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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know it's an early post but I will be going to chams xmas party on Monday 22nd who else is planning on going???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expect it to be a busy day/night as a lot will have broken up for Christmas....but it will be the usual bisexual rules that apply so hopefully lots of bi action going on all over the place all day lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I expect it to be a busy day/night as a lot will have broken up for Christmas....but it will be the usual bisexual rules that apply so hopefully lots of bi action going on all over the place all day lol xx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I expect it to be a busy day/night as a lot will have broken up for Christmas....but it will be the usual bisexual rules that apply so hopefully lots of bi action going on all over the place all day lol xx"

Well you know me annie, always one for putting on a show!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking forward to a few shows throughout the day/night x x

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By *ove bi guysWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Looking forward to a few shows throughout the day/night x x"

oooh I hope some sexy bi guys put on a show for me .... its on my Christmas wish list x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will be there to watch the action.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well we'll have to get a few together to entertain up then lol.

Think they should give me a Christmas treat lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm... I've a month to find a lady to accompany...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show noo mass join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why would you wanna go on a bi night guilty as your straight ..........we find a lot of straight guys dont like other men approaching them or seeing 2 or men playing together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"well we'll have to get a few together to entertain up then lol.

Think they should give me a Christmas treat lol"

Annie and all you lovely ladies it will be my pleasure to entertain you as long as there is another willing chap or two!!! Xmas treats all round x

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By *andS66Couple
over a year ago

Derby


"why would you wanna go on a bi night guilty as your straight ..........we find a lot of straight guys dont like other men approaching them or seeing 2 or men playing together

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The male half of you is straight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why would you wanna go on a bi night guilty as your straight ..........we find a lot of straight guys dont like other men approaching them or seeing 2 or men playing together

"

Oh no, not at all - I was at a very bi-friendly event called 'strapped', a while back, and witnessed all sorts of kinky naughtiness - sub domme relationships, TVs, cuckolding both bi and straight - and none of it bothered me in the slightest.

In fact, I'd say that all the forms of naughtiness added to the atmosphere and heightened arousal levels.

I also received an almighty spanking by a hot domme.... Good times lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"why would you wanna go on a bi night guilty as your straight ..........we find a lot of straight guys dont like other men approaching them or seeing 2 or men playing together

Oh no, not at all - I was at a very bi-friendly event called 'strapped', a while back, and witnessed all sorts of kinky naughtiness - sub domme relationships, TVs, cuckolding both bi and straight - and none of it bothered me in the slightest.

In fact, I'd say that all the forms of naughtiness added to the atmosphere and heightened arousal levels.

I also received an almighty spanking by a hot domme.... Good times lol"

im not sure if us bi guys should be honoured or offended at your 'bi friendly' attitude lol

either way its all about having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

im not sure if us bi guys should be honoured or offended at your 'bi friendly' attitude lol

either way its all about having fun"

I think of it as 'fun friendly'

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By *parklyfluffCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

We carnt wait to go

I love watching dale play bi, just hoping that there will be some genuine bi couples there as we have found alot of men say there bi to get to the ladies.x x x

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By *achelnMarkCouple
over a year ago

Mid Wiltshire

We could be tempted...

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Wish we weren't so far away

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By *achelnMarkCouple
over a year ago

Mid Wiltshire


"Wish we weren't so far away "

The premier inn is only £29

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We'll be there

It's our pervy treat on the way to visit family for xmas lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I guess single men have to wait to come to the top of a waiting list to get in? How does that work? Single men aren't gonna say 'I don't wanna be a member anymore'....

Chams is a place I'd like to go to but it's bloody unlikely. It's on my fantasy list. 8th from the top.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's different on a Monday as you can have Monday night only membership for guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a Bisexual only membership but the same rules apply for membership as a full one as in no guarantee and not always available

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We've just booked our hotel....looking forward to seeing everyone on the 22nd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do many tvs go? Don't want to be on my lonesome lol

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales


"Do many tvs go? Don't want to be on my lonesome lol "

Yep on bi days

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By *ove bi guysWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Do many tvs go? Don't want to be on my lonesome lol "

Def won't be on your own. Always a few tv loveys on a Monday x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to try a bi-night somewhere but as a signle guy have read some club rules and feel like they are aimed at keeping you away.

