FabSwingers.com forum: Most sociable London club?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

losing my club virginity soon - any advice on which London clubs are the most sociable/welcoming/inviting for a newbie single male? I have a feeling that I'm going to enjoy the scene (have wanted to go for a looooong time) and want to start on the right foot!

Any advice much appreciated

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By *appypear12Couple
over a year ago

huntingdon

U wont find better than abfads just off terminal 4 off m25 g8 club

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"U wont find better than abfads just off terminal 4 off m25 g8 club "

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

Or try out Eureka's

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Or try out Eureka's

Yes wanted to go to Eurekas in the summer but working out of the country ment putts my that on hold ...

Do you recommend for new single males during club nights? (Should say I'm not looking at being a 'follower' around the place looking at meeting people, gaining friends and developing an ongoing thing)

Thanks for your help! xx

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By *ittenwantstoplayWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Or try out Eureka's

All personal preference of course but I have never found Eurekas friendly... on the contrary, I am sorry but I find it a bit cliquey. ..and not a great play club. But thats just me.

I love Ab Fabs though...Also VA but thats not in London...

I think central London could do with a nice club. Unless there is already but I dont know of it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks kitten - what's VA?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP4F is in London, I've never been but the reviews in the club section are good.

Ab Fabs is fun but I can't comment from a single male point of view as to which is the friendliest.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I foundon't Our Place 4 Fun to be a friendly little club. Although they do limit single males so you'd be better ringing ahead.

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

"Or try out Eureka's

Yes wanted to go to Eurekas in the summer but working out of the country ment putts my that on hold ...

Thanks for your help! xx"

You more than welcome to come along sometime / meet me there if you want to see what it's like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP4F is in London, I've never been but the reviews in the club section are good.

Ab Fabs is fun but I can't comment from a single male point of view as to which is the friendliest."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Or try out Eureka's

Yes wanted to go to Eurekas in the summer but working out of the country ment putts my that on hold ...

Thanks for your help! xx

You more than welcome to come along sometime / meet me there if you want to see what it's like. "

Very kind xx (I'll send you a message)

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

"Thanks kitten - what's VA?

xx"

Vanilla Alternative is a club. Maybe look at the clubs forum page.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks kitten - what's VA?

Vanilla Alternative is a club. Maybe look at the clubs forum page. "

Have been but have information overload from reading all reviews and visiting all club websites lolol

Will have another look thanks again xxx

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"losing my club virginity soon - any advice on which London clubs are the most sociable/welcoming/inviting for a newbie single male? I have a feeling that I'm going to enjoy the scene (have wanted to go for a looooong time) and want to start on the right foot!

Any advice much appreciated

OurPlace4fun is very friendly and so is AbFab. AbFab is quite large so unless you are the confident type to walk a few paces to say "hello" to someone, try op4f first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're not a single male, obviously, but out of Abfabs and OP4F we'd choose the latter for a first time experience. Abfabs can be a bit overwhelming and a bit of a scrum on a single males night, whereas OP4F limits the single males. Plus the hosts are always close by to welcome you and have a bit of a chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Euerkas always welcome single guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any advice much appreciated

OurPlace4fun is very friendly and so is AbFab. AbFab is quite large so unless you are the confident type to walk a few paces to say "hello" to someone, try op4f first"

thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're not a single male, obviously, but out of Abfabs and OP4F we'd choose the latter for a first time experience. Abfabs can be a bit overwhelming and a bit of a scrum on a single males night, whereas OP4F limits the single males. Plus the hosts are always close by to welcome you and have a bit of a chat."

Spot on .. we've done a few clubs in London now OP4F definitely unique for single guys & girls.

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By *srsozeMan
over a year ago

Romford

I've been thinking about going to a club for a while as a single guy.

Abfabs was going to be the one so I could let it all hang out, but I think I should consider op4f now though by the sounds of it.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

"I've been thinking about going to a club for a while as a single guy.

Abfabs was going to be the one so I could let it all hang out, but I think I should consider op4f now though by the sounds of it. "

Have you thought about Paradise Spa? Always socials on there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been thinking about going to a club for a while as a single guy.

Abfabs was going to be the one so I could let it all hang out, but I think I should consider op4f now though by the sounds of it.

Have you thought about Paradise Spa? Always socials on there."

Yessss looked into it but just bit confused as to where the best place is to make a frequent goer

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or try out Eureka's

Definitely a great social place, my favourite

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By *orgeouslyyoursWoman
over a year ago

essex just looking around

If your going to club Remember most only allow guys on a Friday .. Eurekas and odd other club allow single guys all time ..

It's all a numbers game ... More greedy and single girls .. Better looking you are. Wherever you go will be fun xx

I've been around 12 clubs .. I'm bi so don't mind couples but also like single guys .. All clubs have certain ,edits and the experience depends who you meet on night x

I don't go to clubs with need or intention to play but the only place I've ever found decent hot singles that float my boat is Eurekas.

For a single guy there's always a mix of couples and single females there on a Saturday night ..

Come 24th. It's my birthday xx

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

As a single guy I have been to both Eureka's and OurPlace4Fun. Both on different Friday nights.

I found Eurekas extremely heavy going and quite difficult to get to talk with anyone. I'd say it's quite cliquey.

OurPlace4Fun was just what it said. I chatted with loads of people, there was plenty of playing going on and I left feeling I not only had had a good time but that I had made some friends also. I'll definitely be going back there again.

Haven't tried AdFabs yet but it's on my 'to do' list.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

We tried Eurekas both daytime and night-time and also found it cliquey. And the music was so loud on the party night that socialising was practically impossible. Great if you just want to dance - I'd personally go to a nightclub if that was what I wanted but it's very much horses for courses.

We like Abfabs but tend to go on a Monday bi night when we can. Fridays can be a little manic for a newbie single guy I think.

I'd suggest going there during the day at the weekend when it's in Kestrels mode (naturist swingers spa). That way you can regard it as a 'spa day' and check the place out but can also have some fun if the chance arises. I think there would be less pressure that way. Single guys are very well received during the day and it's all very relaxed.

Just a suggestion

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

"Or try out Eureka's

Yes wanted to go to Eurekas in the summer but working out of the country ment putts my that on hold ...

Thanks for your help! xx

You more than welcome to come along sometime / meet me there if you want to see what it's like. "

Do I get an invite too missy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If your going to club Remember most only allow guys on a Friday .. Eurekas and odd other club allow single guys all time ..

It's all a numbers game ... More greedy and single girls .. Better looking you are. Wherever you go will be fun xx

I've been around 12 clubs .. I'm bi so don't mind couples but also like single guys .. All clubs have certain ,edits and the experience depends who you meet on night x

I don't go to clubs with need or intention to play but the only place I've ever found decent hot singles that float my boat is Eurekas.

For a single guy there's always a mix of couples and single females there on a Saturday night ..

Come 24th. It's my birthday xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice all xxx

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