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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have visited several clubs since I started on this adventure 3-4 years ago and one of the things I really enjoy doing is watching (and occasionally joining in with) couples.

Now, all of the clubs so far have been more than happy to allow me as a single lady to enter the couples only room and watch or play. So imagine my surprise last night when visiting a new club for only my second time, that I wasn't allowed in!

On leaving the club (very soon after being told this) I spoke to the manager who confirmed that indeed, only couples can use the room. His reason . . . .because it gets too busy in there!!

Since when??

What are your thoughts on this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a couples only room should be exactly that a couples only room, could you imagine the reaction if a single male went in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its a couples room then it should be for couples? If its an invite room then you wait to be invited in?

Would think that would be quite obvious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a couples only room should be exactly that a couples only room, could you imagine the reaction if a single male went in "

Have to agree, it really annoys me when single guys come in the couples only room, single women is just the same. if i wanted the attention of all id play in an open area.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think a couples only room should be exactly that a couples only room, could you imagine the reaction if a single male went in "

Yes, I can understand the rule about not letting single males in because it would be packed to the rafters, but the odd single fem? No harm surely.

I dont want to watch from the _iewing window as men see it as an open invitation to start a conversation or worse still, grope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most couples rooms do state single ladies allowed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If its a couples room then it should be for couples? If its an invite room then you wait to be invited in?

Would think that would be quite obvious "

I was invited in....that was when I was told no

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most couples rooms do state single ladies allowed.

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Thank you Cali, thats been my experience too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If its a couples room then it should be for couples? If its an invite room then you wait to be invited in?

Would think that would be quite obvious

I was invited in....that was when I was told no "

Odd, but rules are rules. If its couples only its probably to keep the male to female ratio in balance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The three couples areas in the clubs that we most frequent va,op4f and chams to the best of my knowledge are couples only

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If its a couples room then it should be for couples? If its an invite room then you wait to be invited in?

Would think that would be quite obvious

I was invited in....that was when I was told no

Odd, but rules are rules. If its couples only its probably to keep the male to female

ratio in balance"

I thought it was odd too and now wont be returning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The three couples areas in the clubs that we most frequent va,op4f and chams to the best of my knowledge are couples only "

Single ladies have to my knowledge always been allowed in at chams xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The three couples areas in the clubs that we most frequent va,op4f and chams to the best of my knowledge are couples only

Single ladies have to my knowledge always been allowed in at chams xx "

I'm not saying your wrong but I've never seen it or stated anywhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The three couples areas in the clubs that we most frequent va,op4f and chams to the best of my knowledge are couples only "

Single ladies are welcomed in the couples room at Chams. It was one of the first questions i asked on joining 2 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont really see why clubs should bend the rules just for females, wrong for clubs to do this, if its a cpls room then its just for cpls.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Petulance...

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!


"Petulance..."

Must get new glasses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The three couples areas in the clubs that we most frequent va,op4f and chams to the best of my knowledge are couples only

Single ladies have to my knowledge always been allowed in at chams xx

I'm not saying your wrong but I've never seen it or stated anywhere "

I'm sure it actually says it on the door, could be wrong as I didn't go in as a single female x

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I think a couples only room should be exactly that a couples only room, could you imagine the reaction if a single male went in "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eureka have enforced the couples only rule there for a long time & banned 1 woman from the club for persistantly breaking it

couples rooms should be just that. Plenty of other rooms for 3-somes with singles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So single women, who get a great deal on admission at clubs and who can attend almost every club on what is supposedly a couples only night should also be allowed in a couples room... Is the clue not in the word "couple"?

Talk about a sense of entitlement. Struggling to see why you feel so aggrieved almost as much as I am struggling to feel any sympathy to your plight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The three couples areas in the clubs that we most frequent va,op4f and chams to the best of my knowledge are couples only "

Errrr not chams,

Single women are often invited into there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If its a couples room then it should be for couples? If its an invite room then you wait to be invited in?

Would think that would be quite obvious

I was invited in....that was when I was told no

Odd, but rules are rules. If its couples only its probably to keep the male to female

ratio in balance

I thought it was odd too and now wont be returning "

You were probably invited in error then. Just stick to the rooms where you can play. If you're going to leave every time a club enforces its rules you're not going to be attending them for very long

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So single women, who get a great deal on admission at clubs and who can attend almost every club on what is supposedly a couples only night should also be allowed in a couples room... Is the clue not in the word "couple"?

