Hi there,
Please come along, if only to watch the fun. Don't fee pressured to join in, just relax and enjoy.
When you arrive you will be given a guided tour and made to feel very welcome. Be brave, we were all newbies once.*
The first time we went I wore a short back bondage style dress and felt almost nude, all the other ladies were quite modest (even frumpy!!!) Next time I toned it down and was SOOOO overdressed.......knickers were apparently optional that night. My answer is, be comfortable, look and feel sexy but don't feel uncomfortable or over exposed. It's your first time, get more relaxed second time around. A simple black dress will do fine, shoe a little leg or cleavage, whatever is your strong point. ~For him definitely no jeans, a shirt is a must a tie is optional.
Mobile phones are stored in the lockers, for everyone benefit.
As for drinks, there are fridges, sticky labels and marker pens for you to use. We have been to abfabs many times and only had our wine nicked once, right at the end of the evening (mind you, we don't buy the good stuff
We will be going along tomorrow. Look out for us, just for someone to break the ice....no pressure, just a couple of friendly faces. |