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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been told that some swingers clubs employ whores to guarantee new comers a good time in order that they come back again. Has anyone else heard of this practice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never heard of clubs employing whores as you have called them but there are some clubs that employ hostesses at certain times. I've never attended one of these style clubs but know both couples and singles who have and had great times at them.

Swinging covers a multitude of things to many people, so as long as everyone enjoy themselves and is respectful I don't see any problem in this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some clubs do, some don't, some couples are not couples but sometimes escorted men or woman. Sometimes it's obvious others less so.

Depends on your outlook, is the owner of a club that plays working or not ?

Although maybe you could consider your choice of words as we personally know professional working men and woman on this site who play. Just sayin' that's all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some clubs do, some don't, some couples are not couples but sometimes escorted men or woman. Sometimes it's obvious others less so.

Depends on your outlook, is the owner of a club that plays working or not ?

Although maybe you could consider your choice of words as we personally know professional working men and woman on this site who play. Just sayin' that's all"

Oh I do apologise for not using the right terminology in your opinion.

Maybe we should start referring to fucking as- intercourse, spunk as- seminal fluid, cunts as- vaginas and wanking as- masturbation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think whores is a nasty word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maibe that's y the price is higher on some clubs than not, so your guaranteed a fuck lol.

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By *hrissie1961Woman
over a year ago

dumfries and galloway

I just love your posts......you love holding the cats arse to the wind

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By *hrissie1961Woman
over a year ago

dumfries and galloway

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

there called party girls and yes it does happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just love your posts......you love holding the cats arse to the wind "

And I love sayings like that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I think even the party girls have a choice over who they fuck. So not whores - a word which smacks of misogyny - surprise surprise!

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By *ony 69 funMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

Well my wife is a hostess. She shows ppl round and ensures they are ok.

she very very rarely plays with anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are businesses and need revenue. Call it a spa or club and pull the wool over the law's eyes. Men will happily pay for guaranteed sex and I don't blame them. The options are pay £50 and get ignored in a club,be called a shark or worse,or pay £50 and wait your turn for a go on a whore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well my wife is a hostess. She shows ppl round and ensures they are ok.

she very very rarely plays with anyone

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Just out of curiosity do they have male hosts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the attention seeking award goes to............

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"I have been told that some swingers clubs employ whores to guarantee new comers a good time in order that they come back again. Has anyone else heard of this practice?"

we have said it before, but the forums are good places to block ppl lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs that have hostesses do not guarantee anything. I know a few girls that do it and they do still refuse.

However I can say that I Find the clubs with hostess girls have some of the best behaved single guys.

I personally have no issue with the word whore, even less so if someone tries to use it incite a response..

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By *r creedyMan
over a year ago

ashington


"I have been told that some swingers clubs employ whores to guarantee new comers a good time in order that they come back again. Has anyone else heard of this practice?"

I think this quote is the typical response from someone who does not attend clubs regularily ive never heard of such utter drivel certain nights are called greedy girls nights but they are not WHORES just women who are confident in their sexuality and love sex why not attend a club where it is safe and supervised JC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been told that some swingers clubs employ whores to guarantee new comers a good time in order that they come back again. Has anyone else heard of this practice?

I think this quote is the typical response from someone who does not attend clubs regularily ive never heard of such utter drivel certain nights are called greedy girls nights but they are not WHORES just women who are confident in their sexuality and love sex why not attend a club where it is safe and supervised JC "

Some clubs do employ hostesses who entertain (can't think of any up north) but agree with the rest of your post

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By *r creedyMan
over a year ago

ashington


"I have been told that some swingers clubs employ whores to guarantee new comers a good time in order that they come back again. Has anyone else heard of this practice?

I think this quote is the typical response from someone who does not attend clubs regularily ive never heard of such utter drivel certain nights are called greedy girls nights but they are not WHORES just women who are confident in their sexuality and love sex why not attend a club where it is safe and supervised JC

Some clubs do employ hostesses who entertain (can't think of any up north) but agree with the rest of your post"

hostesses are there to show new people around never heard of any playing with people up north cant comment about anywhere else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My block list just keeps growing bigger and bigger!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And the attention seeking award goes to............ "

You can't beat an attention grabbing headline. One of the basic rules of journalism. Lol!

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By *ilmisseCouple
over a year ago

leicestershire


"I think this quote is the typical response from someone who does not attend clubs regularily ive never heard of such utter drivel certain nights are called greedy girls nights but they are not WHORES just women who are confident in their sexuality and love sex why not attend a club where it is safe and supervised JC "

I think you need to read the question again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some clubs do, some don't, some couples are not couples but sometimes escorted men or woman. Sometimes it's obvious others less so.

Depends on your outlook, is the owner of a club that plays working or not ?

Although maybe you could consider your choice of words as we personally know professional working men and woman on this site who play. Just sayin' that's all

Oh I do apologise for not using the right terminology in your opinion.

Maybe we should start referring to fucking as- intercourse, spunk as- seminal fluid, cunts as- vaginas and wanking as- masturbation?"

I think in most people's opinion the term'whore' Iis disrespectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just love your posts......you love holding the cats arse to the wind "

Haha brilliant saying

I'm soooo going to work that into conversation today lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh

Can't fathom how hosting could be misconstrued or mentioned in the same terms as whoring

Rather offended that after hosting our first night people may think me and hubby are whores!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Vile "

What or who is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Vile

What or who is?"

The terminology used to create yet another uproar thread from the OP

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I think whores is a nasty word.

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Agreed

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Vile

What or who is?

The terminology used to create yet another uproar thread from the OP"

If we didn't all bite he might go away. Or get even more offensive, in which case he gets banned from the forum. Either way, we win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Vile

What or who is?

The terminology used to create yet another uproar thread from the OP

If we didn't all bite he might go away. Or get even more offensive, in which case he gets banned from the forum. Either way, we win. "

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"I think whores is a nasty word.

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I agree and I think it says a lot about the mind set of the person using the word.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Well I've never been to a club with working girls

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Well I've never been to a club with working girls "
i have and i feel sorry for them, a que of guys mostly asian where i went, high 5 ing and surrounding the girl in question just taking it in turns on her, and when she gets up just to go to the toilet gets followed round like a piece of meat not left alone wasnt nice to see tbh it happens!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you been watching too much game of thrones?

Haven't heard the word whore in a sentence in a looooooong time

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Well I've never been to a club with working girls i have and i feel sorry for them, a que of guys mostly asian where i went, high 5 ing and surrounding the girl in question just taking it in turns on her, and when she gets up just to go to the toilet gets followed round like a piece of meat not left alone wasnt nice to see tbh it happens!"

Thats vile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I've never been to a club with working girls i have and i feel sorry for them, a que of guys mostly asian where i went, high 5 ing and surrounding the girl in question just taking it in turns on her, and when she gets up just to go to the toilet gets followed round like a piece of meat not left alone wasnt nice to see tbh it happens!"

Dam those Asians, always high 5'ing and following women to the toilets

I bet if it was a club full of non Asians the above wouldn't have happened

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Well I've never been to a club with working girls i have and i feel sorry for them, a que of guys mostly asian where i went, high 5 ing and surrounding the girl in question just taking it in turns on her, and when she gets up just to go to the toilet gets followed round like a piece of meat not left alone wasnt nice to see tbh it happens!

