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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

any advice ladies?! Debating going alone tonight to one in ashby but would be my first time!

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By *outhyorkshireMan
over a year ago

south yorkshire

I know im not a lady but go have a look, you don't have to play, tell them at the door that this is your first time, im sure they will show you around and you can take it from there. Dont do anything you aren't comfortable doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you should be fine , tell the staff its your first visit and alone , they will look after you and maybe introduce you to some of the regulars,

you will be safer in a club than if you went out on the town,

remember you don't have to play with anyone, just go and have fun

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon

Im pretty sure if you let them know its your first time the owners and staff will be more than helpful Have a fantastic night .

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth


"any advice ladies?! Debating going alone tonight to one in ashby but would be my first time!"

If it's the club I think it is it's not in Ashby, it's in zouch.

It's a lovely little club and the people that have been there when I've been have been very nice. As has been said already, tell the staff it's your first time. They will show you around and as you're a lady on your own they will look out for you to make sure you're ok. If you do have any concerns about anything while you're there, go speak to the staff who will deal with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always nervous a first time visit and like others have said tell the staff and youll be fine just try relax and chat have fun make friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always go alone to a club. Very empowering and liberating xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always go alone to a club. Very empowering and liberating xx "

It is. Just relax and have fun. I always think if I don't like somewhere I can just walk out. Never rely on anyone for transport and you don't need to couple up with a man to have fun. Tell the staff it's your first time and you are nervous. Good clubs look after their single ladies. Good luck

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I always go alone to a club. Very empowering and liberating xx

It is. Just relax and have fun. I always think if I don't like somewhere I can just walk out. Never rely on anyone for transport and you don't need to couple up with a man to have fun. Tell the staff it's your first time and you are nervous. Good clubs look after their single ladies. Good luck "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always go alone to a club. Very empowering and liberating xx

Good clubs look after their single ladies. Good luck "

Absolutely right. My local club is townhouse and is very very good at looking out for single ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im more than happy going to clubs alone as I find it means you have to go talk to other people and not be shy...take the plunge hun its more than worth it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't dare go alone right now BUT I might change my mind one day.

A few ladies I know do though and love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im always going to clubs/party's alone, I love the freedom, always someone to natter to, being confident to chat to people does help, I never go with expectations

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

London.


"Im always going to clubs/party's alone, I love the freedom, always someone to natter to, being confident to chat to people does help, I never go with expectations"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love going to clubs on my own as i can do my own thing. Without having to worry about what others want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im always going to clubs/party's alone, I love the freedom, always someone to natter to, being confident to chat to people does help, I never go with expectations"

It's not lack of confidence for me it's safety in numbers x

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