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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi everyone.. Please can we have some feed back have read the reviews and really looking for any advice or tips or negatives, it's our first time

And we we want to make sure we have chosen well because on the surface it looks very nice.... Please help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lovely club with a very relaxed atmosphere, lots of nice open play areas very large clean jacuzzi . We have only been once ourselves (timing on our part ) but definitely going again .have fun .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi everyone.. Please can we have some feed back have read the reviews and really looking for any advice or tips or negatives, it's our first time

And we we want to make sure we have chosen well because on the surface it looks very nice.... Please help

We've never had a bad night there...lovely classy clean place with a really friendly crowd of people...well balanced environment with equally good play and non play areas...the jacuzzi is out of this world...hope you enjoy yourselves

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

I went last night and had a wonderful time. As someone who runs a small business myself, I know the passion required to live the dream. Jules and Scott set their sights high when designing this venue and the result is a magical mix of sumptuous surroundings, spacious and sexy play areas, lively bar and dance floor, relaxing lounge and overnight accommodation for those who want to stay.

The family management team together with the rest of the lovely people who work here provide a warm welcome to all visitors, many of whom travel great distances to visit this very special adult night spot. First timers will experience a full guided tour before joining others in the bar or lounge. Everyone is so friendly. Conversation flows and no one is left to feel isolated.

This friendly atmosphere then moves into and around the huge hot tub. Sometimes conversation, sometimes play, sometimes a mixture of both but always respectful. Visitors are from all walks of life and cover a wide mix of ages but here in the hot tub or surrounding play areas, everyone is here to have fun and it acts as a great leveller.

I find my regular Friday night visit to Vanilla Alternative a wonderful way of rounding off a busy working week, chatting to friends and new visitors, enjoying a couple of drinks, sampling the tasty buffet, relaxing in the hot tub and ….well, come and find out for yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I went last night and had a wonderful time. As someone who runs a small business myself, I know the passion required to live the dream. Jules and Scott set their sights high when designing this venue and the result is a magical mix of sumptuous surroundings, spacious and sexy play areas, lively bar and dance floor, relaxing lounge and overnight accommodation for those who want to stay.

How much you get paid for that ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's on my to do list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top club great atmosphere always had a good night enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great club with friendly guys and girls working there and the people having fun there were really welcoming. We're had a great night you should definitely try it but you will end up in the hot tub so be prepared

h&jx

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

How much you get paid for that ha ha "

Nothing at all!

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By *ed and lexyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Carlton Curtis is playing at the vanila alternative tonight.

prizes to be found that include free drinks and free entry to the club

Bubbles in the tub

should be a fab night.

when you turn up you will be shown round the club by one of the hostess and if your worried they normally spend a bit of time with you to make sure your at ease.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Absolutely love it there. Our favorite club by far. Just wish we could go more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can vouch for Ted and Lexy being a lovely friendly couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went there for our first swinging experience ! We love it and have been back since and cant wait to go again !

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Great club. Great atmosphere and staff are lovely. I have always had great nights there and plan to attend again rather soon. Hot tub is lush and love the lighting especially xx

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By *herrygrayCouple
over a year ago

Wellingborough

"Great club. Great atmosphere and staff are lovely. I have always had great nights there and plan to attend again rather soon. Hot tub is lush and love the lighting especially xx"

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By *herrygrayCouple
over a year ago

Wellingborough

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I'm taking there is no negatives at all then

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

People will always find something a negative.I love the sultry lilighting but others may hate it. What one person loves another will dislike. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Great club with friendly guys and girls working there and the people having fun there were really welcoming. We're had a great night you should definitely try it but you will end up in the hot tub so be prepared

h&jx"

That's why I don't fancy it because I don't do hot tubs they make me cringe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Great club. Great atmosphere and staff are lovely. I have always had great nights there and plan to attend again rather soon. Hot tub is lush and love the lighting especially xx"

On the same night as me hopefully

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"Great club. Great atmosphere and staff are lovely. I have always had great nights there and plan to attend again rather soon. Hot tub is lush and love the lighting especially xx

On the same night as me hopefully

xx"

I do have a date I am meeting a couple there.....sounds like a plan in the making. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well that's done it Saturday the 5th of July... Done booked en suite 50 pound room... Booked pack it... And hopefully.. You know what

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So of its rubbish!!!! I will blame you lo!!!!

