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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello all can any one recommend a good club to go to as a couple for the first time we are thinking of going on Saturday 13th June around the Midlands area ? She is also not to sure what to were ?

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By *istress DiscreetzWoman
over a year ago

Herts. Cambridge. Essex.


"Hello all can any one recommend a good club to go to as a couple for the first time we are thinking of going on Saturday 13th June around the Midlands area ? She is also not to sure what to were ?"

Look under the club section here on fab Hun. Make your choice after viewing/looking at web sites and reading up. Different clubs offer different choices on different nights as well as people different opinions. Single Gent numbers are restricted on certain nights at some so best to check with the club prior to making your decision for any said night. Good Luck and Enjoy Sweetie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dig deep and find a club you think suits you, don't take much notice of the reviews on FAB look elsewhere for reviews as many of the clubs have reviews by people who have been verified by the club which takes away the independency and transparency.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for that will have a good look then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the midlands I would go for chameleons friday is a mixed night that allows gents Saturday is a couples night both good nights that cater for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the midlands I would go for chameleons friday is a mixed night that allows gents Saturday is a couples night both good nights that cater for everyone "

Have heard this place is brill !

Have met people from op area at both tease and Jaydees too and you got VA down the road as well

But poss chameleons would be your closest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the midlands I would go for chameleons friday is a mixed night that allows gents Saturday is a couples night both good nights that cater for everyone

Have heard this place is brill !

Have met people from op area at both tease and Jaydees too and you got VA down the road as well

But poss chameleons would be your closest "

We love chams been to all the clubs you've mentioned and many more but in my opinion no where like chams

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By *andyMooCouple
over a year ago

bedford


"Dig deep and find a club you think suits you, don't take much notice of the reviews on FAB look elsewhere for reviews as many of the clubs have reviews by people who have been verified by the club which takes away the independency and transparency."

DO take notice of the reviews on Fab..and the number of REVIEWERS! Maybe even message a few of them and ask their honest opinion. If a club verifies a person, this means the person has been to the club, enjoyed themselves and abided by the rules. We don't see how this could give a distorted view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dig deep and find a club you think suits you, don't take much notice of the reviews on FAB look elsewhere for reviews as many of the clubs have reviews by people who have been verified by the club which takes away the independency and transparency.

DO take notice of the reviews on Fab..and the number of REVIEWERS! Maybe even message a few of them and ask their honest opinion. If a club verifies a person, this means the person has been to the club, enjoyed themselves and abided by the rules. We don't see how this could give a distorted view. "

To be honest the club review section does not reflect how good a club is, you often get the same people reviewing the club again and again and the reviews are not exactly partial, that's not to say they are bad clubs, but I think the only way is to make up your own mind and go for yourself, for example we really like ourplace4fun hardly any reviews on here but a lot of people we've met there haven't even heard of fab, the same can be said of chameleons we've met a lot of people there who aren't on any web sites and there other clubs that are more popular with other web sites

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By *aughtyMinxLikes YouWoman
over a year ago

Kettering

Jaydee is a really friendly club, non clicky and great fun.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I love chams but wouldn't recommend it for first timers. Consider a smaller club with a night clubby feel for your first visit, one you can remain dressed in.

Chams is like a rabbit warren which can be confusing and the many stairs and different levels can be tricky in fuck me heels. You also need to be very confident and clear with people in chams which is why a gentler introduction might be good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dig deep and find a club you think suits you, don't take much notice of the reviews on FAB look elsewhere for reviews as many of the clubs have reviews by people who have been verified by the club which takes away the independency and transparency."

Woah so people who go to a club review it and are verified and so take no notice of the review ??

Pmsl

Whatever next ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love chams but wouldn't recommend it for first timers. Consider a smaller club with a night clubby feel for your first visit, one you can remain dressed in.

Chams is like a rabbit warren which can be confusing and the many stairs and different levels can be tricky in fuck me heels. You also need to be very confident and clear with people in chams which is why a gentler introduction might be good."

I soooo want to try chams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love chams but wouldn't recommend it for first timers. Consider a smaller club with a night clubby feel for your first visit, one you can remain dressed in.