Dam those Asians, always high 5'ing and following women to the toilets

I bet if it was a club full of non Asians the above wouldn't have happened"
you are prob right altho i said where i went on that occasion it was asians theres always one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been told that some swingers clubs employ whores to guarantee new comers a good time in order that they come back again. Has anyone else heard of this practice?"

charming that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I've never been to a club with working girls i have and i feel sorry for them, a que of guys mostly asian where i went, high 5 ing and surrounding the girl in question just taking it in turns on her, and when she gets up just to go to the toilet gets followed round like a piece of meat not left alone wasnt nice to see tbh it happens!"

speaking as someone who works in a well known club that employs girls people only treat you how you allow them to, we do not have to do anything we don't want to, the owner of the club tells all new guys you ask the girls if you want to try something if they say no tuff, i would not allow anyone to follow me to the loo and if any gangs of men were high fiving above my head i would move away, whether your getting paid or not if you don't have a tongue in your head to tell people to piss off you will get this behaviour, i have been to chameleons where they don't employ girls and had guys following me about, its got nothing to do with being paid some guys are just rude and some women wont stand up for themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I've never been to a club with working girls i have and i feel sorry for them, a que of guys mostly asian where i went, high 5 ing and surrounding the girl in question just taking it in turns on her, and when she gets up just to go to the toilet gets followed round like a piece of meat not left alone wasnt nice to see tbh it happens!

speaking as someone who works in a well known club that employs girls people only treat you how you allow them to, we do not have to do anything we don't want to, the owner of the club tells all new guys you ask the girls if you want to try something if they say no tuff, i would not allow anyone to follow me to the loo and if any gangs of men were high fiving above my head i would move away, whether your getting paid or not if you don't have a tongue in your head to tell people to piss off you will get this behaviour, i have been to chameleons where they don't employ girls and had guys following me about, its got nothing to do with being paid some guys are just rude and some women wont stand up for themselves "

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Well I've never been to a club with working girls i have and i feel sorry for them, a que of guys mostly asian where i went, high 5 ing and surrounding the girl in question just taking it in turns on her, and when she gets up just to go to the toilet gets followed round like a piece of meat not left alone wasnt nice to see tbh it happens!

speaking as someone who works in a well known club that employs girls people only treat you how you allow them to, we do not have to do anything we don't want to, the owner of the club tells all new guys you ask the girls if you want to try something if they say no tuff, i would not allow anyone to follow me to the loo and if any gangs of men were high fiving above my head i would move away, whether your getting paid or not if you don't have a tongue in your head to tell people to piss off you will get this behaviour, i have been to chameleons where they don't employ girls and had guys following me about, its got nothing to do with being paid some guys are just rude and some women wont stand up for themselves "
these are paid girls "party girls" the club is hired out for what they call party nights, and yes they can say no and can leave whenever they want.

altho what i see they dont say no, for whatever reason maybe they are enjoying themselves ,i cant say either way but what ive seen it doesnt look that way

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Definition of WHORE

1: a woman who engages in sexual acts for money : prostitute; also : a promiscuous or immoral woman

2: a male who engages in sexual acts for money

The word means the same as prostitute but sounds much worse for me.....but...it is still the same definition wether we like the word or not

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Definition of WHORE

1: a woman who engages in sexual acts for money : prostitute; also : a promiscuous or immoral woman

2: a male who engages in sexual acts for money

The word means the same as prostitute but sounds much worse for me.....but...it is still the same definition wether we like the word or not"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been told that some swingers clubs employ whores to guarantee new comers a good time in order that they come back again. Has anyone else heard of this practice?"

You could always attend a club, and ask the guy or guys on the door the very same question.

I'm sure they would point you on the right direction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't be half as much fun if we all agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definition of WHORE

1: a woman who engages in sexual acts for money : prostitute; also : a promiscuous or immoral woman

2: a male who engages in sexual acts for money

The word means the same as prostitute but sounds much worse for me.....but...it is still the same definition wether we like the word or not"

so no money does have to exchange hands!! Promiscuous... Isn't that most of us on here??

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Definition of WHORE

1: a woman who engages in sexual acts for money : prostitute; also : a promiscuous or immoral woman

2: a male who engages in sexual acts for money

The word means the same as prostitute but sounds much worse for me.....but...it is still the same definition wether we like the word or not

so no money does have to exchange hands!! Promiscuous... Isn't that most of us on here?? "

So it seems yes

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By *EXY50ishWoman
over a year ago

Anywhere and nowhere


"Some clubs do, some don't, some couples are not couples but sometimes escorted men or woman. Sometimes it's obvious others less so.

Depends on your outlook, is the owner of a club that plays working or not ?

Although maybe you could consider your choice of words as we personally know professional working men and woman on this site who play. Just sayin' that's all

Oh I do apologise for not using the right terminology in your opinion.

Maybe we should start referring to fucking as- intercourse, spunk as- seminal fluid, cunts as- vaginas and wanking as- masturbation?"

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By *EXY50ishWoman
over a year ago

Anywhere and nowhere

I wouldnt want to attend a club where men or women were paying / being paid for sex. Each to their own and all that but it is something I find offensive and Im v v open minded .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definition of WHORE

1: a woman who engages in sexual acts for money : prostitute; also : a promiscuous or immoral woman

2: a male who engages in sexual acts for money

The word means the same as prostitute but sounds much worse for me.....but...it is still the same definition wether we like the word or not

so no money does have to exchange hands!! Promiscuous... Isn't that most of us on here??

So it seems yes "

That's being a hoor,slight difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens on certain days at a particular place. It has been described to me by 3 men on separate occasions as rooms with girls in and men queuing to go in. Sounds like whoring to me,or they just enjoy sex that much they do it for free with whomsoever walks through the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IM off to greedy girls event at connections bpool next Saturday been told plenty there

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"It happens on certain days at a particular place. It has been described to me by 3 men on separate occasions as rooms with girls in and men queuing to go in. Sounds like whoring to me,or they just enjoy sex that much they do it for free with whomsoever walks through the door "
and sometimes ther all just in the room taking turns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Vile

What or who is?

The terminology used to create yet another uproar thread from the OP

If we didn't all bite he might go away. Or get even more offensive, in which case he gets banned from the forum. Either way, we win. "

i just read it all x its for a reaction im sure x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"IM off to greedy girls event at connections bpool next Saturday been told plenty there "

Does Connections in Blackpool employ Escorts or Whores as the OP has described? Or are you just saying that any woman that goes to a club is a whore?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you been watching too much game of thrones?

Haven't heard the word whore in a sentence in a looooooong time "

We love Game of Thrones! ??