Also I am a bit nervous but the idea of hubby fucking me as the wife watches and the next hubby being wanked or sucked to hardness to have a go next just sounds like fucking fun :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would love to try a bi-night somewhere but as a signle guy have read some club rules and feel like they are aimed at keeping you away.

Also I am a bit nervous but the idea of hubby fucking me as the wife watches and the next hubby being wanked or sucked to hardness to have a go next just sounds like fucking fun :P "

If you find acquiring a membership at Chams difficult - there's always Bi Night at Xtasia (first and last thursday of the month, I believe) - it's definitely a different vibe - but you may find what you're looking for....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do many tvs go? Don't want to be on my lonesome lol

Def won't be on your own. Always a few tv loveys on a Monday x"

Thanks well I'm going to have to check it out I have only ever been to isis and I was less than impressed x

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By *ove bi guysWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Do many tvs go? Don't want to be on my lonesome lol

Def won't be on your own. Always a few tv loveys on a Monday x

Thanks well I'm going to have to check it out I have only ever been to isis and I was less than impressed x"

Well hopefully you'll enjoy chams .... Very relaxed and friendly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do many tvs go? Don't want to be on my lonesome lol

Def won't be on your own. Always a few tv loveys on a Monday x

Thanks well I'm going to have to check it out I have only ever been to isis and I was less than impressed x

Well hopefully you'll enjoy chams .... Very relaxed and friendly x"

That I completely concur with - you almost forget you're just wearing a towel...almost...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looks like it's shaping up to be a great night x I'm staying over so will be there to the death... Hmmmm how do I make myself look half decent looking like Santa???

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By *ove bi guysWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Looks like it's shaping up to be a great night x I'm staying over so will be there to the death... Hmmmm how do I make myself look half decent looking like Santa???"

A cute red hat, a welcoming knee to sit on and a full sack

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looks like it's shaping up to be a great night x I'm staying over so will be there to the death... Hmmmm how do I make myself look half decent looking like Santa???

A cute red hat, a welcoming knee to sit on and a full sack "

Hahaha love it

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By *achelnMarkCouple
over a year ago

Mid Wiltshire

Argh!

Conflicts with a normal xmas do we've just been invited to.

So may not be able to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may have to detour this way home

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Argh!

Conflicts with a normal xmas do we've just been invited to.

So may not be able to go. "

Boo to normal lol!!

I'm really looking forward to this night

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By *himaeraWoman
over a year ago

near derby.

Looks like we will have to make the effort and get there, I love Mondays at Chams!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looks like we will have to make the effort and get there, I love Mondays at Chams!"

Be good to see you there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what would be your treat Annie when faced with a number of Bi guys together?

I don't think I've ever seen you out to watch us?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't usually get out and about cause Mark usually around somewhere lol.

I have had a good show early on some Mondays in the bar area and took time out to venture into the round room when its been busy and rocking.

I'll be on the hunt that night checking the action, especially as we'll need to be on our toes to stop straight guys trying to get in and spoil the night with so many having broke up for Christmas.

Might even bring my strap on too x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to be part of that show

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't usually get out and about cause Mark usually around somewhere lol.

I have had a good show early on some Mondays in the bar area and took time out to venture into the round room when its been busy and rocking.

I'll be on the hunt that night checking the action, especially as we'll need to be on our toes to stop straight guys trying to get in and spoil the night with so many having broke up for Christmas.

Might even bring my strap on too x x"

And you know you are always welcome to come hunt me Annie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im Going xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can always have you at the bar rich lol..........get you on it for a bj tag team session lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I watch please

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By *ingerjoWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

hiya

do cpls have to become a member for a monday day/ night ?

im looking at coming but have to find a date first as i dont drive

thanks jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course you can butterfly...or join in more the merrier lol.

