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By *ungHedonista OP   Man
over a year ago

Stratford

I am looking for clubs and parties where the players are up for mostly play in the open areas or doors to the rooms are always open. Exhibitionist style.

I have been to a few clubs/party nights and most if not all play takes place behind closed doors.

What party nights or clubs can you recommend for open room players. I have a fem friend who prefers it when everyone is up for this play.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

It completely depends on how comfortable I feel in the environment

I have played in some open rooms and loved it,other places most definitely not because the vibe has been wrong for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always very surprised by couples who go to clubs and play on their own in a locked room. I suppose it may be that they have teenagers at home (no 15 year old wants to spot their mum in a latex corset!!!) Still seems a bit of a waste of the entrance fee to me So open rooms for me, unless of course the people I meet up with want to do dirty things to me in private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the clubs I've been to have both open and closed rooms. I'd check the club section on here for a little more info on what each club offers.

I prefer closed room as I've had hassle in open rooms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always very surprised by couples who go to clubs and play on their own in a locked room. I suppose it may be that they have teenagers at home (no 15 year old wants to spot their mum in a latex corset!!!) Still seems a bit of a waste of the entrance fee to me So open rooms for me, unless of course the people I meet up with want to do dirty things to me in private "

We are married (to each other) but we like to go Chams and play with each other in a private room, mainly because we have children living at home still and often find it difficult to make love at home with such a full and busy home lol.

We usually have a wander around the club first, have a drink (coffee) and go in the jacuzzi playing for a bit then go to a private room. At home we can't do that so Chams is great for us and well worth the entrance fee

We also play together in an open room as well as the jacuzzi (no full sex in the jacuzzi thou) but still usually end up on our own in a private room thru choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually play it by ear, depending in what the atmosphere is like will depend on if we leave the door open or closed. Also if it's a single guy night then generally we play behind locked door.

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

The Vanilla Alternative is one of the few clubs where all the play areas are open. This very popular venue confirms that there are many that like this format although drawn curtains indicate that participants wish to be left alone. Open viewing allows exhibitionists to show off, those sitting in the massive hot tub having something nice to watch, and on Friday nights when single guys attend, avoids single ladies and couples being followed by a trail of men as you find at some other clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always very surprised by couples who go to clubs and play on their own in a locked room. I suppose it may be that they have teenagers at home (no 15 year old wants to spot their mum in a latex corset!!!) Still seems a bit of a waste of the entrance fee to me So open rooms for me, unless of course the people I meet up with want to do dirty things to me in private "

Maybe they don't want single men wanking furiously at them whilst their playing and I've heard of some experiences where a single bloke has started touching up the woman while she's playing with her partner

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By *lieneWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

For me I think it depends on what you are wanting to do. Sir and His Lady take me to clubs and often we start off with some play in the open rooms. Both His Lady and I like being watched and playing together in the open rooms.

However, if Sir invites someone to join us then we go to a private room, unless Sir wants me to play with someone in the public area, where He would stay and watch to ensure that I am comfortable. If Sir is going to be spanking or caning me, more than likely we would go to the private bdsm area, not just because I can relax into it more but because we also respect the boundaries of others and understand not everyone is into that,

I think it ultimately depends on what you are wanting to do, what the vibe on the club is that evening, whether you are a bit of a exhibitionist and what you feel comfortable with.

After all everyone is there to enjoy themselves!

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By *ungHedonista OP   Man
over a year ago

Stratford

I suppose I am looking for a club where the focus is on partner swapping/fondling on a large bed- such as happens at Chameleons and the best of the Euro swing clubs I've been to.

Somewhere for the woman to be open to meeting random non pushy guys in a play setting and not feel the need to arrange a private room- something more spontaneous.

In some clubs if a couple plays in an open area you'd be frankly the only one doing it.

Will check out VA.

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By *ungHedonista OP   Man
over a year ago

Stratford

ps

I;ve been to Euro swing clubs and there are few if any private rooms - the focus is on swapping or exhibitionism. So just looking for a similar more hard core vibe.

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester


"Always very surprised by couples who go to clubs and play on their own in a locked room. I suppose it may be that they have teenagers at home (no 15 year old wants to spot their mum in a latex corset!!!) Still seems a bit of a waste of the entrance fee to me So open rooms for me, unless of course the people I meet up with want to do dirty things to me in private

Maybe they don't want single men wanking furiously at them whilst their playing and I've heard of some experiences where a single bloke has started touching up the woman while she's playing with her partner "

Single men standing close by and wanking - tick.

An uninvited single man touching my wife from behind without being invited, and another one who was about to in a different situation - tick.

That's why I find it difficult to relax in an open area on mixed nights; however enjoy them on couples nights.

[For those people wary of going to clubs these were isolated incidents but single men lurking - only a proportion of the single guys of course - is more of a problem].