As to whether the word 'whore' is vile or not surely it depends on what context it's being used in. To simply call a hostess who may or may not 'play' a whore would be vile and arrogant, but to say the word during sex and the partner on the receiving end enjoys it then there's obviously no problem

I call my wife a 'filthy cumslut whore' all the time and she still loves me!! ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As for misogynists on this site unfortunately a site like this will breed them as we have clearly found out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens on certain days at a particular place. It has been described to me by 3 men on separate occasions as rooms with girls in and men queuing to go in. Sounds like whoring to me,or they just enjoy sex that much they do it for free with whomsoever walks through the door "

That's called being a greedy girl And what's wrong with that... And most will not have whoever walks through the door. just ladies that can handle lots of men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"IM off to greedy girls event at connections bpool next Saturday been told plenty there

Does Connections in Blackpool employ Escorts or Whores as the OP has described? Or are you just saying that any woman that goes to a club is a whore?"

I was going to ask the same thing... As trust me If the poster has this attitude the gg will be very unaccommodating and not sure marcus would be to impressed either xx

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By *araka2Man
over a year ago

Fuerteventura/ Canary Islands

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By *araka2Man
over a year ago

Fuerteventura/ Canary Islands

I've been told that some customers hire prostitute services pretending being their wives. That's a shame. So you think someone is sharing special things with you, but they're really fooling you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been told that some customers hire prostitute services pretending being their wives. That's a shame. So you think someone is sharing special things with you, but they're really fooling you! "

Does that really matter.. there are many people in clubs... As long as everyone is polite and respectful does it really matter... And to be fair many at clubs will not be with the person they are there with x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes hostess and I AM NO WHORE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"IM off to greedy girls event at connections bpool next Saturday been told plenty there "

If any women from the forums are there you won't be very welcome. From reading your posts on various threads you have some very wrong ideas about women and swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens on certain days at a particular place. It has been described to me by 3 men on separate occasions as rooms with girls in and men queuing to go in. Sounds like whoring to me,or they just enjoy sex that much they do it for free with whomsoever walks through the door

That's called being a greedy girl And what's wrong with that... And most will not have whoever walks through the door. just ladies that can handle lots of men "

or hired women waiting in rooms like they've been paid to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a load of bollocks my god man did you just post this to get a reaction it worked from me any way lol


"I have been told that some swingers clubs employ whores to guarantee new comers a good time in order that they come back again. Has anyone else heard of this practice?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens on certain days at a particular place. It has been described to me by 3 men on separate occasions as rooms with girls in and men queuing to go in. Sounds like whoring to me,or they just enjoy sex that much they do it for free with whomsoever walks through the door

That's called being a greedy girl And what's wrong with that... And most will not have whoever walks through the door. just ladies that can handle lots of men

or hired women waiting in rooms like they've been paid to"

I know most of the greedy girls that do the events and they are not paid and your tone us quite insulting towards the ladies that enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was at one club night when I was pretty sure there were a couple of paid escorts. The host was so shocked I was there as a single girl on my own, yet there were supposedly these two 'single girls' who seed to gravitate towards those few single guys who lacked any social skills and hadn't managed to meet anyone.

Not sure if I'd call them whores though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens on certain days at a particular place. It has been described to me by 3 men on separate occasions as rooms with girls in and men queuing to go in. Sounds like whoring to me,or they just enjoy sex that much they do it for free with whomsoever walks through the door

That's called being a greedy girl And what's wrong with that... And most will not have whoever walks through the door. just ladies that can handle lots of men

or hired women waiting in rooms like they've been paid to"

Really??? Seems like I forgot to get paid then....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Really??? Seems like I forgot to get paid then...."

I knew I was doing something wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually the last one I went to I paid (for me and male) to get in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens on certain days at a particular place. It has been described to me by 3 men on separate occasions as rooms with girls in and men queuing to go in. Sounds like whoring to me,or they just enjoy sex that much they do it for free with whomsoever walks through the door

That's called being a greedy girl And what's wrong with that... And most will not have whoever walks through the door. just ladies that can handle lots of men

or hired women waiting in rooms like they've been paid to

Really??? Seems like I forgot to get paid then...."

Or maybe it doesn't happen when you're there or even in your club? Do you let anyone who fancies it join in regardless? No say in who fucks you?

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By *ncMan
over a year ago

Dudley


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or hired women waiting in rooms like they've been paid to"

So what as long as it's their choice? Nothing quite so pathetic as those who believe their _iew of morality is the only acceptable one. A majority of the population think swinging is immoral or distasteful, yet a significant percentage of those same people will have one or more affairs, cheating on their partners. What is important is informed consent and leaving adults to make their own decisions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Or maybe it doesn't happen when you're there or even in your club? Do you let anyone who fancies it join in regardless? No say in who fucks you? "

Even hostess girls have a choice. And I've seen plenty of couples where one or the other are doing it to please the other... That to me is worse by a long way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldnt want to attend a club where men or women were paying / being paid for sex. Each to their own and all that but it is something I find offensive and Im v v open minded . "

As soon as a club employs women or indeed men to have sex then its no longer a swinging club its a brothel its that simple I for one should i decide to visit a club will some checking first and give any such places a wide bertth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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or hired women waiting in rooms like they've been paid to

So what as long as it's their choice? Nothing quite so pathetic as those who believe their _iew of morality is the only acceptable one. A majority of the population think swinging is immoral or distasteful, yet a significant percentage of those same people will have one or more affairs, cheating on their partners. What is important is informed consent and leaving adults to make their own decisions."

I don't care what they do. I was just saying there are paid women in some clubs or spas. Call it what you like but don't be naive to think it doesn't happen. It keeps the single men coming and the money rolling in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't let 'just anyone' fuck me, I choose who, when and how long. It stops when I say so. I have control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Or maybe it doesn't happen when you're there or even in your club? Do you let anyone who fancies it join in regardless? No say in who fucks you?

Even hostess girls have a choice. And I've seen plenty of couples where one or the other are doing it to please the other... That to me is worse by a long way "

I'm not actually talking about hostesses,not real ones anyway. What happens between couples is their concern,I wouldn't join in if someone wasn't comfortable. But that's another story isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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or hired women waiting in rooms like they've been paid to

So what as long as it's their choice? Nothing quite so pathetic as those who believe their _iew of morality is the only acceptable one. A majority of the population think swinging is immoral or distasteful, yet a significant percentage of those same people will have one or more affairs, cheating on their partners. What is important is informed consent and leaving adults to make their own decisions.

I don't care what they do. I was just saying there are paid women in some clubs or spas. Call it what you like but don't be naive to think it doesn't happen. It keeps the single men coming and the money rolling in "

I know girls are paid to hostess... What I am saying is that they still have a choice. And to be honest I find the clubs with the paid girls have much better behaved single guys .

My problem was with you suggesting that greedy girls nights have paid girls... Trust me there are enough ladies that enjoy it yo keep the guys happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think whores is a nasty word.

I agree and I think it says a lot about the mind set of the person using the word. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens on certain days at a particular place. It has been described to me by 3 men on separate occasions as rooms with girls in and men queuing to go in. Sounds like whoring to me,or they just enjoy sex that much they do it for free with whomsoever walks through the door

That's called being a greedy girl And what's wrong with that... And most will not have whoever walks through the door. just ladies that can handle lots of men

or hired women waiting in rooms like they've been paid to

Really??? Seems like I forgot to get paid then....

