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By *azmalc OP   Couple
over a year ago

derby

clubs are for all ages get fed up with the young barbies kens who think they rule seen a lot of reviews on clubs if you dont like to mix with all dont go but dont pull clubs down on the age of ppl that do

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By *hocksandmissusCouple
over a year ago

Chester-ish

totally agree with you on that we much prefer a mix of ages, but don't really enjoy the company of any pre Madonna's what ever there age and yep there sure are some older ones too xxxxxxxxx

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

We go to many different clubs and there is always a mixed age range except at one. MrsH likes guys younger guys but that does not stop us socialising and having a good night. Fat, Thin, Young, Old, who are we to judge. Youtopia is the only club we have been to where there are are no youger people but it is still a great club and those that do go certainly enjoy it. And atthe end of the day we will all be old one day... well I nearly am but MrsH has a few years yet!

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"clubs are for all ages get fed up with the young barbies kens who think they rule seen a lot of reviews on clubs if you dont like to mix with all dont go but dont pull clubs down on the age of ppl that do "

I've seen plenty in their 40's and 50's with the same attitude.

Age is no definer of manners, respect or behaviour.

There are arseholes and idiots of all ages.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Point us in the directions of the Barbies please??!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Point us in the directions of the Barbies please??!? "

You'll want toys R us

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Point us in the directions of the Barbies please??!?

You'll want toys R us "

Or B&Q !

Should be much cheaper this time of year!

A

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"totally agree with you on that we much prefer a mix of ages, but don't really enjoy the company of any pre Madonna's what ever there age and yep there sure are some older ones too xxxxxxxxx"

Toyah? She was pre Madonna

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never find this at the club I go to!! Everyone's just happy with everyone else!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have loads of fun at a club even though I'm probably often one of the youngest in there at 25....

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By *azmalc OP   Couple
over a year ago

derby

thats how it should be all getting on and enjoying but wen you see reviews on clubs saying its a meeting place for the elderly we find that offensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thats how it should be all getting on and enjoying but wen you see reviews on clubs saying its a meeting place for the elderly we find that offensive "

But is that anymore offensive than the generalisation in your opening post?

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"thats how it should be all getting on and enjoying but wen you see reviews on clubs saying its a meeting place for the elderly we find that offensive

But is that anymore offensive than the generalisation in your opening post? "

Like everything involved in this lifestyle people have preferences. If age isn't a preference then why are there options to both state the preferred ages you're looking for and also prevent those outside those ages from contacting you?

In clubs you have no control over the breakdown of ages of clientele. It's pot luck. Even on nights promoted as 'under 40's' it's unlikely a club will prevent visitors of any age from attending - often it seems billing a night as such attracts older visitors looking for younger company.

A review using the words you described is disrespectful, yes. But would a perfectly polite review from a mid-twentys couple, stating that the majority of attendees were older and as such they had not enjoyed their visit not be honest and open feedback? Should they have to keep quiet for fear of offending someone, or be as entitled as an older couple to comment should the club be full of younger swingers who showed no interest in them, due to personal preferences?

The difference is in the language used. But the sentiment remains the same, regardless.

Clubs are for all ages. And all ages are entitled to their preferences and opinions, and to express them in reviews.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"clubs are for all ages get fed up with the young barbies kens who think they rule seen a lot of reviews on clubs if you dont like to mix with all dont go but dont pull clubs down on the age of ppl that do

I've seen plenty in their 40's and 50's with the same attitude.

Age is no definer of manners, respect or behaviour.

There are arseholes and idiots of all ages.

A"

and genders.

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