to strip off altogether.

Him

I concur. Wear something to get in the water such as a t-shirt or swimming costume. You can always take it off under cover of the bubbles if and when you start to relax. Just make sure you have your towel handy when for when you get out. xx"

Just be careful of a T-shirt, as some clubs (not all) have signs that state swimwear or naked only. I once saw a lady go in the jacuzzi at Chams and wore an entire outfit, including stockings and 6 inch heels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not read the whole thread so may be duplicating.

There are some serious chemicals in club hot tubs so not a great idea to wear your £500 bikini.

A shower after though is a very good one.

xxx"

Ladies! Sick of ruining your £500 bikini in hot tubs? Simply pop down your local £1 shop and buy some bunting. Hey presto! Enough supplies to fashion several bikinis out of...

(Poster takes no responsibility for any cases of disco fanny resulting from this money saving tip)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what is the best club with hottub in manchester

Ones that have the rule of NO fucking in them "

What about leakage though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondered! I do tend to get a rod on at the hint of side boob! "

Embrace the stiffie my friend. My experience (not a huge amount, it has to be said) is that no one really cares that much. There may well be plenty of (admiring) looks but it is highly unlikely anyone will start complaining or screaming in horror that you have dared to corrupt their minds with your raging boner. Either that, or stay ion the hot tub for a bit longer to let things subside a bit. Mind you, it can always make a gentle and amusing conversation starter

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

Least ur have something to hang ur towel on

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

OP, people want you to be in the club, enjoying yourself and adding to the sexy atmosphere.

Just think of it this way, who would you rather have in the club? A fully naked person who looked really embarrassed and uncomfortable and like they weren't having fun. Or some who is covered up a bit, but feeling confident and sexy and really enjoying themselves?

I know which one I would pick

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, people want you to be in the club, enjoying yourself and adding to the sexy atmosphere.

Just think of it this way, who would you rather have in the club? A fully naked person who looked really embarrassed and uncomfortable and like they weren't having fun. Or some who is covered up a bit, but feeling confident and sexy and really enjoying themselves?

I know which one I would pick "

Thanks. That's my thinking to be honest too. However best get busy in the gym before I'm brave enough xx

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


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Thanks. That's my thinking to be honest too. However best get busy in the gym before I'm brave enough xx"

Well they say sex burns a lot of calories, so get busy in bed if you want to lose weight, and use the money you would have spent on a gym membership for more club visits

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

It is not particularly good to fill a hot tub with people wearing shirts, leggings or indeed any type of clothing.

ALL clothing carries the residue of detergent and/or softener chemicals and the more clothes there are the harder it is for the water in the hot tub to stay balanced.

Anyone using our hot tub gets naked, or they don't get in... Especially as it is me who has to clean it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Immodium can take away some peoples fears ... Not sure who else has seen the YouTube hot tub disasters....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fairly body conscious so keep my towel close so I can discard it at the last moment and slip seductively into the tub (probably more like a hippo). If there are any women that have worked out how to climb out of a hot tub naked whilst retaining some form of intimate privacy please share your tips. Giggle.

V xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks. Doubt I'll brave it any time soon but wondered about that!"

I went to chams back along and braved the hot tub naked. Actually I tell a lie I went in with a knickers on first, but took them off after about 10 min. I didn't play in the hot tub, but I was quite liberating to be naked in it.

Good luck once you pluck up the courage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm fairly body conscious so keep my towel close so I can discard it at the last moment and slip seductively into the tub (probably more like a hippo). If there are any women that have worked out how to climb out of a hot tub naked whilst retaining some form of intimate privacy please share your tips. Giggle.

V xxx"

He he I keep the towel wrapped round me until the last minute too

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By *ushandkittyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I'm fairly body conscious so keep my towel close so I can discard it at the last moment and slip seductively into the tub (probably more like a hippo). If there are any women that have worked out how to climb out of a hot tub naked whilst retaining some form of intimate privacy please share your tips. Giggle.

V xxx"

absolutely no reason to be body concious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm fairly body conscious so keep my towel close so I can discard it at the last moment and slip seductively into the tub (probably more like a hippo). If there are any women that have worked out how to climb out of a hot tub naked whilst retaining some form of intimate privacy please share your tips. Giggle.

V xxx

absolutely no reason to be body concious."

Thank you

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