Yes couples do have to be members on mondays same as any other day unless its n organised guest list

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By *ingerjoWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can always have you at the bar rich lol..........get you on it for a bj tag team session lol

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My day just sound better and better. I'm becoming quite accustomed to that bar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can always find time at the bar for a tag team session on a nice cock Rich

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can always find time at the bar for a tag team session on a nice cock Rich "

Well let's hope you still think mine is nice lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course you can butterfly...or join in more the merrier lol.

Yes couples do have to be members on mondays same as any other day unless its n organised guest list "

I'm happy to join in too. I'll bring my strap on with me for extra fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like its shaping up to be a great party woohoo

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By *achelnMarkCouple
over a year ago

Mid Wiltshire


"Sounds like its shaping up to be a great party woohoo

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By *elMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I think I will have to clear my social diary and be there, sounds like it will be a good night with some nice, bad things happening

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford


"I expect it to be a busy day/night as a lot will have broken up for Christmas....but it will be the usual bisexual rules that apply so hopefully lots of bi action going on all over the place all day lol xx"

Hi Annie - what are the bi-sexual rules?

Always wondered what the criteria was?

Cheers

D

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By *ensual charlieWoman
over a year ago

a happy place

I'll be staying over as well with my buddie... don't think we'll be getting much sleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why would you wanna go on a bi night guilty as your straight ..........we find a lot of straight guys dont like other men approaching them or seeing 2 or men playing together

Oh no, not at all - I was at a very bi-friendly event called 'strapped', a while back, and witnessed all sorts of kinky naughtiness - sub domme relationships, TVs, cuckolding both bi and straight - and none of it bothered me in the slightest.

In fact, I'd say that all the forms of naughtiness added to the atmosphere and heightened arousal levels.

I also received an almighty spanking by a hot domme.... Good times lol"

Sounds a fun event

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course you can butterfly...or join in more the merrier lol.

Yes couples do have to be members on mondays same as any other day unless its n organised guest list

I'm happy to join in too. I'll bring my strap on with me for extra fun. "

Sat watching the fun with your strapon... think I may need to sit down on that and watch while I take it all in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why would you wanna go on a bi night guilty as your straight ..........we find a lot of straight guys dont like other men approaching them or seeing 2 or men playing together

Oh no, not at all - I was at a very bi-friendly event called 'strapped', a while back, and witnessed all sorts of kinky naughtiness - sub domme relationships, TVs, cuckolding both bi and straight - and none of it bothered me in the slightest.

In fact, I'd say that all the forms of naughtiness added to the atmosphere and heightened arousal levels.

I also received an almighty spanking by a hot domme.... Good times lol

Sounds a fun event "

It really was - I realised two things ma out myself

a) my bottom is far too sensitive to be spanked severely and

b) I'm very comfy - more accurately, very aroused - in a bisexual environment... Sexy is sexy and pleasure is any form of naughtiness that feels good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such nights only serve to make one more adventurous and help expand ones boundaries

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Such nights only serve to make one more adventurous and help expand ones boundaries "

So basically you are bi lol

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By *ove bi guysWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Such nights only serve to make one more adventurous and help expand ones boundaries

So basically you are bi lol"

Play nicely Rich .... we don't need to label people, just enjoy them xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Such nights only serve to make one more adventurous and help expand ones boundaries

So basically you are bi lol

Play nicely Rich .... we don't need to label people, just enjoy them xx"

Oooops my bad. I'm just not a fan of straight guys on bi nights

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By *ove bi guysWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Such nights only serve to make one more adventurous and help expand ones boundaries

So basically you are bi lol

Play nicely Rich .... we don't need to label people, just enjoy them xx

Oooops my bad. I'm just not a fan of straight guys on bi nights"

I know, and I love love my bi guys, lots .... but I have met plenty of guys in chams very happily enjoying both m and f and when I look at their profile it says straight..... Just enjoy the body xx

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By *exine xCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"Such nights only serve to make one more adventurous and help expand ones boundaries

So basically you are bi lol

Play nicely Rich .... we don't need to label people, just enjoy them xx

Oooops my bad. I'm just not a fan of straight guys on bi nights"

We are with you on this one. We think EVERYONE on a Bi Night should be Bi. Obviously as we all know, No means No but at least you wouldn't be nervous or guessing if the others around you are acceptable of same sex play.

