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By *otfun101 OP   Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

Hello all, firstly I'm planning to attend a club over Easter, as a single guy going alone can you recommend a good venue. Secondly Any advice on do's and don't while visiting swingers clubs will be much appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello all, firstly I'm planning to attend a club over Easter, as a single guy going alone can you recommend a good venue. Secondly Any advice on do's and don't while visiting swingers clubs will be much appreciated. "

Something isn't right here. In 2012 you had a verification from a couple you met at Chams!

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

In all fairness, although it reads like a 1st visit, he didnt say hes going for the 1st time, he is just asking for some advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In all fairness, although it reads like a 1st visit, he didnt say hes going for the 1st time, he is just asking for some advice."

Yes, I understand that, but the etiquette and expectations are the same now as when he went all those years ago.

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By *otfun101 OP   Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

Thanks for the feedback, I should have made myself clearer. As a single guy I found the club to be great but one thing I did notice was groups of people who seem to know one another well so found it a little difficult getting involved. Although I did meet a couple who I have met a few times after my first visit. So for the forum was simply looking for advice on how to make my time there better than before.

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By *otfun101 OP   Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

Many thanks, you are totally correct I'm simply looking for advice on how to make my return a great one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First and foremost make sure you can attend the club you wish to as most have membership requirements, If thinking of attending Chams again I'd advise emailing the manager as there is a high demand for membership for single guys and it's not always available. If xtasia contact them too as you will also require membership to attend there. There will be some information on their websites that may be helpful too.

As you've attended a club before the do'd and dont's will be the same. Try holding a conversation with people - be polite and respectful with no expectations. Most people will be happy to chat but also be mindful that it doesn't mean they will want to play. Most of all go with an open mind and enjoy the social side, anything else is always a pleasurable bonus. Go with expectations to play and you set yourself up to be disappointed.

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By *otfun101 OP   Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

Thanks for the advice Annie

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