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

VA is very open as someone else mentioned. I also think abfabs is quite open either with people fucking in public places or with the mirrors and glory holes. Hellfire has some great open areas but from what I hear it's not particularly popular at the moment.

Virginie xxxxx

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

VA.

There are no rooms so the option for private play isn't there at all.

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By *ollipop77Couple
over a year ago

Sunny Manchester

Amour in central manchester has a variety of rooms including a large open couples room where the rules are quite strict and no singles, male or female can enter without a partner. It also has a nice round orgy bed, though the don't touch unless invited rule still applies.

They also have a large open room for singles/couples.

Fantastic hot tub and sauna x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always very surprised by couples who go to clubs and play on their own in a locked room. I suppose it may be that they have teenagers at home (no 15 year old wants to spot their mum in a latex corset!!!) Still seems a bit of a waste of the entrance fee to me So open rooms for me, unless of course the people I meet up with want to do dirty things to me in private

Maybe they don't want single men wanking furiously at them whilst their playing and I've heard of some experiences where a single bloke has started touching up the woman while she's playing with her partner "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

eureaka is close to you open play down the meadow is popular, also has a room with a stable door so you can be watched but nobody can get in, and a large cples room where you can play amongst others or even join in with the right peeps,

we are exhibitionist and love being watched aswell as watching too

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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Op4f is all open too with the exception of a lockable viewable room. That can be quite a playful club.

At the The Vanilla Alternative here are no lockable rooms but there is a couples only area and other areas where you can curtain off the bed you are using so feels private.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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The bizzare parties are full on orgies, I haven't been to one though. It may be a little full on for me ... Although I'd like to watch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always very surprised by couples who go to clubs and play on their own in a locked room. I suppose it may be that they have teenagers at home (no 15 year old wants to spot their mum in a latex corset!!!) Still seems a bit of a waste of the entrance fee to me So open rooms for me, unless of course the people I meet up with want to do dirty things to me in private

We are married (to each other) but we like to go Chams and play with each other in a private room, mainly because we have children living at home still and often find it difficult to make love at home with such a full and busy home lol.

We usually have a wander around the club first, have a drink (coffee) and go in the jacuzzi playing for a bit then go to a private room. At home we can't do that so Chams is great for us and well worth the entrance fee

We also play together in an open room as well as the jacuzzi (no full sex in the jacuzzi thou) but still usually end up on our own in a private room thru choice "

Anywhere you can go to get some privacy when there are kids in the house is worth every penny of entrance fee. Those that don't have young kids and teenagers probably won't understand how much of your private time is lost when kids encroach upon it. Having private rooms in clubs certainly get the thumbs up from us!

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

luton

Jaydees has open play area s upstairs and lockable rooms downstairs for private play . We play at both . Depending on wife's mood we may leave doors open incase we want to invite others to join in . Or if wife spots someone she wants to join in . Unless we are playing with couple who want doors closed .no point in closing door if just two of us we can do that at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think most clubs have open and closed rooms - we have played in both just us and with others - depends on the mood and who is there - for me love being with W alone in a room but with all the sex noise going on and knowing others can see/hear us is a real turn on

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester


"Always very surprised by couples who go to clubs and play on their own in a locked room. I suppose it may be that they have teenagers at home (no 15 year old wants to spot their mum in a latex corset!!!) Still seems a bit of a waste of the entrance fee to me So open rooms for me, unless of course the people I meet up with want to do dirty things to me in private

We are married (to each other) but we like to go Chams and play with each other in a private room, mainly because we have children living at home still and often find it difficult to make love at home with such a full and busy home lol.

We usually have a wander around the club first, have a drink (coffee) and go in the jacuzzi playing for a bit then go to a private room. At home we can't do that so Chams is great for us and well worth the entrance fee

We also play together in an open room as well as the jacuzzi (no full sex in the jacuzzi thou) but still usually end up on our own in a private room thru choice

Anywhere you can go to get some privacy when there are kids in the house is worth every penny of entrance fee. Those that don't have young kids and teenagers probably won't understand how much of your private time is lost when kids encroach upon it. Having private rooms in clubs certainly get the thumbs up from us!

"

Not to mention kidults who won't leave home and/or keep coming back!

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By *imon and saffyCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Another vote here for lockable doors.

Teenager at home so we'll often get to a club and lock ourselves away for a while. Doesn't mean that we'll only play behind locked doors but it's our choice.

Quite often needed because of the number of single men, and men who have ditched their partners, who struggle to understand that they aren't the answer to everyone's prayers. Sometimes we don't want to have to keep saying no to each and every one of them, it spoils our fun.

Then there's other times, usually the same day, when we want to be in a wide open room.

