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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, I've been look for a meet for this weekend but had no joy, so I was thinking about going to a club. It will be my first time so are there any do's or don't. ?

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Make sure it's a night single guys are allowed and try to pick a bust night.

Dress smart casual - slip on shoes and easily removed clothes.

Carry your own condoms, preferably latex free. I also carry a small pack of wet wipes to keep myself fresh.

Be confident and friendly, say hello and introduce yourself but don't be pushy or follow women around.

Have a drink if you want but not too many. Soberness is essential.

Don't do anything you don't feel at ease with.

Be yourself.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

*busy night

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Make sure it's a night single guys are allowed and try to pick a bust night.

Dress smart casual - slip on shoes and easily removed clothes.

Carry your own condoms, preferably latex free. I also carry a small pack of wet wipes to keep myself fresh.

Be confident and friendly, say hello and introduce yourself but don't be pushy or follow women around.

Have a drink if you want but not too many. Soberness is essential.

Don't do anything you don't feel at ease with.

Be yourself.

"

Pretty much 'nail on head' there!

It's Saturday today - many clubs are couples/single females only tonight - Friday is mixed night at most places.

Given your location if you're heading to the midlands the two biggest clubs I know of won't let you in tonight!

So definitely check the clubs policy before you travel. It's also worth phoning to enquire about membership requirements, dress policy and simply to introduce yourself!

Enjoy!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure you Shower no longer than Two days Prior.

Y Fronts MUST match the colour of your Knob Cheese.

On a Serious note, Politeness, Humour, Non Pushy and above all dont get over Zealous n start Groping.

Zen Gimp

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers all for your advice,I will make a phone call before I go..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And most of all, be yourself

Geek

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Make sure it's a night single guys are allowed and try to pick a bust night.

Dress smart casual - slip on shoes and easily removed clothes.

Carry your own condoms, preferably latex free. I also carry a small pack of wet wipes to keep myself fresh.

Be confident and friendly, say hello and introduce yourself but don't be pushy or follow women around.

Have a drink if you want but not too many. Soberness is essential.

Don't do anything you don't feel at ease with.

Be yourself.

"

Pretty much agree with this, but maybe go on a quiet night first so you don't just end up following the rest of the guys round! Stand out by smiling, making eye contact and by saying hello to couples, single girls and other guys. Don't be offended if people don't want to do anything with you, just persevere and respect others feelings. Don't be afraid to compliment, talk to both parties in couples and have a great time!

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