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By *latinumknight69Man
over a year ago

cambs

All I can say is great club friendly bunch and very enjoyable night out ...you choose well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much is it for singles ?

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By *ed and lexyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Well that's done it Saturday the 5th of July... Done booked en suite 50 pound room... Booked pack it... And hopefully.. You know what

well we look forward to seeing you there.

Im sure you will have a wonderfull time x x

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By *ed and lexyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"How much is it for singles ?"

for single girls I believe its £10

X x x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well that's done it Saturday the 5th of July... Done booked en suite 50 pound room... Booked pack it... And hopefully.. You know what

well we look forward to seeing you there.

Im sure you will have a wonderfull time x x"
thanks... Can not... Wait xx

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By *hatHappensNextCouple
over a year ago

Essex, near basildon

Booked in for the 31st May, we love it there, can only agree with everyone's comments, great venue and fantastic staff.

PS, if you don't like the hot tub, don't go in it and stay with us lol x

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By *hatHappensNextCouple
over a year ago

Essex, near basildon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hoping to go this Friday

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

h&jx"
be prepared ?

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By *ach3Man
over a year ago

Watford

"So I'm taking there is no negatives at all then

The only negative that I can think of, I wish it was closer lol.

Not been for a while now, but used to goas part of a couple. However think it's location, helps to ensure that you get a good mix of people from all points of compass. Top club, and clean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went once, probably wouldn't go again, the were quite a few pushy guys. I found it uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Went once, probably wouldn't go again, the were quite a few pushy guys. I found it uncomfortable"
what night did you go on ?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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"Went once, probably wouldn't go again, the were quite a few pushy guys. I found it uncomfortable"

That's a shame... I have been there many times on my own, often just to socialise and I have never felt at all uncomfortable or seen any pushy behaviour.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Went once, probably wouldn't go again, the were quite a few pushy guys. I found it uncomfortable"

Wow really surprised at this. We've never seen or heard anything similar.

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

on our to do list... holding out for another groupon offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never seen pushy behaviour there, and I go on most Friday's that allows single guys in (which is usually a max of 10 guys)..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have always had a good evening at Vanilla, hoping to go again in the next couple of weeks! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This was the first club we went to and found it great.

Deffo be going back again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is definitely one of the better clubs we have been to; thoroughly enjoyed the entire night, very nice staff, very well laid out club, and as previously mentioned we just wish it was a little closer to us; but we will be going again.

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By *ed and lexyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Who is in this weekend.

If your there please say hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon

h&jx

That's why I don't fancy it because I don't do hot tubs they make me cringe "

I'm not a hot tub fan but I was actually brave enough to go in the hot tub at V.A probably because it was quite big so I wasn't squashed up next to people .. I spoke to some lovely people in the hot tub ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What would be your advice on our first night ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

h&jx

That's why I don't fancy it because I don't do hot tubs they make me cringe

Everyone says that lol

They rave about it lol

I just doth think I could lol

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By *hatHappensNextCouple
over a year ago

Essex, near basildon

Not thIs weekend but there next Saturday x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went for the first time in January after it was recommended by another couple we play with.

It was the first ever club we went to so was quite nervous so got there at 8pm so we would not have to walk in on a full house.........

We can't tell you all now we hade not have worried as from the second we walked in we was met by one of the staff who told us all about the place and how it all works, we was then given the full tour of the club before being taken back to he bar for a drink

Well that was 5 months ago now we go there as often as we can and at the last count we think we have been there about a dozen times and are now full members.

