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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys we want to go to a club but me (mrs) is particularly nervous mainly because I'm a bigger lady and I'm worried I'll be the fattest one there. Also what do you wear? Was thinking a dress with saucy underwear underneath? We were thinking vanilla alternative for our first but any other suggestions appreciated x mrs hrh xx

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By *omcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Hi guys we want to go to a club but me (mrs) is particularly nervous mainly because I'm a bigger lady and I'm worried I'll be the fattest one there. Also what do you wear? Was thinking a dress with saucy underwear underneath? We were thinking vanilla alternative for our first but any other suggestions appreciated x mrs hrh xx"
HONESTLY you will be fine ..dress to impress and many guys love a larger lady ..act yourself and be sure to say No If guys come onto you and you don't fancy them ..always your choice ..love your pics by the way x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi guys we want to go to a club but me (mrs) is particularly nervous mainly because I'm a bigger lady and I'm worried I'll be the fattest one there. Also what do you wear? Was thinking a dress with saucy underwear underneath? We were thinking vanilla alternative for our first but any other suggestions appreciated x mrs hrh xx HONESTLY you will be fine ..dress to impress and many guys love a larger lady ..act yourself and be sure to say No If guys come onto you and you don't fancy them ..always your choice ..love your pics by the way x"

Thank you Hun. We are really keen to go it's just taking that first step, honestly I'll be a mess on the day haha and thank you that's sweet xxxx

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By *omcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

best just go with the flow ..you seem keen to try ...you will enjoy many cocks inside you ...and come home covered in cum if that is what you want x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tbh that is exactly what I want and I want hubby to have fun too xxx sounds like heaven walking might be an issue the next day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I and many like you felt the same as you are. I was a shaking mess when i furst went to a club. Walking thru the door with legs that felt like lead. After the first five minutes i was fine. Everyone was lovely. Im a bigger lady but it didnt make any difference as everyone was lovely. You wear what you feel comfortable in. Check out the club your going to and most importantly enjoy yourselves x

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By *omcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

You sound great fun and a perfect lady for a gang bang and bukkake too..you will be stretched with all size of cocks and yes ...walking next day will be a challenge but you sound a game girl..hubs will enjoy seeing you used and love it x

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

The clubs I have been to have people of all ages, sizes, etc.. I don't think that you will be the only one there who is not a size zero

The fuller-figure ladies I have seen there generally wear see through dresses, although I have seen a few in cup-less bras, thongs and hold-ups

At the end of the day, you must dress as you feel comfortable. And enjoy yourself. Every date is a new experience; x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dress in something that not only will impress but that you feel good in yourself the last thing you want is not feeling comfortable in your clothes resulting in you not being able to enjoy yourself

not that we have been to any clubs ourselves yet lol but can only give my advice or views the way i myself have found myself feeling when out in normal clubs/pubs not feeling right in clothes and feeling uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all really reassured me now to decide on the club xxxx

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By *izzyandLonglegsCouple
over a year ago

Whyteleafe

You will feel sexy wherever you go, much more so than vanilla clubs too, we love eurekas, I'm a size 20 and always feel great and have fun if I want!

There you can wear anything from c your birthday suit to fully clothed!

Enjoy, hubby too xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank u feel much relieved xxxxx

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By *aydeesclubCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

We get lots of larger ladies come along to our club. You would love it here have you checked out the club reviews under the clubs section at the top of the page.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you going to now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fat (i can't be bothered to use other terms for it lol) and i go to Chams in Darlaston, i wear a towel when walking around the club and nothing at all in the jacuzzis and when playing, i get along fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was nervous as i drove there the first time but once thru the door i was fine and loved it and i have never been nervous or unsure since, i have been alone and with guys and all have been great

I am the most shy person in ordinary life but not at al at a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You truly have nothing to worry about, from what I can see, you look fabulous.

If you don't get round to trying a club....why not come along to the bbw night at chams darlaston on November 2nd. The thread for names is in thr meets section

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was the very same as you.

Infact, I wouldnt get out of the car for almost half an hour when we went to our first club, Partners in Bury.

I am a (generous) size 26.

I wore pully-in-sucky-up underwear and couldnt bloody breathe!

The fear lasted for about 10 mins.When I saw ladies, larger than me floating about in basques and thongs and looking spectacular I might add, I thought "Weeeehaaay!!"

Before we went to a club or started swinging, I thought it was a sport for the trim and firm. How wrong was I???

Large, slim, wobbly, taught, big boobs, small boobs......its like a bag of liquorice allsorts in clubs.

Get yourself in there and have a blast!!

xx

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"Hi guys we want to go to a club but me (mrs) is particularly nervous mainly because I'm a bigger lady and I'm worried I'll be the fattest one there. Also what do you wear? Was thinking a dress with saucy underwear underneath? We were thinking vanilla alternative for our first but any other suggestions appreciated x mrs hrh xx"

I tried PM'ing you but I'm gender blocked.

If you are free next Friday, I am co-hosting a BBW Night at Tease 2.

I'm a size 20-22 and have never felt uncomfortable. Clubs goers are all sizes, shades and ages.

Or Tease is holding a newbie night 8-11. Jaydees have Newbie nights every Friday. You don't need to be a member at either club and they are both very friendly and laid back places

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a big guy and thought that and had no probs wear something you feel good in and maybe a baby doll with some nice or naughty underwear for when you dress down

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I took a lady Fabber to Tease2 for a daytime partyback in the summer. She was worried about being self conscious about her size until a couple of minutes after getting there when she realised there were several other larger ladies in lingerie and babydolls looking gorgeous. She had a great time and didn't need asking twice when an invite came up for a another party at Tease and took her hubby along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to charms last night,

i was so nervous as im not slim 14/16.diffrent shapes and sizes there.

Everyone there was so nice and friendly.

although we didnt play as i was bricking it lol

we still enjoyed the relaxed atmosphere.

looking forward to going again soon.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"We went to charms last night,

i was so nervous as im not slim 14/16.diffrent shapes and sizes there.

Everyone there was so nice and friendly.

although we didnt play as i was bricking it lol

we still enjoyed the relaxed atmosphere.

looking forward to going again soon. "

Nice to see that even though you were bricking it, you still want to go back again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know i dont know why i was like it.

We did chat to a few there but nerves got the better of me.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

When we first went to a club I was panicking, but there was really no need. I wore a comfortable but felt pretty in it dress and a nice bra/knickers set. I got naked to get into the jacuzzi and never bothered with clothes again for the rest of the night. I am quite chubby but no one minded in fact quite the opposite everyone was very friendly and welcoming. You will have a lovely time

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