Chams is like a rabbit warren which can be confusing and the many stairs and different levels can be tricky in fuck me heels. You also need to be very confident and clear with people in chams which is why a gentler introduction might be good.

I soooo want to try chams "

You should go carl,mark and Annie will look after you very friendly big and lots and lots of play areas, never found it over pushy but if you want to play you always can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love chams but wouldn't recommend it for first timers. Consider a smaller club with a night clubby feel for your first visit, one you can remain dressed in.

Chams is like a rabbit warren which can be confusing and the many stairs and different levels can be tricky in fuck me heels. You also need to be very confident and clear with people in chams which is why a gentler introduction might be good.

I soooo want to try chams

You should go carl,mark and Annie will look after you very friendly big and lots and lots of play areas, never found it over pushy but if you want to play you always can "

Has to be planned so going to look into it

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By *inkyNGotchaCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

We love Chams and if you go early you'll get a feel for the place.. The sun terrace is gorgeous for days like today and all it takes is a little confidence to get your bearings... The staff are fantastic and most people are genuinely friendly and non judgemental... If personally not go on a Friday night as a first timer as it is single men heavy but maybe that's what gets your rocks off! Try it and see... Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We love Chams and if you go early you'll get a feel for the place.. The sun terrace is gorgeous for days like today and all it takes is a little confidence to get your bearings... The staff are fantastic and most people are genuinely friendly and non judgemental... If personally not go on a Friday night as a first timer as it is single men heavy but maybe that's what gets your rocks off! Try it and see... Xx"

Oh it does for me ha ha

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By *eavensent78Couple
over a year ago

west mids

Think it depends on what your after our 1st club was xtasia and found it right for us as we was new to swinging its like swimming in the shallow end when learning to swim then there is chams (not been yet) we hear its a bit more full on but never read a bad review on it good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think it depends on what your after our 1st club was xtasia and found it right for us as we was new to swinging its like swimming in the shallow end when learning to swim then there is chams (not been yet) we hear its a bit more full on but never read a bad review on it good luck x"

I admit it is a bit more full on, I still don't understand why new people couldn't go there, you'll never have to do anything you don't want to it's very friendly and there are plenty of social areas. The are certain rooms that might not suit everyone but there are other options like private rooms

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Think it depends on what your after our 1st club was xtasia and found it right for us as we was new to swinging its like swimming in the shallow end when learning to swim then there is chams (not been yet) we hear its a bit more full on but never read a bad review on it good luck x

I admit it is a bit more full on, I still don't understand why new people couldn't go there, you'll never have to do anything you don't want to it's very friendly and there are plenty of social areas. The are certain rooms that might not suit everyone but there are other options like private rooms "

At other clubs you often get a full guided tour with lots of info if you're a newbie, they explain all the rules and rooms and you can ask questions. I've never seen that happen at chams.

And newbies may prefer to go to a club where they can stay dressed for their first visit instead of lingerie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think it depends on what your after our 1st club was xtasia and found it right for us as we was new to swinging its like swimming in the shallow end when learning to swim then there is chams (not been yet) we hear its a bit more full on but never read a bad review on it good luck x

I admit it is a bit more full on, I still don't understand why new people couldn't go there, you'll never have to do anything you don't want to it's very friendly and there are plenty of social areas. The are certain rooms that might not suit everyone but there are other options like private rooms

At other clubs you often get a full guided tour with lots of info if you're a newbie, they explain all the rules and rooms and you can ask questions. I've never seen that happen at chams.

And newbies may prefer to go to a club where they can stay dressed for their first visit instead of lingerie."

We got a tour Carl took us all around , and I've seen others get tours, weve met quite a few people and it was their first club experience and it wouldn't have put us off. The people are very friendly and no always means no

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Think it depends on what your after our 1st club was xtasia and found it right for us as we was new to swinging its like swimming in the shallow end when learning to swim then there is chams (not been yet) we hear its a bit more full on but never read a bad review on it good luck x

I admit it is a bit more full on, I still don't understand why new people couldn't go there, you'll never have to do anything you don't want to it's very friendly and there are plenty of social areas. The are certain rooms that might not suit everyone but there are other options like private rooms

At other clubs you often get a full guided tour with lots of info if you're a newbie, they explain all the rules and rooms and you can ask questions. I've never seen that happen at chams.