Or maybe it doesn't happen when you're there or even in your club? Do you let anyone who fancies it join in regardless? No say in who fucks you? "

hang on i work in a club that pays girls, i don't know what image you have of such places but i can assure you that as a paid woman i have 100% say in who fucks me, the laws outside the club apply within and if i say no to a guy no means no, all because women are paid that does not mean anyone can join in and they have no say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Know of at least one club in Birmingham who employ ladies to "entertain" the guys, and it classes itself as a sex club rather than swingers club....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens on certain days at a particular place. It has been described to me by 3 men on separate occasions as rooms with girls in and men queuing to go in. Sounds like whoring to me,or they just enjoy sex that much they do it for free with whomsoever walks through the door

That's called being a greedy girl And what's wrong with that... And most will not have whoever walks through the door. just ladies that can handle lots of men

or hired women waiting in rooms like they've been paid to

Really??? Seems like I forgot to get paid then....

Or maybe it doesn't happen when you're there or even in your club? Do you let anyone who fancies it join in regardless? No say in who fucks you?

hang on i work in a club that pays girls, i don't know what image you have of such places but i can assure you that as a paid woman i have 100% say in who fucks me, the laws outside the club apply within and if i say no to a guy no means no, all because women are paid that does not mean anyone can join in and they have no say "

It's not an image I made up in my head. It's rooms with girls in and men lining up outside. Now tell me my friends are all making it up and they're just greedy girls having their fun day in day out week after week. Who all happen to be young and good looking. Oh and the brothel above the sweet shop is actually a bible class

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few pretty friends that happen to sit on a bed and the guys line up... It's what they go to the clubs for..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens on certain days at a particular place. It has been described to me by 3 men on separate occasions as rooms with girls in and men queuing to go in. Sounds like whoring to me,or they just enjoy sex that much they do it for free with whomsoever walks through the door

That's called being a greedy girl And what's wrong with that... And most will not have whoever walks through the door. just ladies that can handle lots of men

or hired women waiting in rooms like they've been paid to

Really??? Seems like I forgot to get paid then....

Or maybe it doesn't happen when you're there or even in your club? Do you let anyone who fancies it join in regardless? No say in who fucks you?

hang on i work in a club that pays girls, i don't know what image you have of such places but i can assure you that as a paid woman i have 100% say in who fucks me, the laws outside the club apply within and if i say no to a guy no means no, all because women are paid that does not mean anyone can join in and they have no say

It's not an image I made up in my head. It's rooms with girls in and men lining up outside. Now tell me my friends are all making it up and they're just greedy girls having their fun day in day out week after week. Who all happen to be young and good looking. Oh and the brothel above the sweet shop is actually a bible class "

i never said it does not happen i know it does what i said is they still have a say in who or what they do other wise its rape, all because a woman is being paid that does not mean she has no say in who she has sex with, maybe some back street brothels have a hold over the women and treat them like this but the threads not about those its about clubs that employ hostesses/whore (call them what you will) to keep the guys happy, and i can assure you as a woman who has worked a few of these clubs, they do not work like this, if they did i wouldn't go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been told that some swingers clubs employ whores to guarantee new comers a good time in order that they come back again. Has anyone else heard of this practice?"

I think the term whore is a bit much really. If a lady wants to use what she has to earn a living that's her choice.No one forces the clients to pay for it. I just think whore dehumanises a person.

On your question however I've no real ideas as the number of clubs I've been to is limited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens on certain days at a particular place. It has been described to me by 3 men on separate occasions as rooms with girls in and men queuing to go in. Sounds like whoring to me,or they just enjoy sex that much they do it for free with whomsoever walks through the door

That's called being a greedy girl And what's wrong with that... And most will not have whoever walks through the door. just ladies that can handle lots of men

or hired women waiting in rooms like they've been paid to

Really??? Seems like I forgot to get paid then....

Or maybe it doesn't happen when you're there or even in your club? Do you let anyone who fancies it join in regardless? No say in who fucks you? "

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"I have a few pretty friends that happen to sit on a bed and the guys line up... It's what they go to the clubs for..

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the place i have experienced they are paid girls and the door is kept 4 guys to 1 girl and normally theres 5 girls all from brazil so there would be 20 guys let in and the mid week night theres no limit on guys so it gets quite busy

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"I have a few pretty friends that happen to sit on a bed and the guys line up... It's what they go to the clubs for..

the place i have experienced they are paid girls and the door is kept 4 guys to 1 girl and normally theres 5 girls all from brazil so there would be 20 guys let in and the mid week night theres no limit on guys so it gets quite busy"
they are not greedy girls they are party girls aka prostitutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This winds me up you men call us whores but you are doing no different from what we are foing so before calling women whores take a long look at urselfs.As the only differences is you don't carry a name. Regardless weather there are escorts there or not we all there for the same reason so I think men should get over themselfs.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been told that some swingers clubs employ whores to guarantee new comers a good time in order that they come back again. Has anyone else heard of this practice?

You could always attend a club, and ask the guy or guys on the door the very same question.

I'm sure they would point you on the right direction."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This winds me up you men call us whores but you are doing no different from what we are foing so before calling women whores take a long look at urselfs.As the only differences is you don't carry a name. Regardless weather there are escorts there or not we all there for the same reason so I think men should get over themselfs.xx "

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yes there will be 'paid for' females at certain clubs, ask the questions and if not for you: don't go.

there will also be the females that are looking for escorts to the club, they will be there most nights/days and never once put their hand in their purse.

again if people are prepared to pay, there will always be a market for it.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"This winds me up you men call us whores but you are doing no different from what we are foing so before calling women whores take a long look at urselfs.As the only differences is you don't carry a name. Regardless weather there are escorts there or not we all there for the same reason so I think men should get over themselfs.xx "

If this thread is anything to go by there are escorts employed by some clubs....if this is going to happen I think people should be told as some people don't want to have sex with someone who is being paid.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"This winds me up you men call us whores but you are doing no different from what we are foing so before calling women whores take a long look at urselfs.As the only differences is you don't carry a name. Regardless weather there are escorts there or not we all there for the same reason so I think men should get over themselfs.xx "

I think the language use in the orignal post was chosen to be deliberately inflamatory for maximum impact/trolling

mind you I think it also says a lot about the OP as well.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think whores is a nasty word.

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Used by many a woman on here to describe themselves and even used in their username

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to think a person having sex with me is actually attracted to me. It's more a man thing to visit places for guaranteed sex,but that's their choice and most of the time the choice of the women getting paid. Hostesses in clubs could be there just as decoration and to host,what their job actually is. They are different to women paid purely to keep the men coming back. They shouldn't be in spas or clubs meant for swingers but it's a way of getting around the law

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By *ajandroseMan
over a year ago

tamworth

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By *ajandroseMan
over a year ago

tamworth

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Well this topic has evoked a lot of reaction, so heres my pennies worth.

The term whore I find dissrespectfull, and could,nt be further from the truth.

We all have to get by somehow, not all are fortunate enough to persue the occupation we want.

Whether it be circumstances or fate.

When I here the term whore, it reminds me of how far we are ignorant of sexual attitudes.

These ladies are a lot more savvy than you think they are, and away from business role you would be non the wiser.

