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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi All,

After much deliberation, I've made a decision to make my first club visit to VA. Registered online and all approved. Hopefully going Friday.

I'm 26, been on here on and off for a few years. No verifications on this account yet but keen to get into the club scene. I've done my research so chatting to people and dressing smart is key. My only concern is I'm 26 and look younger (best say that when I'm 40) Will I be out of place? I can hold my own in any conversation and I'm certainly not shy! Thoughts please? Also anyone who is going Friday, please drop me a message if you'd like to calm my nerves!!

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

Although I'm at the other end of the age scale, Vanilla Alternative welcomes visitors of all ages and from all backgrounds. As a regular Friday night visitor, I can assure you that you'll be made most welcome and that a fun evening is guaranteed.

People socialize in the bar and lounge areas first and then as the evening progresses, it moves into the wonderful great big hot tub. What happens next is entirely up to you but I'm sure you won't be disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first visit there we met a 27 yr old and he looked younger....he did stand out but only for all the right reasons

Alabama x

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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People of all ages go... Just have a friendly fun attitude and you will be fine.

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

Looks like it will be a hot evening at VA's tonight in more ways than one. Good job we will all be able to chill out in the hot tub! Looking forward to meeting FAB friends old and new.

Oh, and only a month to go before the wonderful Festival of Fun weekend. Can't wait!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Attended for the first time last night! Great place, very friendly and up market. Thank you for Lexi who showed me round. Met a couple on there first time and shared a drink with them. Big thanks to the couple who i played with in the playroom in front of the hot tub. If your on here drop me a message and ill verify you. Loved my first trip and can't wait to review when the site allows me.

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By *exy 69Couple
over a year ago

Tempsford

Your very welcome Jamest. I'm really glad you had a great night and I hope to see you again soon. Lexy x

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By *pice of life 79Man
over a year ago

lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham

I'd love to go on my own my only worry is if I'm stood there on my own all night I'd feel a right lemon , I've been before when I was a couple on here but to go on my own would take a lot of courage

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By *exy 69Couple
over a year ago

Tempsford

If you have been to the club before, you will know that it is a very friendly place. If you are prepared to chat with people you will find they are more than happy to chat back. Anything else will follow naturally x

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By *pice of life 79Man
over a year ago

lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham


"If you have been to the club before, you will know that it is a very friendly place. If you are prepared to chat with people you will find they are more than happy to chat back. Anything else will follow naturally x"
yeah very true I suppose I ought to just take a risk , it is the best club I've been too

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By *exy 69Couple
over a year ago

Tempsford


"If you have been to the club before, you will know that it is a very friendly place. If you are prepared to chat with people you will find they are more than happy to chat back. Anything else will follow naturally xyeah very true I suppose I ought to just take a risk , it is the best club I've been too "
Great..... Then it's settled.I will look forward to seeing you in the not to distant future x

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By *pice of life 79Man
over a year ago

lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham


"If you have been to the club before, you will know that it is a very friendly place. If you are prepared to chat with people you will find they are more than happy to chat back. Anything else will follow naturally xyeah very true I suppose I ought to just take a risk , it is the best club I've been too Great..... Then it's settled.I will look forward to seeing you in the not to distant future I x"
i hope so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what does vanilla mean?

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By *exy 69Couple
over a year ago

Tempsford

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By *exy 69Couple
over a year ago

Tempsford

A vanilla night out is what you would normally do with friends/partner. A plain night out. The alternative is what we do.... lol a break from the plain

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By *pice of life 79Man
over a year ago

lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham


"what does vanilla mean?"

Vanilla means boring and needs a bit of spice lol

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