FabSwingers.com forum: TGirls at normal swinging clubs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do you think of Tgirls attending regular couples/single guys nights at swinging clubs? Acceptable? Weird? Would you mind? Would you play?

Just interested in general views

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Perfectly acceptable. Why wouldn't it be?

Though I am aware of a lingering bias against any male on male action in open rooms and get annoyed that a supposedly liberated group of people can be so intolerant.

And yes, I am aware that not all t girls are bi or even have dicks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wouldn`t have a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have seen it at chams once although didn't see them play, it wouldn't bother me but as already has been said for a liberated group of people there are still a lot that judge

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By *oxy-blonde-vixenWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

Nope don't have a problem with it

I even encourage it.

I'm often at my local club with my TV friend and hope a few more will start coming too

D x

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By *oxy-blonde-vixenWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

Nope don't have a problem with it

I even encourage it.

I'm often at my local club with my TV friend and hope a few more will start coming too

D x

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

A number of swinger clubs like Infusion in Blackpool have bi nights (Wednesdays) or open nights where all are welcome including Tgirls.

I have found all clubs that I have contacted have been courteous and given advice on which days Tgirls would be welcome.

To the OP, just contact the clubs you are interested in and ask them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To answer questions directly. ..no wouldn't-didn't bother me as have seen a number of times......no I wouldn't play but thats just me being str8. No problems if they do...

All part of swinging isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not an issue with us at all we have met a few lovely T girls and it's nice to see a mixed crowd in a club.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

acceptable sure...... why not..... more the merrier creates a good mix

whether people would be inclined to play with you if that is what you wanted may be a different question...... but that would be the same of any people

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

I love to see Tgirls...think they look gorgeous so I personally wouldn't have a problem with it !

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By *ivente clubCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

We welcome them at our club on mixed nights and they have been made to feel very welcome by our members. we have had a couple of T girls visit us over the past few weeks and they have loved it. I agree with most opinions on here, swingers can not discriminate against any persons lifestyle choice as that would scream hypocrisy. and personally I find them very interesting characters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't bother me in the slightest,I like a mix of everyone in a club,makes it much more interesting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope don't have a problem with it

I even encourage it.

I'm often at my local club with my TV friend and hope a few more will start coming too

D x "

Which club is that? When does it run? xx

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By *oxy-blonde-vixenWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Nope don't have a problem with it

I even encourage it.

I'm often at my local club with my TV friend and hope a few more will start coming too

D x

Which club is that? When does it run? xx"

Have sent you a message

D x

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By *arteeneWoman
over a year ago

aylesbury

Well I would love to attend a club knowing that I am welcome I have been to pink punters which I found a nice bunch of people I think everyone I have met has been so kind to me

With regards playing I am told thete are a lot who would play with us which is nice also in the end we are all human x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A warm welcome awaits you at Blackpool Connections mixed Club. A club that embraces every sexuality at all times, we believe in equality. A club where you can turn fantasy into reality. A place where you can feel safe to play, and be who you are. A place where T girls can come all the time day or night and if people don't like it that way this is not the club for you

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By *arteeneWoman
over a year ago

aylesbury

"A warm welcome awaits you at Blackpool Connections mixed Club. A club that embraces every sexuality at all times, we believe in equality. A club where you can turn fantasy into reality. A place where you can feel safe to play, and be who you are. A place where T girls can come all the time day or night and if people don't like it that way this is not the club for you

Aw thank you I will make sure I come along when I come upto Blackpool xx

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By *oxy-blonde-vixenWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

Ooooooo sounds like a road trip might be in order

D x

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By *arteeneWoman
over a year ago

aylesbury

Ooooooo sounds like a road trip might be in order

D x"

Mmm

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I love it and would play if I liked the person... I agree with the tolerance remarks though and think there should be more acceptance and less judgements passed...

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

We met a lovelly lady on Sat night x

Perfectly normal xxx

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By *arteeneWoman
over a year ago

aylesbury

"We met a lovelly lady on Sat night x

Perfectly normal xxx

I agree when bad comments are made by guys I think deep down they are only jealous and would love to try a Tgirl lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely no issue for me in the slightest - seen a few at abfabs from time to time and as far as I could make out they were welcomed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My current partner in crime is very interested in watching me fuck a t girl and I'm going to sort something out and I did always wonder how is was with t girls at clubs.