And newbies may prefer to go to a club where they can stay dressed for their first visit instead of lingerie.

We got a tour Carl took us all around , and I've seen others get tours, weve met quite a few people and it was their first club experience and it wouldn't have put us off. The people are very friendly and no always means no"

It's obviously been on the times I've been there. I enjoy chams a lot, but it cam be very full on - I've met a few people who didn't know the rules for the room with the round bed and have got very upset with people trying to join in when neither is at fault if it hasn't been explained.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Depends on your preferences ?

Do you want to stay clothed or are happy in a towel/lingerie?

Are you into wet facilities (jacuzzis/saunas) or more interested in playrooms and other facilities?

What type of people are you looking for? Whilst reviews are never really that impartial as people have favourites it's useful to see who leaves reviews as this may sway your decisions.

Also - check club websites for what's happening on the night you're looking to go. Some have specific theme nights which may or may not be to your taste.

Do some homework, maybe message a few people who state they're members and ask advice/opinions, and possibly even phone the clubs themselves. Take into account local hotels if you're staying over, parking and location.

Then - make an informed decision, go with an open mind and above all - relax, have fun and go at your own pace!

Good luck!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think it depends on what your after our 1st club was xtasia and found it right for us as we was new to swinging its like swimming in the shallow end when learning to swim then there is chams (not been yet) we hear its a bit more full on but never read a bad review on it good luck x

I admit it is a bit more full on, I still don't understand why new people couldn't go there, you'll never have to do anything you don't want to it's very friendly and there are plenty of social areas. The are certain rooms that might not suit everyone but there are other options like private rooms

At other clubs you often get a full guided tour with lots of info if you're a newbie, they explain all the rules and rooms and you can ask questions. I've never seen that happen at chams.

And newbies may prefer to go to a club where they can stay dressed for their first visit instead of lingerie."

Oh do you have to wear lingerie ? Not for me then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think it depends on what your after our 1st club was xtasia and found it right for us as we was new to swinging its like swimming in the shallow end when learning to swim then there is chams (not been yet) we hear its a bit more full on but never read a bad review on it good luck x

I admit it is a bit more full on, I still don't understand why new people couldn't go there, you'll never have to do anything you don't want to it's very friendly and there are plenty of social areas. The are certain rooms that might not suit everyone but there are other options like private rooms

At other clubs you often get a full guided tour with lots of info if you're a newbie, they explain all the rules and rooms and you can ask questions. I've never seen that happen at chams.

And newbies may prefer to go to a club where they can stay dressed for their first visit instead of lingerie.

We got a tour Carl took us all around , and I've seen others get tours, weve met quite a few people and it was their first club experience and it wouldn't have put us off. The people are very friendly and no always means no

It's obviously been on the times I've been there. I enjoy chams a lot, but it cam be very full on - I've met a few people who didn't know the rules for the room with the round bed and have got very upset with people trying to join in when neither is at fault if it hasn't been explained."
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Yeah the round room can be be full on and be different on different nights, but to swing you've got to be prepared to say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think it depends on what your after our 1st club was xtasia and found it right for us as we was new to swinging its like swimming in the shallow end when learning to swim then there is chams (not been yet) we hear its a bit more full on but never read a bad review on it good luck x

I admit it is a bit more full on, I still don't understand why new people couldn't go there, you'll never have to do anything you don't want to it's very friendly and there are plenty of social areas. The are certain rooms that might not suit everyone but there are other options like private rooms

At other clubs you often get a full guided tour with lots of info if you're a newbie, they explain all the rules and rooms and you can ask questions. I've never seen that happen at chams.

And newbies may prefer to go to a club where they can stay dressed for their first visit instead of lingerie.

