FabSwingers.com forum: Club virgin!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey guys n girls, just a question I've been wanting to ask is how do I man the fuck up and get to a club?

I've been wanting to go for quite sometime now (for the ladies of course) but I just don't know what to expect when I get in there?! I know there'll be sex and lots of it but what actually goes on besides that??

This cub needs a cougar!!!!!

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

Swinging is also about socialising so talking with others in the club is essential. Just be yourself, be respectful and communicate with others there, both male and female. Have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well to begin with research where you want to go, lots of clubs have different rules for single guys, for example I know Townhouse single guys have to first attend on a Wednesday for an induction evening. However there are certain events when non members can attend, such as the karaoke nights and the Fab socials. If you check the different clubs websites out you'll be in a much stronger position to know where you'll feel most comfortable. As for what to expect once you arrive, again this is going to be dependent on where you go, research! Some clubs have a bar feel, some more of a nightclub environment, check the websites for details of any events etc taking place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey guys n girls, just a question I've been wanting to ask is how do I man the fuck up and get to a club?

This cub needs a cougar!!!!!"

It's very social but I'm in the same boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey guys n girls, just a question I've been wanting to ask is how do I man the fuck up and get to a club?

This cub needs a cougar!!!!!

It's very social but I'm in the same boat

Hate to be harsh on the two of you but the nerves are never going to magically go away, it is a simple matter of man up and walk through the door!

Any decent club is going to show you around and introduce you to a few of the long term members, certainly at Townhouse new members are welcomed. I recommend giving the club a call and speaking to them, they really are friendly places.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the words of advice folks, think I need a kick up the arse to get me through that door!

Hope to chat with you guys soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile states..."I'm a mid 20's ex rugby player with a rather naughty adventurous side both in and out of the bedroom..."

Clearly not THAT adventurous then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would you feel nervous going into your local bar hun?

In my experience the clubs i attend are like nice bars that just happen to have playroom facilities should you meet someone you connect with.

The clubs staff are there to show you round n settle you in and most will will do a few introductions to club regulars if you let them know it your first visit then its up to you to make a sexy impression hun lol.

If you are respectful friendly n not pushy i am sure you will do fine.

Deffo ring a few clubs first n see whats going on that might interest you as they all have party nights that are great fun n i can deffo recommend cupids and the townhouse as 2 excellent clubs who welcome single gents although the townhouse do limit their single gents so give vicky n jim a ring first for further details and you can always have a chat to kim cupids manager on here on her justkimmy profile

hope thats helped happy clubbin hun

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