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By *oxy-blonde-vixenWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

"My current partner in crime is very interested in watching me fuck a t girl and I'm going to sort something out and I did always wonder how is was with t girls at clubs."

Hehe can I watch too

D x

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Tolerance is a beautiful thing....

R x

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By *arteeneWoman
over a year ago

aylesbury

"My current partner in crime is very interested in watching me fuck a t girl and I'm going to sort something out and I did always wonder how is was with t girls at clubs."

Mmm yes please x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My current partner in crime is very interested in watching me fuck a t girl and I'm going to sort something out and I did always wonder how is was with t girls at clubs.

Hehe can I watch too

D x"

It would be our pleasure

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By *arteeneWoman
over a year ago

aylesbury

"My current partner in crime is very interested in watching me fuck a t girl and I'm going to sort something out and I did always wonder how is was with t girls at clubs.

Hehe can I watch too

D x

It would be our pleasure

And mine x

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By *iccardaTV/TS
over a year ago

Wallasey

Townhouse welcomes TGirls on all nights oits why i'm there all the time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tgirls are most welcome on all nights at Vivente's. The members always make time for them. And have to say when I'm serving at the bar they it's a pleasure to serve them. They are down to earth fun to talk to and always game for a laugh.

To the point Viventes has a night (Mondays) dedicated just for them if they feel they wish to party all out.

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

"My current partner in crime is very interested in watching me fuck a t girl and I'm going to sort something out and I did always wonder how is was with t girls at clubs.

Hehe can I watch too

D x

It would be our pleasure

And mine x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a few at one of my local clubs and was lucky to be involved in some fun with two and a fellow female

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By *arteeneWoman
over a year ago

aylesbury

"My current partner in crime is very interested in watching me fuck a t girl and I'm going to sort something out and I did always wonder how is was with t girls at clubs.

Hehe can I watch too

D x

It would be our pleasure

And mine x

Lookalike I have some travelling todo x

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By *lare GTV/TS
over a year ago

South of Sleaford

I was at Tease 2 last Friday night. I found that everyone was friendly and accepting. I will be going again!!

However, I am still not sure about going to a club on a couples night. One day I will try no doubt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely you'd need a partner to go to a couples night?

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Interesting topic.

As long as your straight up about things and want to go I cant see the issue it will be the people who attends prerogative if they play with you or not.

The bit that confuses me, if it was a "couples" night what would a TV pay or a TS pay ? would they pay the female "rate" ? or the male "rate" ? cause there often enough of a difference in the price that you might find guys turning up in dresses just to get past the "single guy limits" and "cost" and then how do you police that ?

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By *arteeneWoman
over a year ago

aylesbury

"Surely you'd need a partner to go to a couples night?"

That's a good point

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Surely you'd need a partner to go to a couples night?"

Well couple nights allow couples + single females, which opens the door to what you class as a single female, without giving people a reason to get hysterical I dont consider a guy in a dress and a wig a "female" in this regard.

But yes as I asked in my last post, couples nights dont tend to allow males in so I'm not sure how it would go down/be policed effectively.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen a few at various club nights never on a couples night though. Would be interesting to see if a club would allow you in on a night like that otherwise a precedent could be set where a load of horny single men turn up in their mothers dresses!

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By *oxy-blonde-vixenWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

"I was at Tease 2 last Friday night. I found that everyone was friendly and accepting. I will be going again!!

However, I am still not sure about going to a club on a couples night. One day I will try no doubt."

It was great to see you there again darling

D x

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By *oxy-blonde-vixenWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

"I was at Tease 2 last Friday night. I found that everyone was friendly and accepting. I will be going again!!

However, I am still not sure about going to a club on a couples night. One day I will try no doubt."

It was great to see you there again darling

D x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seen a few at various club nights never on a couples night though. Would be interesting to see if a club would allow you in on a night like that otherwise a precedent could be set where a load of horny single men turn up in their mothers dresses! "

I'm sure it would happen!!

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By *oxy-blonde-vixenWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

I think the only way it can be controlled is the same way we do at tease with single guys

You have to have a account on here and be verified as genuine

D x

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By *lare GTV/TS
over a year ago

South of Sleaford

I think a visit by me to a club on a couples night would take place if I got an invite.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"Met a few at one of my local clubs and was lucky to be involved in some fun with two and a fellow female

That's a coincidence! When I was last in the Attic, I and my friend Gemma ended up having some fun with two sexy girls.