With the exsplosion of escorting on the net and the amininity it provides. That classy lady, you last spoke to at the bar, chat site, or indeed at work, she may as you put it " whoring" on the side.

You just know.... Personaly i,m ok with it... Good on um.... Free enterprise let it roll....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes there will be 'paid for' females at certain clubs, ask the questions and if not for you: don't go.

there will also be the females that are looking for escorts to the club, they will be there most nights/days and never once put their hand in their purse.

again if people are prepared to pay, there will always be a market for it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoying the hypersensitive folk that would rather be upset with work choice over the discussion that was intended..... maebee we shood git da wurd poleas n 2 sort dis guy owt!

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

I believe liasons USED to do this as it was a brothel during the day.....and had a slight overlap

Not sure if this still goes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a fair question but mute really you can't tell who maybe a working girl or not, not for sure! As an example a prominent female poster on here said "she's a whore" to my hubby at a club, funny that having been married for nearly 16 years to him.

No one can be sure unless you physically see a working girl in a club and then you still can't be sure she is working or playing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there were hot paid men at a club with no option but to have sex with women I'd be there every week

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By *EXY50ishWoman
over a year ago

Anywhere and nowhere

I live sex and love swinging but think its far too risky being in a club thats has prostitutes / whores

call them what you like. It can still be classed as a brothel and can still be raided if money is changing hands

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By *EXY50ishWoman
over a year ago

Anywhere and nowhere

I love sex and love swinging but think its far too risky being in a club thats has prostitutes / whores

call them what you like. It can still be classed as a brothel and can still be raided if money is changing hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not classes as a brothal though as your not paying for sex with anyone... Your paying for entry and hostesses or whatever term you use are still not being paid to have sex.

They are there... what they choose to do with their time is up to them...

There are plenty of ladies and couples that also escort..and are often at clubs... How do you tell if they are on or off duty.... Simply you can't....

The clubs that have hostess girls are quite clear about it... So those that it upsets can avoid

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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So the clubs that employ Escorts don't expect them to have sex with anyone? That is a nice littler earner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the clubs that employ Escorts don't expect them to have sex with anyone? That is a nice littler earner "

They are not employed as escorts though. They don't have to with anyone they don't want to. Most are just swingers that earn a but extra for doing what they enjoy.

I still see no issue with it really

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

So what are they employed to do? ( genuine question as we don't use clubs )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not ban hostesses from having sex on paid nights. Are any of them old and fat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been told that some swingers clubs employ whores to guarantee new comers a good time in order that they come back again. Has anyone else heard of this practice?"

What a lovely way to describe another human being. Sarcasum intented.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are businesses and need revenue. Call it a spa or club and pull the wool over the law's eyes. Men will happily pay for guaranteed sex and I don't blame them. The options are pay £50 and get ignored in a club,be called a shark or worse,or pay £50 and wait your turn for a go on a whore "

I don't think 'men will happily pay for guaranteed sex'.

What an awful generalisation.

'Wait your turn for a go on a whore'???? Seriously? ??? Appalling turn of phrase

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By *r creedyMan
over a year ago

ashington


"So what are they employed to do? ( genuine question as we don't use clubs )"

they are there to show any new members around work at the bar counter to hand people out their drinks they brought in work on the main desk and most of all to wander around to make sure everyone is ok and not being hassled x

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"So what are they employed to do? ( genuine question as we don't use clubs )

they are there to show any new members around work at the bar counter to hand people out their drinks they brought in work on the main desk and most of all to wander around to make sure everyone is ok and not being hassled x "
thats what the hostesses are paid to do and rarely play.

the party girls are there to fuck, this by the way is only on certain nights at the club i go too, the fri, sat nites etc etc are genuine swingers nights, just two nights a week are party nights. aimed at guys

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over a year ago


"So the clubs that employ Escorts don't expect them to have sex with anyone? That is a nice littler earner "

it works like this

and i can only speak from the clubs i have worked

the less fussy you are the more night you will get its that simple

no club can tell you who to and who not to have sex with, if you go and turn down 80% of the guys who approach you because they are not your type the chances are you won't get offered as many nights as the girls who just see it as a job and will shag men they don't fancy, its upto you how you work the job, what you want to do and how many nights you want, basically the more popular you are and the more men you attract into club club the more money you earn

if I'm honest when I'm working so long as they are clean and respectful I'm likely to play, i have played with lots of men i wouldn't meet off here, most of the guys are below my prefered age range but i seem to attract the younger ones for some reason, but that does not mean i will shag every guy who approaches me, i have said no to few men for various reasons, that's my choice and rights

regardless of what anyone says, mainly people who have no idea and just guessing, you don't have to have sex with anyone you don't want to, the laws outside the clubs apply within, noone can force you

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over a year ago

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over a year ago


"Why not ban hostesses from having sex on paid nights. Are any of them old and fat? "

I'm 39 and a size 12/14 so not what you would call young or slim but i do ok, i also have a real job as well so my time to do club work is limited, i turn down nights most months because i don't have time to do them all, not all men want young slim women, i have also worked club in the past that do BBW nights that were popular

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over a year ago


"Why not ban hostesses from having sex on paid nights. Are any of them old and fat?

I'm 39 and a size 12/14 so not what you would call young or slim but i do ok, i also have a real job as well so my time to do club work is limited, i turn down nights most months because i don't have time to do them all, not all men want young slim women, i have also worked club in the past that do BBW nights that were popular"

Would a 48 year old size 18/20 be considered? I'm very nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are businesses and need revenue. Call it a spa or club and pull the wool over the law's eyes. Men will happily pay for guaranteed sex and I don't blame them. The options are pay £50 and get ignored in a club,be called a shark or worse,or pay £50 and wait your turn for a go on a whore

I don't think 'men will happily pay for guaranteed sex'.

What an awful generalisation.

'Wait your turn for a go on a whore'???? Seriously? ??? Appalling turn of phrase "

What would you call it then? In my days it was called line ups on slags but they were free. The word whore may be outdated but the men using them are treating them as such. If they hired an escort from a website they might be respectful to them

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"So the clubs that employ Escorts don't expect them to have sex with anyone? That is a nice littler earner

it works like this

and i can only speak from the clubs i have worked

the less fussy you are the more night you will get its that simple

no club can tell you who to and who not to have sex with, if you go and turn down 80% of the guys who approach you because they are not your type the chances are you won't get offered as many nights as the girls who just see it as a job and will shag men they don't fancy, its upto you how you work the job, what you want to do and how many nights you want, basically the more popular you are and the more men you attract into club club the more money you earn

if I'm honest when I'm working so long as they are clean and respectful I'm likely to play, i have played with lots of men i wouldn't meet off here, most of the guys are below my prefered age range but i seem to attract the younger ones for some reason, but that does not mean i will shag every guy who approaches me, i have said no to few men for various reasons, that's my choice and rights

regardless of what anyone says, mainly people who have no idea and just guessing, you don't have to have sex with anyone you don't want to, the laws outside the clubs apply within, noone can force you"

Thanks for your honest answer. So basically Escorts are employed to do just that.

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over a year ago


"Why not ban hostesses from having sex on paid nights. Are any of them old and fat?

