FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging club no-nos?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm new to the swinging club scene.

I have visited Pennant Hall a couple of times. Not sure what is accepted behaviour?

Some of the rooms(open) play some porn films. Sitting on the sofa in one of the lounge areas, I got the urge to have a wank. The place is wonderfully friendly and easy-going so I thought ' porn is on, may go for it!'.

Several members walked in on me whilst I was wanking.

Not sure if this is a no-no? I don't want to offend anyone.

Can anyone give me some pointers on what is not acceptable...please!

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By *earlyNipsCouple
over a year ago

St Neots

It's not a no-no. It's more unusual to see a guy just jerking it in a swingers club on his own, but definitely not a no-no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playing with yourself infront of others will be acceptable to some folk and not others. Most club websites have FAQs which will explain what is acceptable behaviour, but its really just common sense.

Touching others without their permission is a def no no...as is hounding other guests at the club, ie following them like your on a hunting expedition. Just be polite, chat to people (the smoking areas are always the hub of conversation striking I find, even though I don't smoke) let your personality shine through, and don't have any expectations beyond that, and if you do get to play then consider it a cherry on top of a good evening out x A x

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By *ilyflo1Woman
over a year ago

Horsham

That's true. Live and let live

But be aware that it will put some people (not all) off chatting with you.

For me, I get uncomfortable if a guy is playing with himself whilst sat next to me, or whilst wandering about a club. It would not encourage me to engage in conversation or interaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its your cock so wank if u want !

Lol

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By *ollipop77Couple
over a year ago

Dubai / Manchester

"Its your cock so wank if u want !

Lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're in a play room with port on then I don't see any issue with pulling on off, but you might find that people won't interact with you is the only problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's absolutely nothing wrong with that at all, Some people will not be comfortable with it but they should remember where they are.

I bet a woman would get no complaints if she did the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont have a dump in the Hot Tub.

Flopping it out n asking passing randoms if the green bits look normal is bad form.

Use wet wipes not the Hem of a passing Womens Dress.

Pissing in a Balloon and water bombing people on the Dancefloor is a no no.

Taking Photos for Blackmail purposes is frowned upon

Gimp

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"Dont have a dump in the Hot Tub.

Flopping it out n asking passing randoms if the green bits look normal is bad form.

Use wet wipes not the Hem of a passing Womens Dress.

Pissing in a Balloon and water bombing people on the Dancefloor is a no no.

Taking Photos for Blackmail purposes is frowned upon

Gimp

Hahaha.. You never fail to make my laugh x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's absolutely nothing wrong with that at all, Some people will not be comfortable with it but they should remember where they are.

I bet a woman would get no complaints if she did the same. "

to us it doesn't matter where we are and even if we are in a swinger club, either a man or a woman playing solo would appear a little strange and make us uncomfortable, we would just move away from them though but would def put us off playing with nthem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont have a dump in the Hot Tub.

Flopping it out n asking passing randoms if the green bits look normal is bad form.

Use wet wipes not the Hem of a passing Womens Dress.

Pissing in a Balloon and water bombing people on the Dancefloor is a no no.

Taking Photos for Blackmail purposes is frowned upon

Gimp

Hahaha.. You never fail to make my laugh x"

Thank you, I take that as a compliment...Unless your a Psychiatrist then im totally fucked

Garrity Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst not unacceptable as you are at a swingers club if you were sat near me in a social area wanking I'd just move away. My first impression of you would be based on what I saw and I'd go and chat to someone with more social skills. Never been to that club but surely there are play areas and rooms.

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By *ralpleaseMan
over a year ago

El Campello, Alicante

As was stated by someone earlier, if it was a female sitting there masterbating there would not be many complaints.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As was stated by someone earlier, if it was a female sitting there masterbating there would not be many complaints.

I'd still move away if it was a female doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If others are openly playing then there is no problem.

The cinema seems to be a free for all.

Social lounge is probably not a good idea.

Neither in reception area or the toilet, near fire exits or near food.

Wanking into a swimming pool will probably be frowned upon.

But in small seated areas with tv showing porn, viewing area's play rooms.