I prefer to hit clubs on non-TG nights. I've found them to be accepting and whilst some of the people there aren't attracted to you, no one is obnoxious or funny about it.

I can't wait to go to the Attic this Friday for the party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely you'd need a partner to go to a couples night?

That's a good point "

Even though usually it's posted as couples + Singles.

TGirls are no different. All are welcome

Some couples like the idea of being with a TGirl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure it would happen!!"

I'm surprised they don't. I have been to a club dressed once and I got charged the reduced entrance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure it would happen!!"

I'm surprised they don't. I have been to a club dressed once and I got charged the reduced entrance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Met a few at one of my local clubs and was lucky to be involved in some fun with two and a fellow female

That's a coincidence! When I was last in the Attic, I and my friend Gemma ended up having some fun with two sexy girls.

I prefer to hit clubs on non-TG nights. I've found them to be accepting and whilst some of the people there aren't attracted to you, no one is obnoxious or funny about it.

I can't wait to go to the Attic this Friday for the party

Wish I was going x could do with a repeat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm looking to go to a club on a Saturday night in a few weeks. I'm in the midlands but would travel .

Any ideas x

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

I've been attending the south London swingers nights in Sutton this year and have to say I was surprised just how well things went. I've had fun and play, with more than a little interest from women (wasn't expecting that).. Great times.

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By *arteeneWoman
over a year ago

aylesbury

"I've been attending the south London swingers nights in Sutton this year and have to say I was surprised just how well things went. I've had fun and play, with more than a little interest from women (wasn't expecting that).. Great times.

Where is that held would love to come with you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt have a problem with it at all, end of the day clubs are a social hub for likeminded adults. Having a mix of people would be great! Personally I find Tgirls hot & fun to be around so hell yeah I would fuck her & encourage anyone there who was unsure on the matter to come watch x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well Cathy lacy you need to look at a review in clubs and see how a tgirl got on this Saturday night at the club you keep saying is ok for tgirls as its not what you say if it was then that tgirl will of been let in like they are at my club as it embraces every sexuality at all times,

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

Where is that held would love to come with you x"

Sutton.. South London swingers Saturday is the next.. Message me if you're interested xx

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By *onnyforfunMan
over a year ago

Doncaster

i love to see tgirls at clubs and would most definately play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just been to Blackpool Connections, and I can personally vouch for this club. Fantastic people, great venue, and very very open and welcoming. I was there last saturday, and although I'm new to the scene I was honestly and utterly spoiled for choice with the number of people who wanted to play with me. And that despite the fact that I'm not into single men...I only play with women or couples. Thank you for an amazing night! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well Cathy lacy you need to look at a review in clubs and see how a tgirl got on this Saturday night at the club you keep saying is ok for tgirls as its not what you say if it was then that tgirl will of been let in like they are at my club as it embraces every sexuality at all times,"

That was me. Just posted a comment in reply here too... xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting topic.

As long as your straight up about things and want to go I cant see the issue it will be the people who attends prerogative if they play with you or not.

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It's a good point, but if you think about it, this will actually police itself. The club could charge a price half way between the rates, since as a t-girl I'm half way between the genders that seems fair to me!

As to how it would work...most couples who want to play with a tgirl only want a "girl" who is really convincing and passable, not bob-the-builder in a charity shop granny dress and a smiffys wig. So the guys who tried that would very quickly find that although they got in cheaper, they'd get no play, and therefore stop doing it!

And if they DID get MORE play...erm...who cares???? Isn't that the point of swinging??

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

Where I go I pay more than a single girl but less than a guy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at connections we love having t.girls come along any time and friday day times we have a t.girl party day

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By *arteeneWoman
over a year ago

aylesbury

"at connections we love having t.girls come along any time and friday day times we have a t.girl party day

Will have to pay a visit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

T girls pay less then guys at connections and are welcome every day and night we are open

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By *arteeneWoman
over a year ago

aylesbury

"T girls pay less then guys at connections and are welcome every day and night we are open "

Do you accom

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We welcome them at our club on mixed nights and they have been made to feel very welcome by our members. we have had a couple of T girls visit us over the past few weeks and they have loved it. I agree with most opinions on here, swingers can not discriminate against any persons lifestyle choice as that would scream hypocrisy. and personally I find them very interesting characters."