If you are going for the first time please don't be nervous as there is nothing to worry about, if you are going please pm us as happy to chat and meet new people for a drink and more xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been 3 times to many pushy guys without any manners and very clicky in opinion we try chatting with hi/hello others just looked and did not speak back will not be going back !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there twice, once when it just opened, once later and stayed over in a very tiny room but it was fun. The pool and massive bed next to it was fun and the lovely social area was great. I would love to go again but have moved 'up North' since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are going this Friday!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"been 3 times to many pushy guys without any manners and very clicky in opinion we try chatting with hi/hello others just looked and did not speak back will not be going back !!"
hope it's not the same on Saturdays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"been 3 times to many pushy guys without any manners and very clicky in opinion we try chatting with hi/hello others just looked and did not speak back will not be going back !! hope it's not the same on Saturdays

hope its not the same this friday !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hope its not the same this friday !!!

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help guys.. Is it as good as it looks or is it a bit cliche on a Saturday ?

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Best to just go and make your own choice. We can honestly say we've never seen that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a lovely place in our opinion, by far the best idea is to go and make your own mind up, you can ask 100 people and get 100 different opinions and the only one that matters Is yours

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By *ed and lexyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Wow fab night last night.

anyway expecting a busy night and looking forward to meeting new and old friends alike.

please say hi..... love to be able to put faces to names.

x x

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

My date to go is getting sooner and sooner x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went on our first single guy night so not to sure what to expect (Friday 6th) had a lovely evening and chatted to some really nice people , can't believe how far some had travelled . We had to be a little firm with a couple of guys who didn't get the message first time but most were very respectful .we managed to have some fun to round off a great evening .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We went on our first single guy night so not to sure what to expect (Friday 6th) had a lovely evening and chatted to some really nice people , can't believe how far some had travelled . We had to be a little firm with a couple of guys who didn't get the message first time but most were very respectful .we managed to have some fun to round off a great evening . "
ultimately that's what we want to do, not sure if a Saturday is a good idea. But hey it's our first club expo and hopefully we plan to take it from there.. That's another thing that we took into consideration, the single male and the pushyness ( not sure if that's a word,

) so hopefully Saturday will be a good starting point

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over a year ago

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By *inkyKimblesWoman
over a year ago

Northants

Sounds amazing, ive never been to a club or social meet before and would love to

but need to find someone I can depend on to look after me hehe

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By *angria_girlukWoman
over a year ago

LUTON

We are looking at going next Friday. what to wear?

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

"We are looking at going next Friday. what to wear? "

Ladies generally wear something smart but often quite sexy (low cut dress or short skirt). Importantly, it's something you feel comfortable in. Some also take something even sexier to change into later (lockers are provided).

I'll be there so say hello.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"We are looking at going next Friday. what to wear? "

I am attending so will see you there. I have a new dress to wear and sexy undies underneath.

Fruit xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are going on Saturday the 5th of June if anyone's going ?

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"We are going on Saturday the 5th of June if anyone's going ?

July possibly you mean?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We are going on Saturday the 5th of June if anyone's going ?

July possibly you mean?"

Doh !!! July yes

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over a year ago

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By *awkeye and HotlipsCouple
over a year ago

Takeley

"So I'm taking there is no negatives at all then

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We did find there were luminous flakes from the ceiling that fell onto the beds/us....that's all

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"So I'm taking there is no negatives at all then

We did find there were luminous flakes from the ceiling that fell onto the beds/us....that's all"

We always thought that was white bits off the towels under the uv lighting...

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"So I'm taking there is no negatives at all then

We did find there were luminous flakes from the ceiling that fell onto the beds/us....that's all

We always thought that was white bits off the towels under the uv lighting..."

Thats what I thought lol

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By *ed and lexyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Its a masked ball tonight.

black ties and posh frocks.

not compulsory but love dressing up.

going to be very busy.

I did hear the words stripper used but dont have any details.

Going to be a buzzin night

x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its a masked ball tonight.

black ties and posh frocks.

not compulsory but love dressing up.

going to be very busy.