Just our thoughts . X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Such nights only serve to make one more adventurous and help expand ones boundaries

So basically you are bi lol

Play nicely Rich .... we don't need to label people, just enjoy them xx

Oooops my bad. I'm just not a fan of straight guys on bi nights

We are with you on this one. We think EVERYONE on a Bi Night should be Bi. Obviously as we all know, No means No but at least you wouldn't be nervous or guessing if the others around you are acceptable of same sex play.

Just our thoughts . X"

Well for me I quite enjoy playing openly at chams (as a few may testify) and I just don't like to think I'd be doing anything others find offensive or upsetting. Bi nights should be just that but how would you verify it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Such nights only serve to make one more adventurous and help expand ones boundaries

So basically you are bi lol

Play nicely Rich .... we don't need to label people, just enjoy them xx

Oooops my bad. I'm just not a fan of straight guys on bi nights

I know, and I love love my bi guys, lots .... but I have met plenty of guys in chams very happily enjoying both m and f and when I look at their profile it says straight..... Just enjoy the body xx"

Some just don't like to put it out there in black and white but enjoy it in the moment, each to their own I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Such nights only serve to make one more adventurous and help expand ones boundaries

So basically you are bi lol

Play nicely Rich .... we don't need to label people, just enjoy them xx

Oooops my bad. I'm just not a fan of straight guys on bi nights

We are with you on this one. We think EVERYONE on a Bi Night should be Bi. Obviously as we all know, No means No but at least you wouldn't be nervous or guessing if the others around you are acceptable of same sex play.

Just our thoughts . X

Well for me I quite enjoy playing openly at chams (as a few may testify) and I just don't like to think I'd be doing anything others find offensive or upsetting. Bi nights should be just that but how would you verify it lol

"

I totally agree with you, I would hate to cause offense or offend but then we should be able to enjoy ourselves whatever our sexual persuasion!

I go to the bi nights at abfabs which from what I gather from others is quite tame in numbers in comparison and you often find the issue there is people who are straight have been in the day when it's kestrels and stayed on as long as they don't start getting stroppy with bi activities then they are welcome to watch

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford


"Such nights only serve to make one more adventurous and help expand ones boundaries

So basically you are bi lol

Play nicely Rich .... we don't need to label people, just enjoy them xx

Oooops my bad. I'm just not a fan of straight guys on bi nights

We are with you on this one. We think EVERYONE on a Bi Night should be Bi. Obviously as we all know, No means No but at least you wouldn't be nervous or guessing if the others around you are acceptable of same sex play.

Just our thoughts . X"

I understand what your saying and totally agree those going on a bit night shpuld be 100% acceptable of same sex play, but don't get why they have to be bi in order to be so? I don't see them as mutually exclusive?

I think the bi nights sounds really fun, and I love being in a sexually charged atmosphere.

Just couldn't stand there and say, I'm bi if that's an entry question? Dunno maybe I could? How could you prove it? No still means no as you pointed out earlier.

Either way, I hope everyone has fun

D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they need a form of screening for new members to be validated

First time at our bi night sir?

Er yes yes it is

OK well if you could just go behind the curtain there and suck Dave's cock we will then process you entry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they need a form of screening for new members to be validated

First time at our bi night sir?

Er yes yes it is

OK well if you could just go behind the curtain there and suck Dave's cock we will then process you entry "

I might change my name to Dave then

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By *exine xCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"Such nights only serve to make one more adventurous and help expand ones boundaries

So basically you are bi lol

Play nicely Rich .... we don't need to label people, just enjoy them xx

Oooops my bad. I'm just not a fan of straight guys on bi nights

We are with you on this one. We think EVERYONE on a Bi Night should be Bi. Obviously as we all know, No means No but at least you wouldn't be nervous or guessing if the others around you are acceptable of same sex play.