Sounds like a great club. If i get up your way i will come along xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've just been to Blackpool Connections, and I can personally vouch for this club. Fantastic people, great venue, and very very open and welcoming. I was there last saturday, and although I'm new to the scene I was honestly and utterly spoiled for choice with the number of people who wanted to play with me. And that despite the fact that I'm not into single men...I only play with women or couples. Thank you for an amazing night! xx

So wish i lived further up north, its all happening there!

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By *arteeneWoman
over a year ago

aylesbury

So wish i lived further up north, its all happening there!"

Maybe we should arrange a visit with a few of us xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be up for that x

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

TGirls are welcome on every night at Townhouse and we also have a TGirl event once a month. Our members are more than used to our glamorous TGirls wandering around our club and we get very positive feedback about our open door policy on all members regardless of their sexual and identity preference.

Vic xx

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By *v_heatherTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

Connections & Gatehouse (Bolton) both really welcoming. A good guide IMO is do they offer an advertised rate for Tgirls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely you'd need a partner to go to a couples night?

But yes as I asked in my last post, couples nights dont tend to allow males in so I'm not sure how it would go down/be policed effectively.

if on couples nights clubs also allow single women how on earth can they call it couples night and if this being the case then this must be to discriminatiin against single males.

Either it is couples night or it is not its that simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as it's an accepting club I prefer to go out on non t-girl nights anyway and prefer the broader mix of people. Good thread by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you think of Tgirls attending regular couples/single guys nights at swinging clubs? Acceptable? Weird? Would you mind? Would you play?

Just interested in general views

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don't make any difference to us. But wouldn't play

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By *enny PR9TV/TS
over a year ago

Southport

As a bit of a man eater myself I find Blackpool Connections a perfect base for my chosen sport.

They are always very welcoming to all the tgirls who go there and I've always got on with all my fellow swingers who I've seen there, whatever their sexual persuasion.

Jenny xxx

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town

Would love to see lots of t-girls on regular nights, yes please!!

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Would seem most don't mind.

I personally woukd like to see more or perhaps spacific nights to make more come and feel comfortable

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"Would seem most don't mind.

I personally woukd like to see more or perhaps spacific nights to make more come and feel comfortable"

There are quite a few with specific nights, but to be honest, I personally prefer the general nights. I find I do just as well with peeps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blackpool connections swingers club lets tgirls in any time we are open Saturday nights tgirls pay what single girls pay to get in and there's no membership fees for any one its free and no membership fees for single guys to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cupids will not let transgender or transsexual in and it looks like the new club Amour Manchester is the same its sad that they are not as open as they think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the clubs I have been to have welcomed me with no real problems, though one club did try and charge me single guy rates as I wasnt dressed when I arrived (my response - shall I change in your car park then?) but otherwise everyone has been great.

Play wise - well, read my verifications!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont have a problem at all with tv/ts at clubs. 1 of the clubs i used to go to had occassions where there was quite a few and it was really good fun. even the barman became a bar lady at times. i never heard 1 person complain. the maid at some of the events was the best tv i've ever seen and met. beautiful and sexy. fi

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

"Perfectly acceptable. Why wouldn't it be?

Though I am aware of a lingering bias against any male on male action in open rooms and get annoyed that a supposedly liberated group of people can be so intolerant.

And yes, I am aware that not all t girls are bi or even have dicks."

how refreshing.

When i joined i expected all swingers to be as tolerant as yr good self

some serious homophobIa/transphobia on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"cupids will not let transgender or transsexual in and it looks like the new club Amour Manchester is the same its sad that they are not as open as they think.

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Amour. Was not opentwo weeks ago and it does not state they not welcome mind reader you are... ooo just seen u been to the opening night and slated them what club do u like if I may ask

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By *iNw69Man
over a year ago

Manchester

You would be welcome anytime at Decadance..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sounds like plenty of clubs and swingers like having tgirls around

. Wish more down south did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more the merrier we say. If you don't like it you don't have to watch.

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By *arteeneWoman
over a year ago

aylesbury

"The more the merrier we say. If you don't like it you don't have to watch. "

It's so nice to think in this day and age everyone is equal which is so heart warming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Townhouse certainly is Tgirls friendly, I go a lot and never have any problem. I get the odd stare but its often people who are curious but a bit shy to come talk to me lol.

Went to Chameleons with my partner for valentines and while we didn't get any play, everyone seemed accepting mostly of me being dressed. The staff where really lovely to us.

It is a shame there are so many narrow minded people in the swinging scene, it's a bit confusing really as to how they can be like that

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