I did hear the words stripper used but dont have any details.

Going to be a buzzin night

x x"

It's damn shame I can't make it again tonight :o(.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Same here Sassy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same here Sassy xx"

Not long before we return!!!! x

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Definitely in the plan. There is a certain person I am very much hoping to get my hands on lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its a masked ball tonight.

black ties and posh frocks.

not compulsory but love dressing up.

going to be very busy.

I did hear the words stripper used but dont have any details.

Going to be a buzzin night

x x"

That sounds good, I'm into the whole 50 shades thing

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Me too but wasn't child free

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This dosent look good, we are going to be the only ones in on the 5th of July..

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

We doubt that will be the case. Every club has a huge percentage of their member who aren't and don't want to be on swinging sites on the net.

There will be others there for sure.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"We are going on Saturday the 5th of June if anyone's going ?

possibly going either that Friday or the Saturday. Trying to sort out exactly which x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This dosent look good, we are going to be the only ones in on the 5th of July.."

A tiny tiny minority of members post on the forum...and not everyone likes to announce that they're going to places...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This dosent look good, we are going to be the only ones in on the 5th of July..

A tiny tiny minority of members post on the forum...and not everyone likes to announce that they're going to places..."

We are rubbish at this, our excitement is getting the better of us.. Thanks for the tip.... Embarrassed.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This dosent look good, we are going to be the only ones in on the 5th of July..

A tiny tiny minority of members post on the forum...and not everyone likes to announce that they're going to places...

We are rubbish at this, our excitement is getting the better of us.. Thanks for the tip.... Embarrassed.com

Don't be daft...I was the same before went to a club for the first time...massively anxious...unluckily it wasn't VA...luckily enough I was persuaded to try again and this time I picked the right place...it's superb, enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This dosent look good, we are going to be the only ones in on the 5th of July..

A tiny tiny minority of members post on the forum...and not everyone likes to announce that they're going to places...

We are rubbish at this, our excitement is getting the better of us.. Thanks for the tip.... Embarrassed.com

We have met a lot of people at clubs for what ever reason are not on any web sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This dosent look good, we are going to be the only ones in on the 5th of July..

A tiny tiny minority of members post on the forum...and not everyone likes to announce that they're going to places...

We are rubbish at this, our excitement is getting the better of us.. Thanks for the tip.... Embarrassed.com

We have met a lot of people at clubs for what ever reason are not on any web sites "

Interesting how one of our local clubs is insisting that ppl have verifiable membership of a swingers site!

But OP go have fun they are always busy at VA ! There on 19th just in case! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This dosent look good, we are going to be the only ones in on the 5th of July..

A tiny tiny minority of members post on the forum...and not everyone likes to announce that they're going to places...

We are rubbish at this, our excitement is getting the better of us.. Thanks for the tip.... Embarrassed.com

We have met a lot of people at clubs for what ever reason are not on any web sites

Interesting how one of our local clubs is insisting that ppl have verifiable membership of a swingers site!

But OP go have fun they are always busy at VA ! There on 19th just in case! Lol"

Gutted, would be nice if you guys was there to give us a few tips so we don't commit any faux pas

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By *ed and lexyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Interesting how one of our local clubs is insisting that ppl have verifiable membership of a swingers web site"

anyone know what club that is thats a very strange thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My mrs is worried as we haven't been to a club, va has a dress code... Any tips ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My mrs is worried as we haven't been to a club, va has a dress code... Any tips ?

The main thing is smart, oh and sexy ! Lol the mrs loves looking at a smart dressed man...just like I love looking at a sexy smart lady lol ring the club and have a chat always found them helpful....

Dont worry sooo much just go smart relax and have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My mrs is worried as we haven't been to a club, va has a dress code... Any tips ?

Good to see from your review that you took the plunge...so to speak and it looks like you had a great time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We maybe going on 19th too xx

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Was there Friday night and loved it so much I drove back again for last night too.

