FabSwingers.com forum: what to expect first time in club

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okay I posted something similar before but thought id try again as lots of new people have joined and could help. Would like to go to a club with my wife.i have mentioned it before but after thinking about it she says she wouldn't be comftable. Does anyone go just to look and maybe just chat with others or is it expected at some point to join in if you keep going. Is it frowned upon to keep watching people get down to it.

By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

Think of it like karaoke. You can sit in a pub, perhaps chat to people, even make friends, go as often as you like, no one makes you sing.

By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'd suggest getting her on here before trying to persuade her up visit a club.

She can then interact 'virtually' with others before diving in at the deep end,

By *hickensCouple
over a year ago

Inverness-ish

"Think of it like karaoke. You can sit in a pub, perhaps chat to people, even make friends, go as often as you like, no one makes you sing. "

That's the best description I've heard, spot on.

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