Oh do you have to wear lingerie ? Not for me then "

No you don't have to wear lingerie, gilly has worn a sexy dress and been fine

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Think it depends on what your after our 1st club was xtasia and found it right for us as we was new to swinging its like swimming in the shallow end when learning to swim then there is chams (not been yet) we hear its a bit more full on but never read a bad review on it good luck x

I admit it is a bit more full on, I still don't understand why new people couldn't go there, you'll never have to do anything you don't want to it's very friendly and there are plenty of social areas. The are certain rooms that might not suit everyone but there are other options like private rooms

At other clubs you often get a full guided tour with lots of info if you're a newbie, they explain all the rules and rooms and you can ask questions. I've never seen that happen at chams.

And newbies may prefer to go to a club where they can stay dressed for their first visit instead of lingerie.

Oh do you have to wear lingerie ? Not for me then

No you don't have to wear lingerie, gilly has worn a sexy dress and been fine "

Towels or boxers for the guys though!

Or lingerie!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think it depends on what your after our 1st club was xtasia and found it right for us as we was new to swinging its like swimming in the shallow end when learning to swim then there is chams (not been yet) we hear its a bit more full on but never read a bad review on it good luck x

I admit it is a bit more full on, I still don't understand why new people couldn't go there, you'll never have to do anything you don't want to it's very friendly and there are plenty of social areas. The are certain rooms that might not suit everyone but there are other options like private rooms

At other clubs you often get a full guided tour with lots of info if you're a newbie, they explain all the rules and rooms and you can ask questions. I've never seen that happen at chams.

And newbies may prefer to go to a club where they can stay dressed for their first visit instead of lingerie.

Oh do you have to wear lingerie ? Not for me then

No you don't have to wear lingerie, gilly has worn a sexy dress and been fine

Towels or boxers for the guys though!

Or lingerie!

A"

I always wear my best pants and a pair of flip flops

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Think it depends on what your after our 1st club was xtasia and found it right for us as we was new to swinging its like swimming in the shallow end when learning to swim then there is chams (not been yet) we hear its a bit more full on but never read a bad review on it good luck x

I admit it is a bit more full on, I still don't understand why new people couldn't go there, you'll never have to do anything you don't want to it's very friendly and there are plenty of social areas. The are certain rooms that might not suit everyone but there are other options like private rooms

At other clubs you often get a full guided tour with lots of info if you're a newbie, they explain all the rules and rooms and you can ask questions. I've never seen that happen at chams.

And newbies may prefer to go to a club where they can stay dressed for their first visit instead of lingerie.

Oh do you have to wear lingerie ? Not for me then

No you don't have to wear lingerie, gilly has worn a sexy dress and been fine

Towels or boxers for the guys though!

Or lingerie!

A

I always wear my best pants and a pair of flip flops"

What about Hicks?

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think it depends on what your after our 1st club was xtasia and found it right for us as we was new to swinging its like swimming in the shallow end when learning to swim then there is chams (not been yet) we hear its a bit more full on but never read a bad review on it good luck x

I admit it is a bit more full on, I still don't understand why new people couldn't go there, you'll never have to do anything you don't want to it's very friendly and there are plenty of social areas. The are certain rooms that might not suit everyone but there are other options like private rooms

At other clubs you often get a full guided tour with lots of info if you're a newbie, they explain all the rules and rooms and you can ask questions. I've never seen that happen at chams.

And newbies may prefer to go to a club where they can stay dressed for their first visit instead of lingerie.

Oh do you have to wear lingerie ? Not for me then

No you don't have to wear lingerie, gilly has worn a sexy dress and been fine

Towels or boxers for the guys though!

Or lingerie!

A

I always wear my best pants and a pair of flip flops

What about Hicks?

A"

Who cares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always wanted to try chams unfortunately the waiting list for single guys to join is long which in itself tells you it must be a good club

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon

I'm hoping to go charms first weekend in July on my own ..can't wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think it depends on what your after our 1st club was xtasia and found it right for us as we was new to swinging its like swimming in the shallow end when learning to swim then there is chams (not been yet) we hear its a bit more full on but never read a bad review on it good luck x

I admit it is a bit more full on, I still don't understand why new people couldn't go there, you'll never have to do anything you don't want to it's very friendly and there are plenty of social areas. The are certain rooms that might not suit everyone but there are other options like private rooms

At other clubs you often get a full guided tour with lots of info if you're a newbie, they explain all the rules and rooms and you can ask questions. I've never seen that happen at chams.