Happy Fruit xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's our local club and we love it, never any pressure to play very clean and great areas, pub style bar area with dance floor, massive hot tub and plenty of play areas for the shy and not so shy, the hosts couldn't be nicer or more helpful.

We'll be going on Sat 12th July and Aug 16th and 24th, have fun

xxxx T & I

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"It's our local club and we love it, never any pressure to play very clean and great areas, pub style bar area with dance floor, massive hot tub and plenty of play areas for the shy and not so shy, the hosts couldn't be nicer or more helpful.

We'll be going on Sat 12th July and Aug 16th and 24th, have fun

xxxx T & I "

Wish I could get there more often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went last Sunday

Amazing club. The best !! Xx

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"It's on my to do list

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"It's on my to do list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often go on Fridays, but looking to go on a couples night soon

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"Often go on Fridays, but looking to go on a couples night soon

I attended Friday and last night too. I pretty much always go as a single but went as a couple for a change after plans suddenly changing. I loved it. Was a great change to go as a couple with a guy. The gentleman I went with was lovely so made it worth the gamble for a first time meet.

I may do that again xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Often go on Fridays, but looking to go on a couples night soon

I may do that again xx"

Just finding the right woman

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By *ony 69 funMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

There at every opportunity and love it

as a single gent on a friday and as part of a couple on saturdays.

X x

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Wish I could go more often x

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By *K4MECouple
over a year ago

Hull

We are going for the first time on Saturday, can't wait xx

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By *ed and lexyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Hi hope your all well.

we are doing an offer on entry this friday at the va.

Get to the door before 9 and quote early bird for tenner off entry for single girls and couples x x

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

It's also a cheap night tomorrow for Wednesday Chillout. A good opportunity to try out this great club if you've not been before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can't attend evenings. Check out the party on the 10 December.

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By *ed and lexyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Cant wait for the party on the 10th.... its going to be awesome x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This Sat 18th of Oct Mrs Ss birthday

looking like a good night Mistress K will be in charge of Mrs S

) and some very sexy fun couples coming

) say hello if your coming

oh keep an eye out for the lucky dip

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By *ed and lexyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

10 off entry on friday for single girls and couples before 9pm. We are also holding a free entry prize drawer for everone that gets in before 9pm.

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By *ed and lexyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"This Sat 18th of Oct Mrs Ss birthday

looking like a good night Mistress K will be in charge of Mrs S

) and some very sexy fun couples coming

) say hello if your coming

oh keep an eye out for the lucky dip

we will be helping out that night.... im sure its going to be a fab night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Roll on Sat then can't wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op did you enjoy your first try?! Recommend it??

We are thinking of taking the plunge (no pun intended!!) and going to va on 21st nov. Will be our first club and never had a meet! Eek! Think good place to start?? And theme night- cabaret, would you say this is same as burlesque?? Always wanted to dress up in this theme! So nervous but excited! Any tips? Worried bout pushy men?? (Can't do sat)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op did you enjoy your first try?! Recommend it??

We've been on Friday and are going again soon on a Friday. Guys weren't pushy at all we just no thanks and they were fine xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

VA, one of the best club, I have been, it is a nice, clean and enjoyable club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad not pushy and all clean. Eek so excited but so nervous! That normal??

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

"Op did you enjoy your first try?! Recommend it??

VA's is probably one of the best clubs to start your swinging club experience. Don't be concerned about the single guys on Friday night. All the regulars are very respectful and know how to judge the situation. This wonderful club sets the standard. Massive hot tub and really friendly staff team complemented by the best of swinger club visitors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op did you enjoy your first try?! Recommend it??

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Attending with some friends for my birthday 7/8th November so can't wait. Also looking forward to sharing a bed with a sexy female friend too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a fantastic night last night MrSs birthday night

very entertaining thanks to Mistress K ?? MrsSs arse still tingling

lol great company with some very sexy people, thank you guys, thank you VA oh and the birthday cake was a lovely touch thank you S & J xxx big huggs and kisses

see you soon Js toy bag much better than ours

lol xxx

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By *ony 69 funMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

This friday is looking good... the hotel is fully booked so looking busy.

roll on friday

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My mrs is worried as we haven't been to a club, va has a dress code... Any tips ?