Just our thoughts . X

I understand what your saying and totally agree those going on a bit night shpuld be 100% acceptable of same sex play, but don't get why they have to be bi in order to be so? I don't see them as mutually exclusive?

I think the bi nights sounds really fun, and I love being in a sexually charged atmosphere.

Just couldn't stand there and say, I'm bi if that's an entry question? Dunno maybe I could? How could you prove it? No still means no as you pointed out earlier.

Either way, I hope everyone has fun

D"

To be fair. It's a Bi Night. Not a straight/bi mix night. There are enough of those every other day of the week.

We understand about being just on the outside and watching. But what happens if a straight guy gets on the bed at these events and starts playing with the lady? Then as it's a bi night some guys grabs your cock? AWKWARD! Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Such nights only serve to make one more adventurous and help expand ones boundaries

So basically you are bi lol

Play nicely Rich .... we don't need to label people, just enjoy them xx

Oooops my bad. I'm just not a fan of straight guys on bi nights

We are with you on this one. We think EVERYONE on a Bi Night should be Bi. Obviously as we all know, No means No but at least you wouldn't be nervous or guessing if the others around you are acceptable of same sex play.

Just our thoughts . X

I understand what your saying and totally agree those going on a bit night shpuld be 100% acceptable of same sex play, but don't get why they have to be bi in order to be so? I don't see them as mutually exclusive?

I think the bi nights sounds really fun, and I love being in a sexually charged atmosphere.

Just couldn't stand there and say, I'm bi if that's an entry question? Dunno maybe I could? How could you prove it? No still means no as you pointed out earlier.

Either way, I hope everyone has fun

D

To be fair. It's a Bi Night. Not a straight/bi mix night. There are enough of those every other day of the week.

We understand about being just on the outside and watching. But what happens if a straight guy gets on the bed at these events and starts playing with the lady? Then as it's a bi night some guys grabs your cock? AWKWARD! Lol. "

In that scenario it would be his own fault. But then maybe he would enjoy?

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By *exine xCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"Such nights only serve to make one more adventurous and help expand ones boundaries

So basically you are bi lol

Play nicely Rich .... we don't need to label people, just enjoy them xx

Oooops my bad. I'm just not a fan of straight guys on bi nights

We are with you on this one. We think EVERYONE on a Bi Night should be Bi. Obviously as we all know, No means No but at least you wouldn't be nervous or guessing if the others around you are acceptable of same sex play.

Just our thoughts . X

I understand what your saying and totally agree those going on a bit night shpuld be 100% acceptable of same sex play, but don't get why they have to be bi in order to be so? I don't see them as mutually exclusive?

I think the bi nights sounds really fun, and I love being in a sexually charged atmosphere.

Just couldn't stand there and say, I'm bi if that's an entry question? Dunno maybe I could? How could you prove it? No still means no as you pointed out earlier.

Either way, I hope everyone has fun

D

To be fair. It's a Bi Night. Not a straight/bi mix night. There are enough of those every other day of the week.

We understand about being just on the outside and watching. But what happens if a straight guy gets on the bed at these events and starts playing with the lady? Then as it's a bi night some guys grabs your cock? AWKWARD! Lol.

In that scenario it would be his own fault. But then maybe he would enjoy? "

Yes but that situation should never happen on a Bi Night in any club. But I can bet that once guys get the horn and can no longer resist wanting to play, that situation would arise. We really don't think that is fair on anyone attending what is described at a Bi event. That is why We believe Chams insist on people being to some degree of bisexual on a Monday x

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By *ove bi guysWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

So getting the post back on track .... Who else is going to Chams bi Christmas Party ? xx

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford


"Such nights only serve to make one more adventurous and help expand ones boundaries

So basically you are bi lol

Play nicely Rich .... we don't need to label people, just enjoy them xx

Oooops my bad. I'm just not a fan of straight guys on bi nights

We are with you on this one. We think EVERYONE on a Bi Night should be Bi. Obviously as we all know, No means No but at least you wouldn't be nervous or guessing if the others around you are acceptable of same sex play.

