FabSwingers.com forum: Bank Holiday Club

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have never been to a club. This bank holiday has all the aspects of being able to go. Money, time and courage. Is there anything in London area this bank holiday weekend or anyone want to meet up and go with?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never been to a club. This bank holiday has all the aspects of being able to go. Money, time and courage. Is there anything in London area this bank holiday weekend or anyone want to meet up and go with? "

good for you for wanting to go. im sure you will have a great time. its just the initial walk in the door feeling that is scary....i remember my legs were shaking one min then when i stepped inside they were like led....i soon calmed down and never looked back. ive even been to a club on my own and sat at the bar chatting to other lovely folk.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its time to put my money where my mouth is I think. Will bite the bullet this weekend x

By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

The first time I walked onto a club I was so nervous. I just made my mind up I was going and I was going to get out my car and walk through the door without thinking about it. It worked for me. Ive only been to a club 3 times so I still get very nervous but it is getting easier. If your club is anything like the clubs Ive been to youll find the staff are very welcoming and friendly. Especially if you mention that it is your first time ever in a club.

Dont go there with any expectations that things are going to happen. They might not. just because your in a sex club it doesnt mean that everyone is desperate and will go with the first person that asks. It just means that everyone there is after the same thing, there still has to be a spark. Be courtious and respectful at all times. Dont touch unless your given the ok too.

Go there like you would go into a new local pub, with the intention of socialising and getting to know people, and if you get to play then its a bonus.

Relax and enjoy... and smile