I'm 39 and a size 12/14 so not what you would call young or slim but i do ok, i also have a real job as well so my time to do club work is limited, i turn down nights most months because i don't have time to do them all, not all men want young slim women, i have also worked club in the past that do BBW nights that were popular

Would a 48 year old size 18/20 be considered? I'm very nice "

are you thinking of converting to the whore side?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"So what are they employed to do? ( genuine question as we don't use clubs )

they are there to show any new members around work at the bar counter to hand people out their drinks they brought in work on the main desk and most of all to wander around to make sure everyone is ok and not being hassled x "

Are you talking about Escorts or a Hostess? I thought there was a difference between the two, ie one has sex in their job and the other doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not ban hostesses from having sex on paid nights. Are any of them old and fat?

I'm 39 and a size 12/14 so not what you would call young or slim but i do ok, i also have a real job as well so my time to do club work is limited, i turn down nights most months because i don't have time to do them all, not all men want young slim women, i have also worked club in the past that do BBW nights that were popular

Would a 48 year old size 18/20 be considered? I'm very nice

are you thinking of converting to the whore side? "

I could do with the money (who am I kidding,I just want loads of sex)

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Why not ban hostesses from having sex on paid nights. Are any of them old and fat?

I'm 39 and a size 12/14 so not what you would call young or slim but i do ok, i also have a real job as well so my time to do club work is limited, i turn down nights most months because i don't have time to do them all, not all men want young slim women, i have also worked club in the past that do BBW nights that were popular

Would a 48 year old size 18/20 be considered? I'm very nice

are you thinking of converting to the whore side?

I could do with the money (who am I kidding,I just want loads of sex) "
you would go down a storm in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My argument on this has been that greedy girls are not paid to have sex... As already stated some clubs employ girls but they can still be picky

But it just gets me when people talk about greedy girls as If they are paid To be there... And to be fair the way its implied that there is anything wrong with it even if they were

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"My argument on this has been that greedy girls are not paid to have sex... As already stated some clubs employ girls but they can still be picky

But it just gets me when people talk about greedy girls as If they are paid To be there... And to be fair the way its implied that there is anything wrong with it even if they were "
not sure anyone has said greedy girls are paid? greedy girls are not working girls or party girls, they are a whole different thing.

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over a year ago


"My argument on this has been that greedy girls are not paid to have sex... As already stated some clubs employ girls but they can still be picky

But it just gets me when people talk about greedy girls as If they are paid To be there... And to be fair the way its implied that there is anything wrong with it even if they were not sure anyone has said greedy girls are paid? greedy girls are not working girls or party girls, they are a whole different thing. "

Some have and often do but to be fair I have never seen what the issue is.. as for me it just means better behaved single guys at the clubs with paid girl's x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not ban hostesses from having sex on paid nights. Are any of them old and fat?

I'm 39 and a size 12/14 so not what you would call young or slim but i do ok, i also have a real job as well so my time to do club work is limited, i turn down nights most months because i don't have time to do them all, not all men want young slim women, i have also worked club in the past that do BBW nights that were popular

Would a 48 year old size 18/20 be considered? I'm very nice

are you thinking of converting to the whore side?

I could do with the money (who am I kidding,I just want loads of sex) you would go down a storm in there "

I'd run around naked shouting who's next!! I'd probably clear the place and get the sack

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"My argument on this has been that greedy girls are not paid to have sex... As already stated some clubs employ girls but they can still be picky

But it just gets me when people talk about greedy girls as If they are paid To be there... And to be fair the way its implied that there is anything wrong with it even if they were not sure anyone has said greedy girls are paid? greedy girls are not working girls or party girls, they are a whole different thing.

Some have and often do but to be fair I have never seen what the issue is.. as for me it just means better behaved single guys at the clubs with paid girl's x"

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Why not ban hostesses from having sex on paid nights. Are any of them old and fat?

I'm 39 and a size 12/14 so not what you would call young or slim but i do ok, i also have a real job as well so my time to do club work is limited, i turn down nights most months because i don't have time to do them all, not all men want young slim women, i have also worked club in the past that do BBW nights that were popular

Would a 48 year old size 18/20 be considered? I'm very nice

are you thinking of converting to the whore side?

I could do with the money (who am I kidding,I just want loads of sex) you would go down a storm in there

I'd run around naked shouting who's next!! I'd probably clear the place and get the sack "
u wouldnt have to run far hun you are barely let out the room from what ive seen

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"My argument on this has been that greedy girls are not paid to have sex... As already stated some clubs employ girls but they can still be picky

But it just gets me when people talk about greedy girls as If they are paid To be there... And to be fair the way its implied that there is anything wrong with it even if they were "

I think you are reading into things that are not there ( except for one comment that could imply it)

I am guessing most of us can figure out the difference of someone enjoying the greedy girl nights and someone being employed to have sex with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not ban hostesses from having sex on paid nights. Are any of them old and fat?

I'm 39 and a size 12/14 so not what you would call young or slim but i do ok, i also have a real job as well so my time to do club work is limited, i turn down nights most months because i don't have time to do them all, not all men want young slim women, i have also worked club in the past that do BBW nights that were popular

Would a 48 year old size 18/20 be considered? I'm very nice

are you thinking of converting to the whore side?

I could do with the money (who am I kidding,I just want loads of sex) you would go down a storm in there

I'd run around naked shouting who's next!! I'd probably clear the place and get the sack u wouldnt have to run far hun you are barely let out the room from what ive seen "

Those places shouldn't associate themselves with swinging but they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the clubs that employ Escorts don't expect them to have sex with anyone? That is a nice littler earner

it works like this

and i can only speak from the clubs i have worked

the less fussy you are the more night you will get its that simple

no club can tell you who to and who not to have sex with, if you go and turn down 80% of the guys who approach you because they are not your type the chances are you won't get offered as many nights as the girls who just see it as a job and will shag men they don't fancy, its upto you how you work the job, what you want to do and how many nights you want, basically the more popular you are and the more men you attract into club club the more money you earn

if I'm honest when I'm working so long as they are clean and respectful I'm likely to play, i have played with lots of men i wouldn't meet off here, most of the guys are below my prefered age range but i seem to attract the younger ones for some reason, but that does not mean i will shag every guy who approaches me, i have said no to few men for various reasons, that's my choice and rights

regardless of what anyone says, mainly people who have no idea and just guessing, you don't have to have sex with anyone you don't want to, the laws outside the clubs apply within, noone can force you

Thanks for your honest answer. So basically Escorts are employed to do just that. "

depends what you mean by escort, i wouldn't say i was an escort, i don't meet one on one for money, i don't advertise myself on sites, i got into clubs purely by accident, the first one i worked i used to go as a customer, one night the owner asked me if i wanted to do a few night so i thought sod it why not, I'll get paid for doing what I'm coming here anyway to do for free, after working that one a few other clubs approached me and asked if id do some nights for them, i have only ever worked clubs ive never met anyone on a private level and i have no i interest in doing so, clubs are a safe environment to work, so though yes its still prostitution its not my personal definition of an escort, other no doubt will disagree

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I normally use the word prostitution as I think like you Escorts can mean a different thing....change my comment to prostitution

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I helpout showing peopl round asistin and its al for the passion of swinging its a lifestyl

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By *arkCouple
over a year ago

Ilkley

I would love a bukake over my tits. Keep hinting, never happens. X

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By *arkCouple
over a year ago

Ilkley

I would love a bukake over my tits. Keep hinting, never happens. X

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By *arkCouple
over a year ago

Ilkley

Come on me please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been told that some swingers clubs employ whores to guarantee new comers a good time in order that they come back again. Has anyone else heard of this practice?"