Single guy's pay so much more than the rest of us, they really have the right to wank anywhere

Just kidding. Etiquette and manners will work wonders when trying to get some action.

Guy's who sit and stare freak us out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If others are openly playing then there is no problem.

The cinema seems to be a free for all.

Social lounge is probably not a good idea.

Neither in reception area or the toilet, near fire exits or near food.

Wanking into a swimming pool will probably be frowned upon.

But in small seated areas with tv showing porn, viewing area's play rooms.

Single guy's pay so much more than the rest of us, they really have the right to wank anywhere

Just kidding. Etiquette and manners will work wonders when trying to get some action.

Guy's who sit and stare freak us out. "

Are you freaked yet

Gimpoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's absolutely nothing wrong with that at all, Some people will not be comfortable with it but they should remember where they are.

I bet a woman would get no complaints if she did the same. "

This is a very good point!

When you think about it there are a lot of factors to take into account which would make the difference between this being acceptable or not. For example, if the "wanker" was a good looking, muscular guy, real "eye candy" with a smooth 10 inch cock, do you think that would be deemed more "acceptable" than if he was a less attractive, hairy guy who has to use his finger and thumb to masterbate?

Hmmm, I wonder if this has been done as a Youtube "social experiment"???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's absolutely nothing wrong with that at all, Some people will not be comfortable with it but they should remember where they are.

I bet a woman would get no complaints if she did the same.

This is a very good point!

Hmmm, I wonder if this has been done as a Youtube "social experiment"???

Mr "eye candy" wouldn't be wanking himself for long if I were in the club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's absolutely nothing wrong with that at all, Some people will not be comfortable with it but they should remember where they are.

I bet a woman would get no complaints if she did the same.

This is a very good point!

Hmmm, I wonder if this has been done as a Youtube "social experiment"???

Mr "eye candy" wouldn't be wanking himself for long if I were in the club

Well isn't that a coincidence as Belle said exactly the same thing!!! We just can't take you women anywhere!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont have a dump in the Hot Tub.

Flopping it out n asking passing randoms if the green bits look normal is bad form.

Use wet wipes not the Hem of a passing Womens Dress.

Pissing in a Balloon and water bombing people on the Dancefloor is a no no.

Taking Photos for Blackmail purposes is frowned upon

Gimp

You are a real kill joy Gimp!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's absolutely nothing wrong with that at all, Some people will not be comfortable with it but they should remember where they are.

I bet a woman would get no complaints if she did the same.

This is a very good point!

Hmmm, I wonder if this has been done as a Youtube "social experiment"???

Mr "eye candy" wouldn't be wanking himself for long if I were in the club

Well isn't that a coincidence as Belle said exactly the same thing!!! We just can't take you women anywhere!!

Not at all - we're just kind and considerate!

Mr eye candy's hand may get tired, ergo he may need us to step in and help him out!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What club does "Mr Eye Candy" go do, and can I go on line to join?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What club does "Mr Eye Candy" go do, and can I go on line to join?"

I would love to say...just don't want to be a big head...haven't got a ten incher though...I can tick the other boxes!

(waiting for an ego to be delivered in the post as my old one is being repaired by 'Big Headed Wankers-R-Us!). Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ermmmmm...............Ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's absolutely nothing wrong with that at all, Some people will not be comfortable with it but they should remember where they are.

I bet a woman would get no complaints if she did the same. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not seen Mr eye candy at any club we have been to recently. Seen plenty of Mr too much candy sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw this one bloke the other week, he thought he was a bit of eye candy, then we whacked his cock out in the club and started wanking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not seen Mr eye candy at any club we have been to recently. Seen plenty of Mr too much candy sadly. "

Lol, well it is Easter

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I saw this one bloke the other week, he thought he was a bit of eye candy, then we whacked his cock out in the club and started wanking

Ha ha-I deserved that!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It may or may not affect your chances - my gut feel is that it deter more than it attracts.

If a room has one single guy in it, who's wanking, then it likely will prevent many people entering it, who may otherwise have done so. It's probably better to keep wanking for more group sexual encounters, where there is permission, and may lead to other things.

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