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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fake frends in clubs .....just to get a bit of action

I noticed this ...they pretend to be pally just to get a bit of action ...

we all know 1 person ....

who else agrees

who else can share there own experinces of fake frends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yeah , the whole scene is full of fake friends , but it goes with the territory .

Chinese whispers are rife , and cliques exist all over the place !

The motto ' don't trust anyone ' is certainly a wise one to remember in this lifestyle .

We are lucky to have each other as without that we probably would have given up on such a shallow pastime long ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fake frends in clubs .....just to get a bit of action

I noticed this ...they pretend to be pally just to get a bit of action ...

we all know 1 person ....

who else agrees

who else can share there own experinces of fake frends "

Im intrigued. What are you spitting your dummy out about this time ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live and let live i say and concentrate on your own affairs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hell yeah , the whole scene is full of fake friends , but it goes with the territory .

Chinese whispers are rife , and cliques exist all over the place !

The motto ' don't trust anyone ' is certainly a wise one to remember in this lifestyle .

We are lucky to have each other as without that we probably would have given up on such a shallow pastime long ago

"

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

I take those I meet on face value, sometimes to my own foolish minds detriment lol, I forget there are devious souls out there in the real world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nature of the game sometimes

People want your body,they're friendly,they get your body,they fuck off

I know i've walked away from sex thinking that was ok but I doubt I'll ever go there again,doesn't mean I wouldn't talk or continue to be friendly with them if I saw them around again

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Facebook is for friends, not Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Facebook is for friends, not Fab. "

So we're not allowed to have friends on here? No friends with benefits?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

its an open chat hot topic on a thought process on friends in clubs niteclubs and all type of club association ie football cricket etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ooh yes I've face book and fbs too

on all network affiliation ....all my honeys to the left and the dudes to the right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Facebook is for friends, not Fab. "

Perfectly put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Facebook is for friends, not Fab.

Perfectly put "

Are we not allowed to make friends with people we meet via Fab? Says who?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Facebook is for friends, not Fab.

Perfectly put

Are we not allowed to make friends with people we meet via Fab? Says who?"

Of course you are , but the op suggested that there is such a thing in the club scene as fake friends . With this we agree . We also suggest that from our experience the kind of friendship on fab is not the same as vanilla or Facebook friendship .

Of course this may well be different for singles and indeed some couples , but in all honesty we are on here to explore sexual liaisons with others , not to make friends . We have a rich and varied friends list outside our swinging lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've no hidden agenda ....friends or r they fo !!! Haha

Lov all my fab pals ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oops forgot i multi task vanilla friends and r also my fab buddys ....who said single guys

cant multi multi.im not here just for a fuck xxxxxxxxx

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By *leepyangelCouple
over a year ago

over the hill and far away

I agree funtarzan.

They want to be fucked senseless, you have a great time with them.

The next week, they totally blank you not even a smile or hello

Makes you wonder if you had done something wrong.

Manners and a smile go a long way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people are getting confused between being friendly and having a true friend.. There is no comparison... of course people are going to be friendly to get a fuck from you; wouldn't work otherwise but that doesn't mean they are trying to be your friend.. politeness goes a long way.. friendship however doesn't happen overnight.. The relationship is built on, nurtured over time.. I'm not here to make friends and clearly state that on my profile but I have made friends from here.. ones I think the world of and can't envisage my life without now.. do I make friends with people to get laid?.. NO.. I'm just polite and friendly.. its all part of the wooing process.. I won't be inviting them round for coffee anytime soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hell yeah , the whole scene is full of fake friends , but it goes with the territory .

Chinese whispers are rife , and cliques exist all over the place !

The motto ' don't trust anyone ' is certainly a wise one to remember in this lifestyle .

We are lucky to have each other as without that we probably would have given up on such a shallow pastime long ago

"

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some people are getting confused between being friendly and having a true friend.. There is no comparison... of course people are going to be friendly to get a fuck from you; wouldn't work otherwise but that doesn't mean they are trying to be your friend.. politeness goes a long way.. friendship however doesn't happen overnight.. The relationship is built on, nurtured over time.. I'm not here to make friends and clearly state that on my profile but I have made friends from here.. ones I think the world of and can't envisage my life without now.. do I make friends with people to get laid?.. NO.. I'm just polite and friendly.. its all part of the wooing process.. I won't be inviting them round for coffee anytime soon "
Absolutely right

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We go to clubs, some people we like, some we avoid, some we have become great friends with, just like normal life really...don't see the point of this post unless you don't trust your own judgement.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Theres allways a point !

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

Sometimes you question your judgement when you find things out about those you thought you knew , suppose its time to put little miss naive in a box lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yep that's a point .....reds

BYECKKK!!

this is the whole point of this post we can throw trust as well in the mix so is very important... well to Tarzan anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We go to clubs, some people we like, some we avoid, some we have become great friends with, just like normal life really...don't see the point of this post unless you don't trust your own judgement."

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've made sum naff choices but i am very non judgmental fact lol

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Facebook is for friends, not Fab. "

I'd like to think I've got a fair few friends on here.

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By *ugarNspicecplCouple
over a year ago

SCUNTHORPE


"I think some people are getting confused between being friendly and having a true friend.. There is no comparison... of course people are going to be friendly to get a fuck from you; wouldn't work otherwise but that doesn't mean they are trying to be your friend.. politeness goes a long way.. friendship however doesn't happen overnight.. The relationship is built on, nurtured over time.. I'm not here to make friends and clearly state that on my profile but I have made friends from here.. ones I think the world of and can't envisage my life without now.. do I make friends with people to get laid?.. NO.. I'm just polite and friendly.. its all part of the wooing process.. I won't be inviting them round for coffee anytime soon "

Totally agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Facebook is for friends, not Fab.

I'd like to think I've got a fair few friends on here. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe its a male thing lol

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

We've sum acquaintances that we have enjoyed and maintained contact and regard them as friends and not so many that we'd like to avoid, we might be lucky or just too easy going lol but it's nice to be nice lol xx

If they're good company chilled have a laugh then they do for us

N Tarzan u in that mix x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Of course I'm going to be pally to get some action at a club. That's why I go to a club! Should I then invite them round for afternoon tea regularly afterwards?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my best friend on here.

We swing separately (rarely together)

We share a caravan (and a bed when we are away) but we are not lovers or fuck buddies...we are just the best of friends...maybe with occasional benefits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops posted before I finished....I also have several other good friends from here...... Not many I would now avoid. It's all a case of going in with eyes open!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course I'm going to be pally to get some action at a club. That's why I go to a club! Should I then invite them round for afternoon tea regularly afterwards?"

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

That awkward moment when you find out someone you considered a friend on this scene isnt who they say they are at all, thats what I consider to be a fake friend

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