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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What are women looking for on this site? Been here for ages now but having no luck at all. Has anybody got any useful tips/advice on how to get somewhere on this site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different women look for different things. Maybe not tried to contact any looking for you yet but they will be out there....

What have you tried to get meets? Been to any clubs or socials?

Organised any socials? If not why not?

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Whatever it is that women want, according to your profile, you're not offering it - as 'shop windows' go, it's pretty empty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile would indicate that you just want to chat and implies a slight reluctance to meet. To attract the attention of women for chatting then you will need to give them a good reason to want to chat to you. Add a little sparkle to your profile text, give them a bit of your personality. If you think you might meet up with the right person then add that to your profile too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whatever it is that women want, according to your profile, you're not offering it - as 'shop windows' go, it's pretty empty."

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By *offee and Cream 2Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Loughborough

Profile!

Effort = rewards!

So far you score 1 out of 10 for effort.

Spend time on your profile and reap the rewards!

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By *DFL6828Man
over a year ago

Leicester

My profile is a bit crap i know, how i get round it is by going to a clubs. Meeting people and getting involved with there conversations. But you have to know when to push the conversation and when not to. Also, remember that when you go to a club your not guaranteed sex. You may go to a club 6 or 7 times and nothing happens But if you have put the ground work in the next time you go, something might happen. You just don't know.... For me that's part of the fun

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

It would be easier to play Jenga upside down while doing a crossword in russian while doing a rubix cube blindfolded then trying to figure out what women want.

Persistence would be my advice.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Yeap, I agree with the others, crap profile along with the fact your married! Would you be rushing to meet you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are women looking for on this site? Been here for ages now but having no luck at all. Has anybody got any useful tips/advice on how to get somewhere on this site?"

Being married will definitely count against you for many women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooooh we scared him off...... And he had tried for six months!!

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"Oooooh we scared him off...... And he had tried for six months!!"

Bet he wishes he'd never asked now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people just wont take good advice lol

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

He's probably gone to start a new profile, one which doesn't include the word 'married' in it.

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