Good to see from your review that you took the plunge...so to speak and it looks like you had a great time...

I know its a bit late, didn't realise the thread was still going

But yes we did have a good time, no pressure at all.. Which was our biggest worry!!! A perfect club for everyone new and seasoned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be popping down in a few weeks for a friends birthday xx

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"My mrs is worried as we haven't been to a club, va has a dress code... Any tips ?

Good to see from your review that you took the plunge...so to speak and it looks like you had a great time...

I know its a bit late, didn't realise the thread was still going

But yes we did have a good time, no pressure at all.. Which was our biggest worry!!! A perfect club for everyone new and seasoned

That's great news guys, glad you had a great time! Suspected you would

lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My mrs is worried as we haven't been to a club, va has a dress code... Any tips ?

Good to see from your review that you took the plunge...so to speak and it looks like you had a great time...

I know its a bit late, didn't realise the thread was still going

But yes we did have a good time, no pressure at all.. Which was our biggest worry!!! A perfect club for everyone new and seasoned

That's great news guys, glad you had a great time! Suspected you would

lol"

What are you guys doing for halloween ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My mrs is worried as we haven't been to a club, va has a dress code... Any tips ?

Good to see from your review that you took the plunge...so to speak and it looks like you had a great time...

I know its a bit late, didn't realise the thread was still going

But yes we did have a good time, no pressure at all.. Which was our biggest worry!!! A perfect club for everyone new and seasoned

So pleased you had a good time and no pressure. That's my worry. All booked to go 21st nov

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"My mrs is worried as we haven't been to a club, va has a dress code... Any tips ?

Good to see from your review that you took the plunge...so to speak and it looks like you had a great time...

I know its a bit late, didn't realise the thread was still going

But yes we did have a good time, no pressure at all.. Which was our biggest worry!!! A perfect club for everyone new and seasoned

That's great news guys, glad you had a great time! Suspected you would

lol

What are you guys doing for halloween ?

We shall be mostly working Halloween

We're out to play on 22nd November at VA for their cabaret weekend on the Saturday. Can't wait! It's been waaaay to long!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My mrs is worried as we haven't been to a club, va has a dress code... Any tips ?

Good to see from your review that you took the plunge...so to speak and it looks like you had a great time...

I know its a bit late, didn't realise the thread was still going

But yes we did have a good time, no pressure at all.. Which was our biggest worry!!! A perfect club for everyone new and seasoned

That's great news guys, glad you had a great time! Suspected you would

lol

What are you guys doing for halloween ?

We shall be mostly working Halloween

We're out to play on 22nd November at VA for their cabaret weekend on the Saturday. Can't wait! It's been waaaay to long!"

I know same here, sounds good

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"My mrs is worried as we haven't been to a club, va has a dress code... Any tips ?

Good to see from your review that you took the plunge...so to speak and it looks like you had a great time...

I know its a bit late, didn't realise the thread was still going

But yes we did have a good time, no pressure at all.. Which was our biggest worry!!! A perfect club for everyone new and seasoned

That's great news guys, glad you had a great time! Suspected you would

lol

What are you guys doing for halloween ?

We shall be mostly working Halloween

We're out to play on 22nd November at VA for their cabaret weekend on the Saturday. Can't wait! It's been waaaay to long!

I know same here, sounds good

See you there xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I hope some nice couples are there the Friday?? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I be cheeky and mention a daytime party I'm co hosting on the 10 December.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I be cheeky and mention a daytime party I'm co hosting on the 10 December. "

Where ? Do tell

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By *heekychap70Man
over a year ago

Hinckley

"Can I be cheeky and mention a daytime party I'm co hosting on the 10 December. "

Hi Violet. I'm already on the list, but was wondering if a female friend of mine could attend on Dec 10th. Do you need me to private message you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I be cheeky and mention a daytime party I'm co hosting on the 10 December.

