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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tried out a new swingers club last night, not mentioning any names as we dont want to paint a negative picture, but as we walked in the "service users" lol seemed hostile (looks/remarks general attitude) which gave us a good laugh and entertainment (reminded us of the zombies in shaun of the dead) anyway we decided not to go again. But what i dont get is why would you want to be hostile to someone? Surly its better to ignore? What does someone have to do to annoy you?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

The attitude was from other service users not the club owners/staff? All of them?

It would be lovely if everyone had a sunny disposition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a new club or new to you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just from the users, staff seemed ok hence the reason we dont want to name names, yep was our first time. We just put it down to being first timers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope it doesn't put you off, maybe you just picked the wrong night (when the club was full of arseholes lol)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hope it doesn't put you off, maybe you just picked the wrong night (when the club was full of arseholes lol)"

Hopefully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not the face of swinging I would like to believe exists. The reality doesn't seem to be anything like the fantasy

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By *mycd4uTV/TS
over a year ago

Barnsley

Don't let it put you off been to several clubs over the years and you often get the odd one or two people that seem to judge without even giving someone a second glance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try more clubs until you find the one you most enjoy

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By *ittenwantstoplayWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I know of a club which is always packed out but I think its definitely a case of quantity rather than quality as its cheap and easy to get in and the clientele definitely reflects that fact!

Suffice to say, I go to other clubs which are friendlier, cleaner, great people, better run and a lot more fun! ??

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By *isexmistressWoman
over a year ago

Prestwich

Plenty of people dont engage their brain when looking/staring..a smile isnt too hard to manage.

I wouldnt be bothered by it..theres other nights,clubs and people all more welcoming .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try being a single fem and having this happen to you. lol. It's not pleasant! I have always found staff friendly wherever I've gone, it is their job after all, but the attitudes of some customers have ensured I'll never go back to the club again.

Just keep looking until you find a club that suits you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try being a single fem and having this happen to you. lol. It's not pleasant! I have always found staff friendly wherever I've gone, it is their job after all, but the attitudes of some customers have ensured I'll never go back to the club again.

Just keep looking until you find a club that suits you.

"

Aww thats not nice, was this from other females? Maybe feeling a bit threatened by yourself? Maybe a bit jealous of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being a single fem and having this happen to you. lol. It's not pleasant! I have always found staff friendly wherever I've gone, it is their job after all, but the attitudes of some customers have ensured I'll never go back to the club again.

Just keep looking until you find a club that suits you.

Aww thats not nice, was this from other females? Maybe feeling a bit threatened by yourself? Maybe a bit jealous of you "

It is normally from other females, but it's a bit crap to judge people without getting to know them first.

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By *ollipop77Couple
over a year ago

Sunny Manchester


"Try being a single fem and having this happen to you. lol. It's not pleasant! I have always found staff friendly wherever I've gone, it is their job after all, but the attitudes of some customers have ensured I'll never go back to the club again.

Just keep looking until you find a club that suits you.

"

I have also had this experience as a single female!! Sometimes I feel that other women look at you as a threat!

In these cases I just smile and be super nice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being a single fem and having this happen to you. lol. It's not pleasant! I have always found staff friendly wherever I've gone, it is their job after all, but the attitudes of some customers have ensured I'll never go back to the club again.

Just keep looking until you find a club that suits you.

I have also had this experience as a single female!! Sometimes I feel that other women look at you as a threat!

In these cases I just smile and be super nice x"

I (f) find that some females of couples tend to get jealous; just smile and chat with some one else. In a club you get all kind of people from very nice to very unpleasant but think that's same in every day life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being a single fem and having this happen to you. lol. It's not pleasant! I have always found staff friendly wherever I've gone, it is their job after all, but the attitudes of some customers have ensured I'll never go back to the club again.

Just keep looking until you find a club that suits you.

I have also had this experience as a single female!! Sometimes I feel that other women look at you as a threat!

In these cases I just smile and be super nice x

I (f) find that some females of couples tend to get jealous; just smile and chat with some one else. In a club you get all kind of people from very nice to very unpleasant but think that's same in every day life"

I don't understand what people get jealous of? It's not like they have to play with you if they don't like the look of you. It leaves me confused.com!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being a single fem and having this happen to you. lol. It's not pleasant! I have always found staff friendly wherever I've gone, it is their job after all, but the attitudes of some customers have ensured I'll never go back to the club again.

Just keep looking until you find a club that suits you.

I have also had this experience as a single female!! Sometimes I feel that other women look at you as a threat!

In these cases I just smile and be super nice x

I (f) find that some females of couples tend to get jealous; just smile and chat with some one else. In a club you get all kind of people from very nice to very unpleasant but think that's same in every day life

I don't understand what people get jealous of? It's not like they have to play with you if they don't like the look of you. It leaves me confused.com!"
because your a newbie you could attract the same people others wanted to play with and most will want to "try" the newbie your a threat to them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear you had a poor experience first time at a club, regulars attitudes stink in some clubs, so we understand how you feel and had the same experience at one club so never went back, we now run a newbie night at a different club!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being a single fem and having this happen to you. lol. It's not pleasant! I have always found staff friendly wherever I've gone, it is their job after all, but the attitudes of some customers have ensured I'll never go back to the club again.

Just keep looking until you find a club that suits you.

I have also had this experience as a single female!! Sometimes I feel that other women look at you as a threat!

In these cases I just smile and be super nice x

I (f) find that some females of couples tend to get jealous; just smile and chat with some one else. In a club you get all kind of people from very nice to very unpleasant but think that's same in every day life"

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