Just our thoughts . X

I understand what your saying and totally agree those going on a bit night shpuld be 100% acceptable of same sex play, but don't get why they have to be bi in order to be so? I don't see them as mutually exclusive?

I think the bi nights sounds really fun, and I love being in a sexually charged atmosphere.

Just couldn't stand there and say, I'm bi if that's an entry question? Dunno maybe I could? How could you prove it? No still means no as you pointed out earlier.

Either way, I hope everyone has fun

D

To be fair. It's a Bi Night. Not a straight/bi mix night. There are enough of those every other day of the week.

We understand about being just on the outside and watching. But what happens if a straight guy gets on the bed at these events and starts playing with the lady? Then as it's a bi night some guys grabs your cock? AWKWARD! Lol. "

I think that's my point, in that scenario you know your on a bi night, a simple no thanks would stop it the same as any unwanted attention - no need for an explanation. And no need for anyone to get upset.

But I do know what your saying, not everyone may have that attitude, in which case, yes it causes an issue.

I do also see that, as with all swinging, we all prefer to have fun with like minded people so accept that.

I'd still be Intrested to come along though.

D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So getting the post back on track .... Who else is going to Chams bi Christmas Party ? xx

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First day of me xmas break would be rude not to !! I'm sure there will be a few chestnuts roasting and countless xmas sacks in need of emptying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So seriously who else is coming. I think it's going to be pretty awesome

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By *andS66Couple
over a year ago

Derby


"I don't usually get out and about cause Mark usually around somewhere lol.

I have had a good show early on some Mondays in the bar area and took time out to venture into the round room when its been busy and rocking.

I'll be on the hunt that night checking the action, especially as we'll need to be on our toes to stop straight guys trying to get in and spoil the night with so many having broke up for Christmas.

Might even bring my strap on too x x"

Buy the male half of you is also straight! So will he not ( allowed in then? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work at chams so that's my reason for being there. Hubby might pop in but as said before as a couple one has to be bi and the other bi friendly - he has seen guys planning and he doesn't mind being around male bi play. But if he does come in it won't be to play or till later in the evening. Most of the regulars know him and he gets on well with all of them as when im not working i also go into play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhhh Rich - Mark and I have decided that you're going on the bar early afternoon for the tag team session starter x x x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ohhhh Rich - Mark and I have decided that you're going on the bar early afternoon for the tag team session starter x x x"

Hahahaha nice to know you were thinking of me x

I'm going to be late that day maybe 7pm xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's ok we'll keep your spot on the bar lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's ok we'll keep your spot on the bar lol x"

And anywhere else we can think of

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else attending?

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

We have just booked a room at the Premier Inn.

Never been on a Monday - what time does the party start and what will be the best time to arrive? Only ever been in the daytime at weekends so had planned to get there for around 8pm but as neither of us will be working there would be nothing stopping us arriving earlier if the party will be raging.

By the way, we are both 1,000,000% straight and hate same sex contact - will this be a problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a Monday chams opens at 2pm and there is normally queue to get in as soon as the doors open.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will you be there for 2 butterfly? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 3 hopefully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bril looking forward to meeting you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have just booked a room at the Premier Inn.

Never been on a Monday - what time does the party start and what will be the best time to arrive? Only ever been in the daytime at weekends so had planned to get there for around 8pm but as neither of us will be working there would be nothing stopping us arriving earlier if the party will be raging.

By the way, we are both 1,000,000% straight and hate same sex contact - will this be a problem? "

I don't think it would be the night for you guys!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bril looking forward to meeting you x"

And me you xx

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West


"We have just booked a room at the Premier Inn.