A whore? A woman, a person, a human being?

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By *zmukMan
over a year ago

doncaster

Whore, hooker, tart, working girl, prossie/prostitute, call girl, escort, pro, hustler, wench, streetwalker....

There are a lot of terms, and a lot of emotive connotations for each.

But if part of your job is being paid for duties which includes having sex, then you are some sort of sex worker. It doesn't matter whether you get to pick the clients.

It is up to one's personal _iewpoint whether this applauded, accepted, tolerated or frowned upon. Just as it is up to one's interpretation which terms are acceptable/preferable.

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By *arolinaTerryCouple
over a year ago

Croydon

We dont use FabSwingers as much as we should because its a great site. However we are both disgusted by someone just calling girls "whores" whether they are working girls or not.

We organise the occasional party and pay some girls to attend. Whore is an insulting word to a female and the girls who play at our parties would be horrified if a guest said there were whores at our party. Swinging's most important rule is RESPECT and the original poster certainly shows a great lack of it.

xxx

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By *ony 69 funMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough


"We dont use FabSwingers as much as we should because its a great site. However we are both disgusted by someone just calling girls "whores" whether they are working girls or not.

We organise the occasional party and pay some girls to attend. Whore is an insulting word to a female and the girls who play at our parties would be horrified if a guest said there were whores at our party. Swinging's most important rule is RESPECT and the original poster certainly shows a great lack of it.

xxx"

I couldn't agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow I need a job , have never seen this advertised in the job centre , how do I apply for my ideal job

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"Definition of WHORE

1: a woman who engages in sexual acts for money : prostitute; also : a promiscuous or immoral woman

2: a male who engages in sexual acts for money

The word means the same as prostitute but sounds much worse for me.....but...it is still the same definition wether we like the word or not"

its not the terminology, its the context the op has used the word, added to his following posts and its clear to see he set out to get such reactions as he has.

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over a year ago


"Definition of WHORE

1: a woman who engages in sexual acts for money : prostitute; also : a promiscuous or immoral woman

2: a male who engages in sexual acts for money

The word means the same as prostitute but sounds much worse for me.....but...it is still the same definition wether we like the word or not

its not the terminology, its the context the op has used the word, added to his following posts and its clear to see he set out to get such reactions as he has."

Absolutely!!

Never under estimate the pulling power of a good headline.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"Definition of WHORE

1: a woman who engages in sexual acts for money : prostitute; also : a promiscuous or immoral woman

2: a male who engages in sexual acts for money

The word means the same as prostitute but sounds much worse for me.....but...it is still the same definition wether we like the word or not

its not the terminology, its the context the op has used the word, added to his following posts and its clear to see he set out to get such reactions as he has.

Absolutely!!

Never under estimate the pulling power of a good headline."

it wasnt a good headline, its not really putting you in a good light is it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definition of WHORE

1: a woman who engages in sexual acts for money : prostitute; also : a promiscuous or immoral woman

2: a male who engages in sexual acts for money

The word means the same as prostitute but sounds much worse for me.....but...it is still the same definition wether we like the word or not

its not the terminology, its the context the op has used the word, added to his following posts and its clear to see he set out to get such reactions as he has.

Absolutely!!

Never under estimate the pulling power of a good headline.

it wasnt a good headline, its not really putting you in a good light is it."

WHORE is just a word. Its in the Oxford English Dictionary and is not illegal.

Get over it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definition of WHORE

1: a woman who engages in sexual acts for money : prostitute; also : a promiscuous or immoral woman

2: a male who engages in sexual acts for money

The word means the same as prostitute but sounds much worse for me.....but...it is still the same definition wether we like the word or not

its not the terminology, its the context the op has used the word, added to his following posts and its clear to see he set out to get such reactions as he has.

Absolutely!!

Never under estimate the pulling power of a good headline.

it wasnt a good headline, its not really putting you in a good light is it.

WHORE is just a word. Its in the Oxford English Dictionary and is not illegal.

Get over it!"

Just because a word is in the Oxford English dictionary doesn't mean some people don't find it offensive or inappropriate.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"Definition of WHORE

1: a woman who engages in sexual acts for money : prostitute; also : a promiscuous or immoral woman

2: a male who engages in sexual acts for money

The word means the same as prostitute but sounds much worse for me.....but...it is still the same definition wether we like the word or not

its not the terminology, its the context the op has used the word, added to his following posts and its clear to see he set out to get such reactions as he has.

Absolutely!!

Never under estimate the pulling power of a good headline.

it wasnt a good headline, its not really putting you in a good light is it.

WHORE is just a word. Its in the Oxford English Dictionary and is not illegal.

Get over it!"

there are many words in the english dictionary, that doesnt mean they cant be offensive when used in certain ways, which is what you did and have continued doing, you set out to cause a reaction, suceeded and kept going with it, dont see what you are getting out of it.

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By *aturasqCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

OP maybe you could just apologise for any unintentional offence caused ?

Or is that too easy ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens on certain days at a particular place. It has been described to me by 3 men on separate occasions as rooms with girls in and men queuing to go in. Sounds like whoring to me,or they just enjoy sex that much they do it for free with whomsoever walks through the door

That's called being a greedy girl And what's wrong with that... And most will not have whoever walks through the door. just ladies that can handle lots of men

or hired women waiting in rooms like they've been paid to

Really??? Seems like I forgot to get paid then....

Or maybe it doesn't happen when you're there or even in your club? Do you let anyone who fancies it join in regardless? No say in who fucks you?

hang on i work in a club that pays girls, i don't know what image you have of such places but i can assure you that as a paid woman i have 100% say in who fucks me, the laws outside the club apply within and if i say no to a guy no means no, all because women are paid that does not mean anyone can join in and they have no say

It's not an image I made up in my head. It's rooms with girls in and men lining up outside. Now tell me my friends are all making it up and they're just greedy girls having their fun day in day out week after week. Who all happen to be young and good looking. Oh and the brothel above the sweet shop is actually a bible class "

So whats this club called then?

Have you experienced it yourself?

Or is this the same anti club rumour mill we offer hear from guys we meet. Many bad mouth clubs because of idle gossip yet have never attended!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"OP maybe you could just apologise for any unintentional offence caused ?

Or is that too easy ?"

Its his go to phrase for women who won't shag him, so unlikely to change soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the OP still gets too much stick for his choice of words...

Whilst whore is not a particular nice term, the forums are an open platform for people to express their opinions and _iews, the OP clearly expresses his, which he is entitled to, providing they don't break the rules

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I think the OP still gets too much stick for his choice of words...

Whilst whore is not a particular nice term, the forums are an open platform for people to express their opinions and _iews, the OP clearly expresses his, which he is entitled to, providing they don't break the rules"

True, and women who think his choice of words is derogatory and inflammatory are entitled to say so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the OP still gets too much stick for his choice of words...

