FabSwingers.com forum: Approaching a couple in a club!

By *nterracial2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Ribble Valley

So, we've dabbled in the club scene, from which we've had a few steamy sessions! However, you know when you approach the couple who have been eyeing you up all evening and conversation goes very dry very quickly! Not sure if it was the third bottle of wine between us or just them generally disinterested!

Any advice to conversing with another couple? Any etiquette/courtesy to follow?

Much appreciated.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

You both look great - drop the 3rd bottle of wine next time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drop the second as well and say we are going to the playrooms would love it if you wanted to join us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Drop the second as well and say we are going to the playrooms would love it if you wanted to join us"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Drop the second as well and say we are going to the playrooms would love it if you wanted to join us"

this - especially if they were trying to catch your eye very early on

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By *297crissy1Couple
over a year ago

oxfordshire

Just be your selves if you found the conversation lacking I've no doubt other thing would have been lacking aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we always say if you cant chat the small stuff the rest isnt going to happen

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By *angbang junkieCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

We always say "if you're going to chat small stuff, you wont get to the big stuff"!

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

We find this really difficult ourselves, last time we arranged to meet a couple from here at the club. It went a lot easier than just going to the club and hoping to find people (we had tried this method twice before). Also we spoke to a few people in the hot tub and had some soft play with them as well. So maybe a club with a hot tub or pool might be good, I guess a lot more barriers come down when you are already naked.

As a man I can't really comment on the gentleman of the OP couple, but the lady is extremely attractive, I can't imagine many men saying No, especially when naked in a tub/pool.

For me, consent is key, so what I tried in the tub was asking a lovely lady if it was ok to touch, and then placing a hand on the knee, thigh (not pushing to many boundaries too quickly) then if that feels nice, asking if it is ok to kiss, then if that is going well hands can wander a little bit more, but still checking in asking if it was ok when moving hands or lips to another erogenous zone. It seemed to work well for me so I think I will keep with that strategy next time as well.

But for women I guess if you like a guy you just have to keep on looking at him and smiling, he'll come over eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you both look so good im sure you wont have any trouble just look at the tips above and you will be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We always say "if you're going to chat small stuff, you wont get to the big stuff"!"

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

Don't 'approach couples' just cat to to them a few different times in an evening and if there is interest they will start another conversation with you...

So many single men do not realise this VERY important observation...

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