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"I never been a club as feel it uneasy for a single male or are they made to feel welcome im not 1 who wld follow round or think they all for me " As a single male, whatever club Ive been to in the North West, Ive alwsay been made to feel welcome. if you do go to a club, treat it like your going into a new local for the first time. Dont have any expectations that your going to "get anything", just go with the mind set that your going to meet new people and make new friends, If you get to play thats a bonus. Fnd a club you like and become a regular, get your face known and when people realise your a decent guy then more doors will open for you. Try Cupids or Amour in manchester, very friendly staff who will welcome and look after you. Also try No3 Club in Chorley, they have a social on Thursday night so new people can pop along for a look. Mary is lovely and will look after you. Or alternatively, find a lady to go with | |||
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"I've Had some experiences at clubs that Had they been my first time I wouldn't have gone back " We wnt to a club at the end of last year that was too crowded, overrun with single guys and the club didn't enforce it's own dress code. The amount of playruns was wholly inadequate for the capacity. It was a crap night and had we not known that it was the exception and not the norm for clubs we'd never have ventured back. | |||
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"My first time was awful...pushy men who almost forced them self on me and Ifelt iI couldn't say no coz of where I was. I'm a regular now and would always say no and tell the staff immediately " Yeah you need to be strong a secretive know what you want and relax then can enjoy,too d*unk hey lol x | |||
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"Have you gone to a club for the first time had a poor experience and decided it was not for you? Love to hear your thoughts " A few weeks ago we tried a new club not too far from us as our local club closed down . We won't name it here , but we won't be going back ! We love clubs but this on was everything we don't like and we couldn't get out quickly enough | |||
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"Reading some experiences some couples have had at clubs can see why single guys get a poor rap. Even as a single guy myself I find the aspect of following around, and not taking a hint disturbing. Though it is a dilema.., as a couple you have someone there for moral support.The very nature of club ensures everyone, s is extra sensitive with a sense of exspectation. Not all single guys are like that I hope but I empathise the very fact of self conciousness even if not outwardly showing they may be feeling. Ladies you must understand equally it is not easy approaching / introducing yourself as a single guy.Especially if persons are as of a couple, even if its purely platonic you feel your being judged even assessed. Hounding , following and pesting is simply not acceptable. But although we are attending as singles we do have feelings .. ... " I agree with all of that | |||
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"It's down to a combination if the venue and the clientele. Neither of which you can ever control. A great club can be let down by it's guests - an average (or even pretty crap!) venue can make for an enjoyable night with the right company. If people make judgements about clubs make sure which your judgement is based on. If it's the venue your best option is feedback to the club as to why you would/wouldn't return - clubs are businesses, need custom to survive and will generally be open to constructive criticism. If it's the clientele - unless there's been a specific incident involving a guest then it'll either be a case of 'the wrong night' (even good clubs have off nights!) or the customer base isn't for you. Either way - saying nothing helps nobody. Not the club, the clientele or anyone considering that club in the future. A" Very good points but actually on the one occasion we critiqued a club via the owners we were told to go elsewhere, your not wanted at our club x | |||
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"I never been a club as feel it uneasy for a single male or are they made to feel welcome im not 1 who wld follow round or think they all for me " I agree 100% hence the reason I avoid clubs | |||
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"It's down to a combination if the venue and the clientele. Neither of which you can ever control. A great club can be let down by it's guests - an average (or even pretty crap!) venue can make for an enjoyable night with the right company. If people make judgements about clubs make sure which your judgement is based on. If it's the venue your best option is feedback to the club as to why you would/wouldn't return - clubs are businesses, need custom to survive and will generally be open to constructive criticism. If it's the clientele - unless there's been a specific incident involving a guest then it'll either be a case of 'the wrong night' (even good clubs have off nights!) or the customer base isn't for you. Either way - saying nothing helps nobody. Not the club, the clientele or anyone considering that club in the future. A Very good points but actually on the one occasion we critiqued a club via the owners we were told to go elsewhere, your not wanted at our club x" I'd still class that as a useful experience. It would cement the knowledge that I'd never wish to return! Views on clubs and experiences are very individual. We all have different tastes. But a response like that, if given to anyone giving such feedback would soon kill repeat business and would be likely to be spread via word of mouth and reviews. A | |||
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"Have you gone to a club for the first time had a poor experience and decided it was not for you? Love to hear your thoughts " We have tried a couple of clubs and while we haven't had a poor or bad experience, knew they were just not for us. | |||
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"I did ... Didn't go back for 6 months and now it's one of my favourites and I go regularity! I'm glad I took a chance and went back just to try it again." A very good point, anywhere can have an off night it's always worth giving somewhere a second chance x | |||
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"I when to a club here in the south east a few years ago and never felt more unwelcomed in my life,the so called gate staff treated me as some sort of dirty old perv.Never got futher then the car park just turned around an left.Ive been to swingers clubs all over the world an never been spoken to like this place." In the UK we have no idea about customer service, free all your a paying customer right? | |||
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"I when to a club here in the south east a few years ago and never felt more unwelcomed in my life,the so called gate staff treated me as some sort of dirty old perv.Never got futher then the car park just turned around an left.Ive been to swingers clubs all over the world an never been spoken to like this place. In the UK we have no idea about customer service, free all your a paying customer right? " Ive found a club a few miles away from the other one where I am made to feel very welcome every time I go. | |||
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"We had a bad night at a club we visited for the first time and never went back. To be honest it wasn't the clubs fault. I think our expectations were too high. We go regularly to a local club and never fail to have a good time. I think we expected the same from the new place. Not all clubs have the same atmosphere or facilities. " Every club is different with different facilities and atmosphere, sometimes if all you do us mainly go to one club where you've made lots of friends, going to another club feels very different | |||
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