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New swinging couple looking to try a club together for first time!.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all.me and partner are looking to try a club for the first time together in the not so distant future.we have ruled out chams/xtasia even though it's prob the best two clubs in the uk by the reviews. as it's to close to home for us two. Was thinking either chams in Newport cuspids or partners?. Ideally looking for couple only nights but can only really go on a Saturday night.sorry to babble on hope someone can help.thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a shame you've ruled out chams as its one of the best.

Try Adventures in Lust, stoke for a good saturday night out

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

You say Chams and Xtasia are too close to home. I take it you are worried about being seen by someone you know and this is entirely understandable. I`m a good 100+ miles away from Chams and I`ve seen a buisnessman based about 20 miles away from me there. My very good friend came face to face with a work mate of hers there and neither live anywhere near Chams.

I know it`s easy for me to say but if you see someone you know there, remember they are there for exactly the same thing, they will probably be as embarrassed as you at being "caught" and will no doubt be more than happy for you to pass them with a mere nod of the head in acknowledgement!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God your so lucky to live near chams it's a brilliant club

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By *limandslenderCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Adventures in Lust, stoke on Trent is couples only Sat night. I'll be there xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See i dont Think the its too close rule works ...last Year i travelled an hour and half to Chams and sat in the hit tub with two couplesfrom the SSame city as me ....when i asked Why they didnt go to le chambre in sheffield they said it was too close yet here We were 5 people from sheffield sat in the Same jaccuzzi

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for feedback. It's my partner in crime rule about the distance. First of all she ruled out a club completely but know she has warmth to the idea just not chams or xtasia. She has a very important job where she must act professional in and out of work. So she worried of getting caught.chams would be my first choice but ultimately it's the ladies decision .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 2 guys I chatted to yesterday in Chams were from Bristol and Bath!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The 2 guys I chatted to yesterday in Chams were from Bristol and Bath!!"
yeah I fully understand people come from all over to go chams I really do but it's hard to tell someone that when they think there right lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My local club is Partners , it's a great club plus I've never met anyone I know in my personal life there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeh partners was a possibility prob swaying towards that one only downfall pref no single guys on are first experience together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeh partners was a possibility prob swaying towards that one only downfall pref no single guys on are first experience together "

The only till you'll get that is a couples only night and they are usually midweek. Clubs have couple only rooms too if you want privacy

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By *exxifun5Couple
over a year ago

NORWICH

Might be a bit of a travel for you but we highly recommend Jaydees in st Neots. We recently had a fantastic time there & are going again next week cxx Tom & Tabitha xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not a clue where st.neots is lol.yeah it's true about the couples only rooms but still gonna get single guys keep coming up to you and perving just something don't really want but only night can play is a Saturday so it's a tricky one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a clue where st.neots is lol.yeah it's true about the couples only rooms but still gonna get single guys keep coming up to you and perving just something don't really want but only night can play is a Saturday so it's a tricky one x"

Most single guys have been very respectful In my experience. Clubs have strict rules so if you get pestered it would be dealt with and the guys are aware of this..

Whatever you decide good luck

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I always enjoyed cupids. Especially on a party night.

It depends what you want from a club. Would you like it busy? Are you just interested in looking around and not playing? Work out what you want then look what's on. I have a few clubs I could choose from in manchester. All I visited more than once and had very different nights each time.

I wouldn't be too worried about couples only nights as well. Single men don't follow you around pestering you for sex. I found that on couples nights people were not as friendly. But that is only my opinion.

Perhaps attend a social at a club first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chams Newport will be out too as its now only open on a Friday night and that's a mixed night.

Firstly i think you should decide what kind.of club you want to visit.

A wet style or.nightstyle club then decide from reviews and feedback on which one you like the found of x have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeh partners was a possibility prob swaying towards that one only downfall pref no single guys on are first experience together

The only till you'll get that is a couples only night and they are usually midweek. Clubs have couple only rooms too if you want privacy "

A lot of clubs are couples only Saturday night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tease, VA and Jaydees are all an easy drive from the midlands.

We used to have a similar concern about being spotted but you can't over think it. A couple we once met a Tease had driven 2 1/2 hours to get there and bumped in to an old school friend there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a clue where st.neots is lol.yeah it's true about the couples only rooms but still gonna get single guys keep coming up to you and perving just something don't really want but only night can play is a Saturday so it's a tricky one x"

Not far from Bedford if that's any help. x

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By *ikerswingCouple
over a year ago

mcr

youve all missed one of the best .infusions blackpool ,,head up there and make a weekend of it cples and single girls only on saturday nights and a big pool to chill in and cool down after play ...

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By *ushandkittyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

As for going somewhere too close to home, our reasoning is if everyone thinks like you do, where are you more likely to bump into them?? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi thanks all we both don't mind walking round in towels and under wear we had a browse of xtasia before it opened at 8 pm one night we liked the lay out of that just to close to my partners house.

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By *limandslenderCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Adventures in Lust stoke this Saturday is personal secretary. I'll be there in my suit xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I need to have a google of that one see what she thinks x

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By *ettering-couple76Couple
over a year ago

Kettering

We would recommend Vanilla Alternative for a first time. WE'll be there Saturday

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Impressed by adventures x

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By *ed and lexyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

We would recommend the vanilla alternative.

Saturday's are couples and single ladies only.

you will get a tour from one of the lovely hostesses and made to feel comfortable and at ease.

Give the place a google. ..... and if you do go say hi x x

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By *limandslenderCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent


"Impressed by adventures x"

When you thinking of going, we can only go Saturdays x

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

La Chambre in Sheffield. Saturday is couples only night

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By *ed and lexyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Carlton Curtis is playing at the vanila alternative tonight.

prizes to be found that include free drinks and free entry to the club

Bubbles in the tub

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By *ed and lexyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

The vanilla alternative is couples only on a Saturday. ... lol forgot to include that bit x x

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