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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Off to my first club tomorrow I'm a bit nervous any tips how to over come them thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vodka & valium

Have fun x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Vodka & valium

Have fun x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you off to Jaydees?

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax and enjoy yourself. Let the hosts know you are new and they will show you around and let you know any do's or don't. Remember you don't have to do anything you don't want to. Our first club was effectively a meet and greet and calm our nerves and speak to clubbers to find out how it worked. Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you off to Jaydees?

Her "

Yes hun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you off to Jaydees?

Her

Yes hun x"

Come and say hello x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deep breaths and take your time.

I remember my first time when i went. I was beyond nervous - but got there in the end.

Just go in when you're ready x

All the best

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Deep breaths and take your time.

I remember my first time when i went. I was beyond nervous - but got there in the end.

Just go in when you're ready x

All the best

"

Thank u x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went my first club last Friday was really nervous but loved looking forward to going again xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to our first club last week, I was full of nerves. A few drinks though and I was fine had a real good night.

Enjoy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went jaydees for the first time last weekend, we were really nervous too. But everyone was so welcoming and there's no pressure to do anything x

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

you'll have a great time hun. just remember, your the boss, you only do what you want to do, if you want to say no then say no, don't do anything because you think it's expected of you because it's not. and 99? of people will be OK with being told no.. Clubs are great places to socialise with like minded people and more if you hit it off. Relax, treat it like your going in a new pub for the first time, and enjoy xx

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By *RS79Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Off to my first club tomorrow I'm a bit nervous any tips how to over come them thanks in advance

"

go for it relax and enjoy! you are a sexy and beautiful woman and will love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't go with any pre-conceptions or expectations as that is usually the cause of disappointment.

Break the ice as soon as possible with others, light hearted chat soon relieves any early nerves, there are usually some very funny polite guys there to chat to even if you don't want to fuck them they will make you feel welcome.

And when the serious fun starts and your ready to play make sure your clear about who who want to play with and more important who you do not, just say no to any guys your not interested in or if they go to touch just push their hand away this should be enough to tell them your not interested.

Have fun and enjoy

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

Jaydees is a really friendly club. Just take things at your own pace. There won't be any pressure from anyone but, as has been said previously, you're in charge. Start by socialising (there won't be any shortage of people wanting to chat), you will get the full guided tour of the club, and then just watch or maybe chill out in the hot tub (don't forget to bring a towel). Most of all have fun. It was my birthday yesterday so it will be a belated party for me. See you there.

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By *andyMooCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Don't be nervous be excited.

You will love it. Ask for Susie at the door she will show you both around.

It's a great place to pop your club cherry.

See you tonight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you off to Jaydees?

Her

Yes hun x"

I will be there hey don't worry so friendly xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you off to Jaydees?

Her

Yes hun x

I will be there hey don't worry so friendly xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time I was bag off nerves at going so before I went I phoned the club and explained I was they were realy nice and told me to come in and theyed have a chat to me etc . I think if anyone ever is really nervous they should do same ! .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont worry op your a female...you have tits and a fanny.

Nice to see so many couples and fems saying come and say hi etc.

Now if this was a single guy thread asking....would the replys be the same. I think not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont worry op your a female...you have tits and a fanny.

Nice to see so many couples and fems saying come and say hi etc.

Now if this was a single guy thread asking....would the replys be the same. I think not. "

Of course they would from me

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By *andyMooCouple
over a year ago

bedford


"Dont worry op your a female...you have tits and a fanny.

Nice to see so many couples and fems saying come and say hi etc.

Now if this was a single guy thread asking....would the replys be the same. I think not. "

Probably would. Maybe not at all clubs but Jaydees is always welcoming.

Unless you have a chip on your shoulder. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How was it? Did you have a good night?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Going tonight x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with open mind and be in control.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Definately x

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By *edonism2014Man
over a year ago

St Albans

Just think of it as a party. If anything else happens go with the flow, but stop if you feel uncomfortable.

H xx

PS going to a new club tonight only my second time!

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

Would love to hear about the OP's experiences last night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had an amazing night lots of firsts for me still smiling this morning x

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By *andyMooCouple
over a year ago

bedford


"Had an amazing night lots of firsts for me still smiling this morning x"

We are pleased you had such a great time.

Thinking about it now you came in with shaky hands and left with shaky legs.

That's the sign of a good night.

It was great to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had an amazing night lots of firsts for me still smiling this morning x"

Cool.....!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Had an amazing night lots of firsts for me still smiling this morning x

We are pleased you had such a great time.

Thinking about it now you came in with shaky hands and left with shaky legs.

That's the sign of a good night.

Lovely to meet you two too x

It was great to meet you. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to chams last night to enquire about membership which I have now got))) took a long time to build up the courage if I'm honest so if I can give you advise is just think sod it I am me no one is better than me hold your head high and take em by storm plus you have a tongue I hope to say no thank you and yes please if people get pushy in there report them and I'm sure the management will gladly help. Head held high and be your self play safe and be happy

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford

I'm off to Xtasia in January for the foam thingy I'm lucky I'm going with someone off here still bricking it though X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm off to Xtasia in January for the foam thingy I'm lucky I'm going with someone off here still bricking it though X"

Have fun

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford


"I'm off to Xtasia in January for the foam thingy I'm lucky I'm going with someone off here still bricking it though X

Have fun "

I will thank you X

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