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1st vist to chams

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By *aggieben1979 OP   Couple
over a year ago

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Any advice on a 1st vist to a swinging club. Looking to go on the 17th for my b'day. Don't know what to expect or expected of us. Any help and advice would be welcome.

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By *ick and FlickCouple
over a year ago

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Chams is a lovely place to go as a 1st time. Staff are lovely and helpful and will show you around. Just let them know its your 1st visit. On our 1st visit....which wasnt that long ago....we met some really fun, nice ppl who will all say hello. Try the jacuzzi....always breaks the ice lol.Take things at your own pace. We still go with that attitude and it works for us well. Sundays are a good day to go. Nice friendly crowd. Good luck and enjoy xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chams is great, it's the only place (swinging or real world) that's I'm comfortable to go to alone. Staff are great and the people in there I've always found really friendly & relaxed. I tend to stick to less busy times like Sunday afternoons.

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By *aggieben1979 OP   Couple
over a year ago

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Thanks for the advise really appreciate it. Might try a Sunday on your recommendation. S is very shy and is not sure about it but said she will go and have a look. I on the other hand am rearing to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advise really appreciate it. Might try a Sunday on your recommendation. S is very shy and is not sure about it but said she will go and have a look. I on the other hand am rearing to go "

Then my advice would be to let her lead the way at exploring etc. Go at her pace and make sure she's ok. You might be tempted to leap in but if she's a bit nervous that will just make it worse and she might never want to go again. Or she may love it.....!

Have fun. x

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By *aggieben1979 OP   Couple
over a year ago

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Totally agree it doesn't matter about me just want her to be comfortable and relaxed. She has self esteem issues and would like her to release that she is a very attractive and sext woman who i love very much x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All clubs we have been to look "dodgy" from the outside.... No windows etc

Don't let that put you off

You will probably be very nervous walking up to the club... Don't worry... They are fine inside and all the people are there for the same reason

We popped our cherry at Chams.... Thought everyone would be super model types.... Erm lol

Have fun and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We popped our cherry in chams too. It's a great place. I'd concentrate in getting chatting to people rather than trying to work out who to make your first swap.

Go with the intention of just meeting people and seeing what happens there. If anything develops then it's a bonus.

You can always enjoy each other in a more public environment and that's a pretty fun feeling too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Go with the intention of just meeting people and seeing what happens there. If anything develops then it's a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And don't forget the buffet

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By *aggieben1979 OP   Couple
over a year ago

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Thanks guys appreciate all the comments. Looking forward to it and if your there come and say hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first club was chams too

I recently took a complete swinging virgin, on a very quiet Thursday afternoon. He treated it like a bit of a spa afternoon.

sitting at the bar is a good place to strike up convos

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

Great place to visit. No doubt you`ll feel a bit strange having to get dressed in just a towel. If that seems to be a bit daunting, try shorts, with or without a top of some sort. A sexy little dress or underwear type for the ladies will do as well. You`ll get lost over the three floors at some time - all part of the fun! Keep an eye out for the sun deck, couples room, cinema, steam room, jaccuzzi and dungeon.Don`t forget to try the food if you`re hungry and bring your own alkyhole! Hand the drink over and quote your locker number to get some served! Any left over will be returned as you leave but don`t forget to ask for it!

Finally, have a brilliant, sexy time, even if it is only with yourselves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get lost! It's on 3 floors and the corridors kinda look the same and the dungeon is on the top floor!

Relax & have fun, you will enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

17th is a Saturday and probably a good first night to dip yer toes...couples only... You should enjoy

Depends what you want of course...

We have only once been on a non-Saturday and, tbh, wouldn't do it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much is it on a Saturday night for couple's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How much is it on a Saturday night for couple's?

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15 to sign up for membership and 25 entry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How much is it on a Saturday night for couple's?

15 to sign up for membership and 25 entry. "

33 on a sat night now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

£15 as a one off membership fee then it £33 for a couple on a Saturday night.

Our next visit there will be 24th May.

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