Where ? Do tell

At v a

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over a year ago

"Can I be cheeky and mention a daytime party I'm co hosting on the 10 December.

Hi Violet. I'm already on the list, but was wondering if a female friend of mine could attend on Dec 10th. Do you need me to private message you x"

Have pm you

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By *exybbw_69Couple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

We can't wait for the party on 10th Dec. P has never been to a club so we're very excited. Downside is we have to buy him new clothes as they wont let him in in jeans lol

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By *heekychap70Man
over a year ago

Hinckley

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By *heekychap70Man
over a year ago

Hinckley

"Can I be cheeky and mention a daytime party I'm co hosting on the 10 December.

Hi Violet. I'm already on the list, but was wondering if a female friend of mine could attend on Dec 10th. Do you need me to private message you x

Have pm you "

Ok have replied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We can't wait for the party on 10th Dec. P has never been to a club so we're very excited. Downside is we have to buy him new clothes as they wont let him in in jeans lol"

Have a look at the event on the club website. I'm sure it's just says on that day no ripped jeans or trainers

I'm excited. Now what to wear myself ?

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over a year ago

"We can't wait for the party on 10th Dec. P has never been to a club so we're very excited. Downside is we have to buy him new clothes as they wont let him in in jeans lol"

They do, I just think the emphasis is on smart and clean, dark jeans smart top and shoes would be fine... Faded ripped clothing are a no no !!! But ring the club like we did, they are more than helpful!!! They are shut tuesdays and Wednesdays

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

It's a Saints and Sinners weekend at VA's. How many other Saints or Sinners intend going?

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over a year ago

"We can't wait for the party on 10th Dec. P has never been to a club so we're very excited. Downside is we have to buy him new clothes as they wont let him in in jeans lol

I've worn black jeans every time I've been to VA. I won't go to clubs that insist on trousers. Focis on tge smart part of smart casual and you'll be fine

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over a year ago

"We can't wait for the party on 10th Dec. P has never been to a club so we're very excited. Downside is we have to buy him new clothes as they wont let him in in jeans lol

They aren't shut every Wednesday. Check the club website for events

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By *unskiss99Couple
over a year ago

where ever you like

Do the men tend to dress up too at these events or is it just mainly the women x

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

"Do the men tend to dress up too at these events or is it just mainly the women x"

I think this is the first Friday that has included fancy dress so I don't really have an answer regarding previous events. Having said that, I am going to get into the spirit of the theme with a special outfit. Hoping others do too (although I guess we won't be wearing them for long!)

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Do the men tend to dress up too at these events or is it just mainly the women x"

When we have been I think I'd say it's probably been about 50/50 for men and women. Probably slightly more women dress up than men.

Sexy pics

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to agree that it's an even split on fancy dress at all the va parties we have been lucky enough to attend, boy they have been buzzing these last few months! ??????????

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By *unskiss99Couple
over a year ago

where ever you like

Thanks ?? hubby is not too keen on getting dressed up really so that's fine. I am quite happy to it's fun ?? x

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By *unskiss99Couple
over a year ago

where ever you like

Good for you have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We can't wait for the party on 10th Dec. P has never been to a club so we're very excited. Downside is we have to buy him new clothes as they wont let him in in jeans lol

They aren't shut every Wednesday. Check the club website for events "

Sorry meant the office.. Sorry guys

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By *appypear12Couple
over a year ago

huntingdon

Well u have a choice as 3 clubs all on a1 within 3 or 4 milezs apart jayddees va and tease2. We prefer abfads at heathrow travel lodge next store very gd one aswell

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By *ed and lexyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Jeans are fine as long as they are smart.... with themed nights its great to dress up but if you feal to uncomfortable then dont do it. The 50 50 split mentioned is about right. We want everyone to have a good time so we would never push anyone into wearing fancy dress x x

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

My room is booked for my birthday weekend. Bloody excited already

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