FabSwingers.com forum: constructive criticism

By *icked kitty OP Couple
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

This is meant as a helpful hint to those single guys out there.We love swingers clubs and often play or just have great conversations with single guys .We all know that single guys will be there in large numbers and they provide the cash impetus that keeps the clubs viable. Now to the point when in "Lust" the male face can look rather hmmm off putting the eye's become predator like and body language the same. In a close intimate situation this is great the sexual partner will mirror this and its time to get down and dirty. However gentleman when you are wondering around a club alone or on the peripheries of some fun and would like to join in this look is a no no.It is disconcerting and viewed by the female as almost threatening so being asked to play will be out of the question. So in conclusion watch your body language and testosterone levels Gentlemen, use your charm, smile and engage in conversion. Hope this is of some help.Posted with the best intentions tongue in cheek .Have fun Guys xxx

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you

I always try and engage in conversation and if conversation is the only thing on offer then that's fine

After all we all like to flirt don't we

By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

I agree with everything kitty has said,to meny men follow the couple's round and this puts them off,try and talk to some one and see how far I goes.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say 'smile' and make eye contact.

When my wife and I club so many guys are looking sullen and keep whizzing round looking for action that's already started.

The guys who take the time to smile when they catch our eye are halfway into a conversation and halfway into a room with us!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is meant as a helpful hint to those single guys out there.We love swingers clubs and often play or just have great conversations with single guys .We all know that single guys will be there in large numbers and they provide the cash impetus that keeps the clubs viable. Now to the point when in "Lust" the male face can look rather hmmm off putting the eye's become predator like and body language the same. In a close intimate situation this is great the sexual partner will mirror this and its time to get down and dirty. However gentleman when you are wondering around a club alone or on the peripheries of some fun and would like to join in this look is a no no.It is disconcerting and viewed by the female as almost threatening so being asked to play will be out of the question. So in conclusion watch your body language and testosterone levels Gentlemen, use your charm, smile and engage in conversion. Hope this is of some help.Posted with the best intentions tongue in cheek .Have fun Guys xxx

It was for this reason exactly, what put me off swinging as a single fem

Dance x