And newbies may prefer to go to a club where they can stay dressed for their first visit instead of lingerie.

Oh do you have to wear lingerie ? Not for me then

No you don't have to wear lingerie, gilly has worn a sexy dress and been fine

Towels or boxers for the guys though!

Or lingerie!

A"

Ooh like looking at nearly naked men mmm

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Think it depends on what your after our 1st club was xtasia and found it right for us as we was new to swinging its like swimming in the shallow end when learning to swim then there is chams (not been yet) we hear its a bit more full on but never read a bad review on it good luck x

I admit it is a bit more full on, I still don't understand why new people couldn't go there, you'll never have to do anything you don't want to it's very friendly and there are plenty of social areas. The are certain rooms that might not suit everyone but there are other options like private rooms

At other clubs you often get a full guided tour with lots of info if you're a newbie, they explain all the rules and rooms and you can ask questions. I've never seen that happen at chams.

And newbies may prefer to go to a club where they can stay dressed for their first visit instead of lingerie.

Oh do you have to wear lingerie ? Not for me then

No you don't have to wear lingerie, gilly has worn a sexy dress and been fine

Towels or boxers for the guys though!

Or lingerie!

A

Ooh like looking at nearly naked men mmm"

So does Carl - the fit one's always seem to get their towel off the 'barely bigger than a washcloth' pile!

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe


"Hello all can any one recommend a good club to go to as a couple for the first time we are thinking of going on Saturday 13th June around the Midlands area ? She is also not to sure what to were ?"
take her to connections in Blackpool make a weekend of it lots of clubs you can visit getting better all the time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think it depends on what your after our 1st club was xtasia and found it right for us as we was new to swinging its like swimming in the shallow end when learning to swim then there is chams (not been yet) we hear its a bit more full on but never read a bad review on it good luck x

I admit it is a bit more full on, I still don't understand why new people couldn't go there, you'll never have to do anything you don't want to it's very friendly and there are plenty of social areas. The are certain rooms that might not suit everyone but there are other options like private rooms

At other clubs you often get a full guided tour with lots of info if you're a newbie, they explain all the rules and rooms and you can ask questions. I've never seen that happen at chams.

And newbies may prefer to go to a club where they can stay dressed for their first visit instead of lingerie.

Oh do you have to wear lingerie ? Not for me then

No you don't have to wear lingerie, gilly has worn a sexy dress and been fine

Towels or boxers for the guys though!

Or lingerie!

A

Ooh like looking at nearly naked men mmm

So does Carl - the fit one's always seem to get their towel off the 'barely bigger than a washcloth' pile! "

Cheeky

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for all the advice been looking at the different clubs and (think) we mite go to adventures in Stoke for are first time any one been?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you go Saturday?

As I said before this thread was ruined, just check out the never ending reviews of certain clubs where people have been verified by the club on the same date or just before! Coincidence? Doubtful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did you go Saturday?

As I said before this thread was ruined, just check out the never ending reviews of certain clubs where people have been verified by the club on the same date or just before! Coincidence? Doubtful!"

Shocking people reviewing a club isn't it

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon

I would go see for yourself .. I've just found out that threads like these only end up in people private messaging the op to say that only certain clubs are decent and others should be avoided . Not fair in many ways ..All the club's have something to offer and should be given a fair chance ..They are all different and people should be more cautious of people and places that contact them behind the scenes wooing them away from other clubs .. Rant over .. A lot of this has been happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would go see for yourself .. I've just found out that threads like these only end up in people private messaging the op to say that only certain clubs are decent and others should be avoided . Not fair in many ways ..All the club's have something to offer and should be given a fair chance ..They are all different and people should be more cautious of people and places that contact them behind the scenes wooing them away from other clubs .. Rant over .. A lot of this has been happening. "

Best idea

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

V.A

Liberty Elite

both would be good choices for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No haven't been yet we will be going on the 14 June we are both looking forward to it

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