Never been on a Monday - what time does the party start and what will be the best time to arrive? Only ever been in the daytime at weekends so had planned to get there for around 8pm but as neither of us will be working there would be nothing stopping us arriving earlier if the party will be raging.

By the way, we are both 1,000,000% straight and hate same sex contact - will this be a problem?

I don't think it would be the night for you guys!!!"

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By *ensual EroticismCouple
over a year ago

derby


"Anyone else attending?"

We will be there, feeling horny already thinking of the fun to come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice one ..you winked me see you there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Such nights only serve to make one more adventurous and help expand ones boundaries

So basically you are bi lol"

There are certainly things that I'd like to try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do many tvs go? Don't want to be on my lonesome lol "

I'll be there. Staying overnight at The Greenhouse unless I can get a cancelled room at Chams!

Looking forward to a really fun uninhibited time.

Tiff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So getting the post back on track .... Who else is going to Chams bi Christmas Party ? xx

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I'll be there. Wouldn't miss it for the world!

Tiff xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I really looking forward to it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So what time do people think they will be arriving for the fabulous affair

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By *ensual EroticismCouple
over a year ago

derby


"So what time do people think they will be arriving for the fabulous affair"

We won't be able to get there til about 7

Staying over though so still plenty of playtime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'll be there from 2pm till end lol.....and gonna be in a playful mood so watch out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am hoping to be there from about 3pm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well it looks like I'll be arriving earlier than expected so hopefully about four and staying over x Annie I like you in a playful mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the temptation to come find the jacuzzi and stay there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"the temptation to come find the jacuzzi and stay there "

I think it's going to be full lol

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West


"So what time do people think they will be arriving for the fabulous affair"

About 5pm/6pm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems like a lot of couples are going to be there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a lot of interest of bi couples n bi singles...and all hotel rooms been booked of weeks.

Woohoo can't wait for the party to begin mmm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've had a lot of interest of bi couples n bi singles...and all hotel rooms been booked of weeks.

Woohoo can't wait for the party to begin mmm"

I'll be staying for the first time! I actually get the whole night for a change

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West


"I've had a lot of interest of bi couples n bi singles...and all hotel rooms been booked of weeks.

Woohoo can't wait for the party to begin mmm"

We tried to book a room ages ago and couldn't. Premier inn,Darlaston still had rooms at £29 so we booked there.

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By *ensual EroticismCouple
over a year ago

derby

Can't sleep.... getting excited thinking about party time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me to 4 sleeps lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

woohooo looks like its gonna be a fun filled busy day...

Hope to see lots of sexy fun going on and maybe get the chance to join in at some point lol...

Tagteam on bar at some point too lol...so anyone wanting to join in let us know and we'll line a few up on the bar lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"woohooo looks like its gonna be a fun filled busy day...

Hope to see lots of sexy fun going on and maybe get the chance to join in at some point lol...

Tagteam on bar at some point too lol...so anyone wanting to join in let us know and we'll line a few up on the bar lol"

Count me in at the bar as part of the tag team or part of the fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your gonna be on the bar lol so you'll be part of it all haha x x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your gonna be on the bar lol so you'll be part of it all haha x x"

That's my intention lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to go !!

Is it members only for males ? I have emailed chams regarding a membership but have had no reply ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would love to go !!

Is it members only for males ? I have emailed chams regarding a membership but have had no reply .... "

I think it may be busy so getting in as a guest may be difficult too. Give them a call

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would love to go !!

Is it members only for males ? I have emailed chams regarding a membership but have had no reply ....

I think it may be busy so getting in as a guest may be difficult too. Give them a call"

Did you find out? If so see you there and same to all you other lovely peeps going on Monday x

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By *bione_1Man
over a year ago

Broxbourne

I only live five min from chams but still not managed to get in.

I've wanted to try bi night for ages but it's difficult to be accepted.

I've been up a couple of time but been told no single men but think that was not on bi nights.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Difficult to be accepted? By whom? I have never ever had a problem with acceptance or entry! And I'm sure on Monday nights everyone knows what to expect

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I certainly know what I'm hoping for

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