FabSwingers.com forum: Exeter Swingers / Secrets / Gems

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would love to attend either Exeter Swingers, Secrets or Gems. Have never been to a club meet before but struggling to get verified on here, I am a decent, honest and genuine guy looking for a meet.

If there are any females on here who would like to "show me the ropes" and attend one of these venues with me I would be more than pleased to accept your offer

If your interested then please don't hesitate to get in touch.

Thanks for reading and look forward to hearing from you!

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Exeter swingers and Gems allow single males in.

Why not go on your own?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Secrets is a brilliant place hosted by two brilliant party people so that would be my recommendation. They've only recently accepted single males to attend so you'll probably have to book well in advance as they only hold parties once a month...better of course to go with a woman but you know that lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys... I would be willing to go on my own. But be honest, do single guys get noticed amongst all the couple or are single guys left out?

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Thanks guys... I would be willing to go on my own. But be honest, do single guys get noticed amongst all the couple or are single guys left out? "

Depends on the single guy!

Going as a couple - especially a 'temporary' one where you know bugger all about each other won't make things any easier for you.

If anything - more awkward.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks guys... I would be willing to go on my own. But be honest, do single guys get noticed amongst all the couple or are single guys left out?

Depends on the single guy!

Going as a couple - especially a 'temporary' one where you know bugger all about each other won't make things any easier for you.

If anything - more awkward.

Thanks for the advice guys! I will bite the bullet and attend one on my own

hopefully I will be able to get a verification and things will go from there!

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By *eglieanCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

"Thanks guys... I would be willing to go on my own. But be honest, do single guys get noticed amongst all the couple or are single guys left out? "

Dont think you have the right info on the club scene. You go to these places to meet people,, in not a pay to get in so you get to play. You need to socialise and if you connect the play works. Like going back to courting years out on the pull,, but everyones a little more grown up about it.

Its hardest for single guys, as so many have pissed couples off expecting just to get in and feel they have paid to play. If you think differently, prehaps go to a gang bang club, but even then if the lady doesnt like you and sayes no,, no it is.

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By *reasyontheeyesMan
over a year ago

out in the sticks

I've been to clubs as a single guy and with a friend. Always go expecting nothing and have never come away disappointed.

Respect people's wishes and be polite it will get you a long way.

Sometimes I've chatted to couples and not played but had an invite through fab to meet at a later date. Call it an introduction place if you wish.

Above all don't follow couples and prowl from room to room. It looks desperate.

Have fun and enjoy!

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