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How often do you attend a club

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By *oshnnaughty OP   Couple
over a year ago

Warwick

Just curious to know how often couples attend a club on average, is it a weekly visit or less ? Perhaps you only go a few times a year or have been just once. Interested to know what the average is and which club you attend.

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By *itSamCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We like to go to a club every Saturday. It is usually xtasia and sometimes depending on what is on we venture to others.

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By *ngie1962Couple
over a year ago

Bedford

We go weekly best place to meet people for first time no pressure from either side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 or 3 times a year.

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By *ltraglideCouple
over a year ago

mansfield

about once a month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With young kids, it's not easy. We've been twice to Libs since August and we're off to Xtasia for the first time on Friday. After that, I don't think we'll go again for a good few months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We go to a lot of clubs. Chameleons is our favorite but we go to xtasia, retro and adventures. Probable do 40 visits a year. We are greedy. Lol

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I'm go a couple of times a month... Just in from the The Vanilla Alternative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes once a week... But been as often as 4 times in a week x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At most 3 or 4 times a year interspersed with parties and meets at home...We like to mix it up. Different things meet different needs and time is a massive factor with work and family stuff...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 to 4 times a month for us x

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By *az_1976Man
over a year ago

Peterborough/Huntingdon

I'm going more and more these days. 2-3 times a month now

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

Anything from once or twice a month to up to 3 times in a week! probably about once a week on average (twice the week just gone and 2 different clubs).

We think they are fun, safe places to meet and if we end up just the two of us that's OK as well.

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twice a month usually

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By *ongton loversCouple
over a year ago

stokeontrent

On average at least once a fortnight, Atlantis, chams, the attic, amour,infusion, sameplace Amsterdam, in fact we try to visit as many clubs as possible

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Usually every week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most weeks

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

As a club, we have found that people can't afford to attend clubs as often as they would like to and other clubs will probably agree with this. When we first opened nearly 10 years ago, the club was packed every night. Obviously after the novelty wore off of a new club, the numbers declined a little, but it was still steadily busy. Then the recession hit and people were staying in more, having their own parties and meeting online. ALL clubs have felt this immensely and many have closed or at least cut some of their nights down. Many have changed hands (like ours) and some have changed direction with how they run.

We get our regulars like every club, then we get people who make it once a month on party nights, then others who can only make it quarterly.

I know that many would like to come more and despite our club being reasonable, it's not feasible... babysitters, travelling to the club, entry etc...

Private parties are killing some clubs and people are making money from some of these parties....good on 'em is all I say as there is a market for private parties, but clubs still need support.

There was one club that closed not so long ago (it will remain unnamed) and people were moaning that there weren't any other clubs in the area and how bad it was blah blah....the same people hadn't been to the club for AGES! The old adage, 'use it or lose it' comes to mind.

Thankfully we are doing great, but I know that some of our colleagues in other clubs are struggling.

Anyway, I shall step down off my soapbox now!!!

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

twice a week, but have been doing alternative meets the past 4 weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't go anymore, the last time was last year, just to expensive for single men nowadays lol

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By *ickey and MinnieCouple
over a year ago

South of Bath

Been to one this year but didn't enjoy the experience

Maybe more often in the new year as we have been let down a few times with arranged meets not showing up

Can't do it too often as we need sitters plus we get nervous at clubs that have single guys (our problem I know)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once or twice a month. I only get every other weekend to play and I don't tend to meet elsewhere.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

Usually once or twice a month for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around 4-5 times a year for us x

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By *er_kateCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We have young children so only get out once a month we usual go no 3 or infusions hoping to try partners next nite out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It normaly averages out to once or twice a month. Sometimes 3 nights one after the other, sometimes nothing for a couple of months. Depending on whats on at the clubs I go to and how much spare cash I've got.

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I try to go at least once a week. I was there at least three times in a week earlier this month though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go one club regularly once a month and try to fit in a visit somewhere new every month too...can be costly with travel and hotel but most clubs are worth the expense if you go with the right frame of mind...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go once a month x use to be twice a month x always eureka's as nearer

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

It depends on so many factors.

We used to go a lot more but we had an aupair so we could go at the drop of a hat, be back in the early hours and kids were none the wiser!

We've not had one for a few years so now it's a case of if the stars align!

The reason we don't go more is simply because of lack of babysitters, there are only 2 people we trust so very dependant on them, and sometimes it's just not convenient.

D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most weeks for us but not been for nearly 2 weeks moneys been tight

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Clubs are a bit thin on the ground down our way so we tend to travel to Abfabs bi night / Kestrels when we get the chance, which is maybe 4 times a year for Abfabs and about the same for Kestrels (tends to be more in the Summer months for the half decent weather).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It varies, depends on what else we have going on. Sometimes 2 or 3 times a month. Other times we can go a couple of months between visits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as much as we would like to be honest but struggling to find one we like lately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 or 5 times a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not often enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends whats on .. every saturday we attend townhouse and on occasional fridays too and maybe in the week once if we fancy it and dont have our son so at least 1ce a week. Love it! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not got round to it yet or should i say not grown the balls to

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By *omeojulietCouple
over a year ago

Great Yarmouth

Having children and busy professional life it isn't easy to arrange time to play in clubs. There is no clubs nearby but we managed to have our first club experience at the VA. Looking forward to go to a club again soon. Tired of be disappointed in some meets arranged through fabswingers. Xxx

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

We used to go most weeks, but now about twice a month, either Tease, JayDees or Chams.

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

We go once a week as a rule. Now and again we have a break though so it isn't same old same.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We go to a local club most weeks on either Wednsday or Friday afternoons and one some distance away monthly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been once and hoping to go to a social this week..all part of the learning curve for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to go Chams at least once a month for a few years then it got a bit less s family stuff and sport got more busy then i got injured (not at Chams) and it was difficult and painful to cope with the amount of stairs there or get in and out the jacuzzi so we havn't been for ages and ages, i have had an operation now and hopefully we will start going again when i can pluck up courage to try using all those stairs again !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to one.

Have been told with my 'interest' I should!

Susan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 to 5 times a year for us.

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By *ed and lexyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Twice a week.... are we addicted lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to attend clubs 3-4 times a week, but the novelty wore off, it got a bit samey. So now 1-2 times a month at most

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