Whilst whore is not a particular nice term, the forums are an open platform for people to express their opinions and _iews, the OP clearly expresses his, which he is entitled to, providing they don't break the rules

True, and women who think his choice of words is derogatory and inflammatory are entitled to say so."

I wasn't saying they can't

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Which one loses you friends fastest?

Using a word that is offensive?

Or having used that word continued justifying the use of the word?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"

its not the terminology, its the context the op has used the word, added to his following posts and its clear to see he set out to get such reactions as he has."

It worked then (although maybe not the way it might have hoped to)...but it turned into a good debate with _iews about the word and the actual subject.

My post was bringing the definition to it and what I thought of the word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the OP still gets too much stick for his choice of words...

Whilst whore is not a particular nice term, the forums are an open platform for people to express their opinions and _iews, the OP clearly expresses his, which he is entitled to, providing they don't break the rules

True, and women who think his choice of words is derogatory and inflammatory are entitled to say so."

It's not just women who find the choice of words derogatory and inflammatory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It worked then (although maybe not the way it might have hoped to)...but it turned into a good debate with _iews about the word and the actual subject.

"

I've really enjoyed following this thread, the terminology was clearly designed to be incendiary but it's lead to a really good informed debate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the OP still gets too much stick for his choice of words...

Whilst whore is not a particular nice term, the forums are an open platform for people to express their opinions and _iews, the OP clearly expresses his, which he is entitled to, providing they don't break the rules

True, and women who think his choice of words is derogatory and inflammatory are entitled to say so.

It's not just women who find the choice of words derogatory and inflammatory "

I agree the term is derogatory and inflammatory and it clearly got the response the OP intended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would encourage anyone to type "whore" into the username search facility and count the hundreds of women choosing this word to be a part of their username.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens on certain days at a particular place. It has been described to me by 3 men on separate occasions as rooms with girls in and men queuing to go in. Sounds like whoring to me,or they just enjoy sex that much they do it for free with whomsoever walks through the door

That's called being a greedy girl And what's wrong with that... And most will not have whoever walks through the door. just ladies that can handle lots of men

or hired women waiting in rooms like they've been paid to

Really??? Seems like I forgot to get paid then....

Or maybe it doesn't happen when you're there or even in your club? Do you let anyone who fancies it join in regardless? No say in who fucks you?

hang on i work in a club that pays girls, i don't know what image you have of such places but i can assure you that as a paid woman i have 100% say in who fucks me, the laws outside the club apply within and if i say no to a guy no means no, all because women are paid that does not mean anyone can join in and they have no say

It's not an image I made up in my head. It's rooms with girls in and men lining up outside. Now tell me my friends are all making it up and they're just greedy girls having their fun day in day out week after week. Who all happen to be young and good looking. Oh and the brothel above the sweet shop is actually a bible class

So whats this club called then?

Have you experienced it yourself?

Or is this the same anti club rumour mill we offer hear from guys we meet. Many bad mouth clubs because of idle gossip yet have never attended!"

We have seen this at a club. Yes it does exist. Queues of men and it wasn't a greedy girls day. We spoke to one of the women and she confirmed they were paid.

Slightly naive to claim it doesn't happen. What's the issue as long as they are happy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would encourage anyone to type "whore" into the username search facility and count the hundreds of women choosing this word to be a part of their username.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I would encourage anyone to type "whore" into the username search facility and count the hundreds of women choosing this word to be a part of their username.

"

absolutely true.....

however if people liked, then you could use it if you like as an "instant filter"... and nothing to stop you from doing that

a lot of it depends of the context in which is use, which a lot of times is negative or disparaging

for example... a lot of people called me lovingly a tart... I have called myself a "social whore" as a love chatting to people...

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Or you could count the ones that don't use the word whore. I think there may be more of one than the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or you could count the ones that don't use the word whore. I think there may be more of one than the other. "

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Or you could count the ones that don't use the word whore. I think there may be more of one than the other. "

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"

its not the terminology, its the context the op has used the word, added to his following posts and its clear to see he set out to get such reactions as he has.

It worked then (although maybe not the way it might have hoped to)...but it turned into a good debate with _iews about the word and the actual subject.

My post was bringing the definition to it and what I thought of the word."

it worked if what they forums are, are a place for people to intentionally use derogatory terms and words to inflame a reaction, which is what the op did here, there are many other ways to discuss the subject of paid hostesses in clubs without been derogatory and offensive toward people and then been proud of yourself for doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens on certain days at a particular place. It has been described to me by 3 men on separate occasions as rooms with girls in and men queuing to go in. Sounds like whoring to me,or they just enjoy sex that much they do it for free with whomsoever walks through the door

That's called being a greedy girl And what's wrong with that... And most will not have whoever walks through the door. just ladies that can handle lots of men

or hired women waiting in rooms like they've been paid to

Really??? Seems like I forgot to get paid then....

Or maybe it doesn't happen when you're there or even in your club? Do you let anyone who fancies it join in regardless? No say in who fucks you?

hang on i work in a club that pays girls, i don't know what image you have of such places but i can assure you that as a paid woman i have 100% say in who fucks me, the laws outside the club apply within and if i say no to a guy no means no, all because women are paid that does not mean anyone can join in and they have no say

It's not an image I made up in my head. It's rooms with girls in and men lining up outside. Now tell me my friends are all making it up and they're just greedy girls having their fun day in day out week after week. Who all happen to be young and good looking. Oh and the brothel above the sweet shop is actually a bible class

So whats this club called then?

Have you experienced it yourself?

Or is this the same anti club rumour mill we offer hear from guys we meet. Many bad mouth clubs because of idle gossip yet have never attended!

We have seen this at a club. Yes it does exist. Queues of men and it wasn't a greedy girls day. We spoke to one of the women and she confirmed they were paid.

Slightly naive to claim it doesn't happen. What's the issue as long as they are happy?"

Never said it didn't happen but did imply no one has the balls to name a club that employs in house prostitutes as opposed to hostesses. This clearly is not swinging.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This thread has produced such a wonderful debate.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"This thread has produced such a wonderful debate."

it has been a very good thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a huge difference between someone being paid to hostess at a club or party and has a choice of who they have sex with and going by what some here have claimed people who are paid to have sex with whoever wants to have sex with them. Surely going by what has already been said here these ladies have a choice? So if they want a gang bang why the hell not?

Our problem is they implication that there is no choice in the matter. Look at it from this point of _iew, if a guy has sex with a woman who has no choice in the matter wouldn't that leagally make them a rapist? Think about what is being implied here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some things really concern me on this thread, the terminology for one but I think enough has been said on that subject.

We are a swinging couple who swing, we also run a night at a club so we host That night, can't believe anyone would think we get paid to be popular and have sex with guys, luckily single guys don't do it for us so at least I or we can't be accused of it, but I would hate to think people thought that of me or us.

Secondarily it's somewhat concerning when ladies say they are paid to go to clubs to have sex with men, saying they have the choice of with who is neither here nor there, too us it goes against what we feel is swinging where people MUTUALLY enjoy fun for no monetary gain x

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