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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im very intrigued to attend a club...but nervous and feel weird about the whole. ..getting in then changing..then other side on a towel!

Can someone tell me about their experiences and what that transition is really like?

Pretty please

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By *chillesHeelCouple
over a year ago

Somerset

I've been to the same club twice now and had very different experiences. The first time I went with a group of people I had spoken to on here, went out for dinner etc. we ended up very naked very quickly but it seemed totally normal. We went on our own the second time and took it much slower, just soaking in the atmosphere. Our experience is that it is really relaxed, no pressure and you can take it as fast or as slowly as you like. Sooooo much fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will probably think, like we did, that the people would be all "fit" model types who will pounce the minute you enter....

Truth is it will be full of "normal" people (well, normal perverts lol)

Lots of wobbly bits (especially the blokes)

All very safe/relaxed/fun

Go on a couples night perhaps?...less zombie blokes to bother you

Also don't sweat re entering,....most clubs have kinda hidden doorways etc...you can't see in

Forget the nerves n go for it...the staff will have seen it all before

Oh and pick a popular club

Some of em can be dead n very off putting

Chams n xtasia seem busy most times we have been

Others less so and we haven't been back

Hth

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think I'm gonna take the plunge...I might take a partner in crime to a couples night. ...thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I'm gonna take the plunge...I might take a partner in crime to a couples night. ...thanks

I go on my own as a single woman...the one I go to isn't scary at all and everyone's really friendly. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different clubs have different systems. Some you must be smartly dressed, for the social areas. Others you must 'disrobe' immediately. Either way, a definite lack of 'model' types and a lot of normal but naughty people. Younger and older, with wobbly bits and not.

Its really not scary.... go for it...

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

"You will probably think, like we did, that the people would be all "fit" model types who will pounce the minute you enter....

Truth is it will be full of "normal" people (well, normal perverts lol)

Lots of wobbly bits (especially the blokes)

All very safe/relaxed/fun

Go on a couples night perhaps?...less zombie blokes to bother you

Also don't sweat re entering,....most clubs have kinda hidden doorways etc...you can't see in

Forget the nerves n go for it...the staff will have seen it all before

Oh and pick a popular club

Some of em can be dead n very off putting

Chams n xtasia seem busy most times we have been

Others less so and we haven't been back

Hth

Have fun"

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By *LovesJCouple
over a year ago

France dept 23

Not sure where to go or what to expect, we know that feeling only too well.

Just like you we are planning our first club night but unsure where to go.

Will probably go on Saturday 2nd Aug, and Angels melksham most likely at the moment, but still searching for the best for newbie couple who soft swing and the lady looking to discover her bi side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too had exactly the same feelings before Friday night! I would strongly recommend going to Vanilla Alternative it would be an hour and 30 minute drive from rugby! VA is a really chilled and relaxed bar area until 11pm where people mingle and chat....then things get naughty. There's no pressure on you there, they limit the guys on a Friday too. They also have a fine young lady who shows you round and gives you the tour.

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