If there wasn't the choice, we'd probably choose to not visit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always very surprised by couples who go to clubs and play on their own in a locked room. I suppose it may be that they have teenagers at home (no 15 year old wants to spot their mum in a latex corset!!!) Still seems a bit of a waste of the entrance fee to me So open rooms for me, unless of course the people I meet up with want to do dirty things to me in private

We are married (to each other) but we like to go Chams and play with each other in a private room, mainly because we have children living at home still and often find it difficult to make love at home with such a full and busy home lol.

We usually have a wander around the club first, have a drink (coffee) and go in the jacuzzi playing for a bit then go to a private room. At home we can't do that so Chams is great for us and well worth the entrance fee

We also play together in an open room as well as the jacuzzi (no full sex in the jacuzzi thou) but still usually end up on our own in a private room thru choice

Anywhere you can go to get some privacy when there are kids in the house is worth every penny of entrance fee. Those that don't have young kids and teenagers probably won't understand how much of your private time is lost when kids encroach upon it. Having private rooms in clubs certainly get the thumbs up from us!

Not to mention kidults who won't leave home and/or keep coming back! "

I have found having very loud sex all over the house, kitchen table, stairs etc brilliant for curing this affliction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always very surprised by couples who go to clubs and play on their own in a locked room. I suppose it may be that they have teenagers at home (no 15 year old wants to spot their mum in a latex corset!!!) Still seems a bit of a waste of the entrance fee to me So open rooms for me, unless of course the people I meet up with want to do dirty things to me in private

We are married (to each other) but we like to go Chams and play with each other in a private room, mainly because we have children living at home still and often find it difficult to make love at home with such a full and busy home lol.

We usually have a wander around the club first, have a drink (coffee) and go in the jacuzzi playing for a bit then go to a private room. At home we can't do that so Chams is great for us and well worth the entrance fee

We also play together in an open room as well as the jacuzzi (no full sex in the jacuzzi thou) but still usually end up on our own in a private room thru choice

Anywhere you can go to get some privacy when there are kids in the house is worth every penny of entrance fee. Those that don't have young kids and teenagers probably won't understand how much of your private time is lost when kids encroach upon it. Having private rooms in clubs certainly get the thumbs up from us!

Not to mention kidults who won't leave home and/or keep coming back!

I have found having very loud sex all over the house, kitchen table, stairs etc brilliant for curing this affliction "

we try and be quiet and get a whatsapp saying shut up

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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Lockable rooms can be great for an interrupted swap situation

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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Uninterrupted I mean!!!!

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By *heTwistedKinkCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Wirral

We just like options. Sometimes we will play in an open area. He will join others or we are happy for people to watch us. Other times, we just want some privacy but love watching others play first, then love sneaking off together and still hearing others fuck around us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always very surprised by couples who go to clubs and play on their own in a locked room. I suppose it may be that they have teenagers at home (no 15 year old wants to spot their mum in a latex corset!!!) Still seems a bit of a waste of the entrance fee to me So open rooms for me, unless of course the people I meet up with want to do dirty things to me in private

We are married (to each other) but we like to go Chams and play with each other in a private room, mainly because we have children living at home still and often find it difficult to make love at home with such a full and busy home lol.

We usually have a wander around the club first, have a drink (coffee) and go in the jacuzzi playing for a bit then go to a private room. At home we can't do that so Chams is great for us and well worth the entrance fee

We also play together in an open room as well as the jacuzzi (no full sex in the jacuzzi thou) but still usually end up on our own in a private room thru choice

Anywhere you can go to get some privacy when there are kids in the house is worth every penny of entrance fee. Those that don't have young kids and teenagers probably won't understand how much of your private time is lost when kids encroach upon it. Having private rooms in clubs certainly get the thumbs up from us!

Not to mention kidults who won't leave home and/or keep coming back!

I have found having very loud sex all over the house, kitchen table, stairs etc brilliant for curing this affliction "

We have done plenty of the same. They just stay in their rooms until the coast is clear then give us the "Oh My God you're disgusting having sex at your age" look, with a few gestures of fingers down throat puke action for even more disgusted effect! Which doesn't bother us in the slightest but it is nice to get away from it now and again to a Hotel or secluded wood or dare I say it a private locked room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from Eurekas in Kent, you might like to consider Pleasures near Maidstone.

There are several playrooms and virtually half are open for viewing/joining in. In particular, there are 2 large open playrooms in the main house where several couples can "mingle"!!

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By *aydeesclubCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Hi at Jaydees there are several places for open play, the most used are the cinema that's consists of a large round bed in the middle and 4 double covered mattress's at the edge. You then walk into large areas with St Andrews crosses, and various benches. There are plenty of chill out areas with seating on leather settees. Then a four poster bed with a St Andrews cross attached to it which is also well used. then downstairs there are lockable rooms and one lockable viewing room. We hope his sounds good to you

We get lots of couples and singles that like the open play, and a few that only like private play everyone is different.

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