Talk about a sense of entitlement. Struggling to see why you feel so aggrieved almost as much as I am struggling to feel any sympathy to your plight. "

I wasn't looking for sympathy, I was asking for people's _iews, so thank you for yours

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"So single women, who get a great deal on admission at clubs and who can attend almost every club on what is supposedly a couples only night should also be allowed in a couples room... Is the clue not in the word "couple"?

Talk about a sense of entitlement. Struggling to see why you feel so aggrieved almost as much as I am struggling to feel any sympathy to your plight.

I wasn't looking for sympathy, I was asking for people's _iews, so thank you for yours "

Can't see the problem.

As has been said - single guys would be laughed off the forums if they said they'd quit membership of a club for not allowing them in couples only areas.

I'd suggest not trying Xtasia - their new couples room is what it says on the tin !!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely rules are rules and should be accepted as such.

Surely the club management won't be too upset to lose your patronage when they can have someone willing to accept the rules in the club instead.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"So single women, who get a great deal on admission at clubs and who can attend almost every club on what is supposedly a couples only night should also be allowed in a couples room... Is the clue not in the word "couple"?

Talk about a sense of entitlement. Struggling to see why you feel so aggrieved almost as much as I am struggling to feel any sympathy to your plight. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a couples only room should be exactly that a couples only room, could you imagine the reaction if a single male went in

Yes, I can understand the rule about not letting single males in because it would be packed to the rafters, but the odd single fem? No harm surely.

I dont want to watch from the _iewing window as men see it as an open invitation to start a conversation or worse still, grope "

Heaven Forbid somebody start a conversation in a club.... How Very Dare They!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remind me of what the motto no means no stands for?

Respect people's wishes and obey the rules at all times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So single women, who get a great deal on admission at clubs and who can attend almost every club on what is supposedly a couples only night should also be allowed in a couples room... Is the clue not in the word "couple"?

Talk about a sense of entitlement. Struggling to see why you feel so aggrieved almost as much as I am struggling to feel any sympathy to your plight. "

wholeheartedly agree with this. And having chatted to many guys on fab sadly this _iew that single women deserve special treatment really irritates me. And it takes a lot to wind me up but if I was in a couples only room I would welcome a single guy over a single woman any day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think she has a point, I also think that single women should be allowed the wrong way up one way streets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So single women, who get a great deal on admission at clubs and who can attend almost every club on what is supposedly a couples only night should also be allowed in a couples room... Is the clue not in the word "couple"?

Talk about a sense of entitlement. Struggling to see why you feel so aggrieved almost as much as I am struggling to feel any sympathy to your plight.

wholeheartedly agree with this. And having chatted to many guys on fab sadly this _iew that single women deserve special treatment really irritates me. And it takes a lot to wind me up but if I was in a couples only room I would welcome a single guy over a single woman any day. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And actually having thought about it further.....single men should be allowed anywhere they like as they pay the most in most clubs. Surely that entitles them to something? Often single women pay nothing so quit whingeing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not a couple are you?

Unless you have special dispensation owing to schizophrenia.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If its a couples room then it should be for couples? If its an invite room then you wait to be invited in?

Would think that would be quite obvious

I was invited in....that was when I was told no

Odd, but rules are rules. If its couples only its probably to keep the male to female

ratio in balance

I thought it was odd too and now wont be returning

You were probably invited in error then. Just stick to the rooms where you can play. If you're going to leave every time a club enforces its rules you're not going to be attending them for very long"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're not a couple are you?

Unless you have special dispensation owing to schizophrenia."

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"And actually having thought about it further.....single men should be allowed anywhere they like as they pay the most in most clubs. Surely that entitles them to something? Often single women pay nothing so quit whingeing!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

op I see it states your bi , so if there was ladies only room would it then be ok for couples to enter ? surely people go into the couples room and not a open room due to the atmosphere and dynamic within that room, so struggling to understand why it would be acceptable for you to go in and possibly spoil other people's fun

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I have visited several clubs since I started on this adventure 3-4 years ago and one of the things I really enjoy doing is watching (and occasionally joining in with) couples.

Now, all of the clubs so far have been more than happy to allow me as a single lady to enter the couples only room and watch or play. So imagine my surprise last night when visiting a new club for only my second time, that I wasn't allowed in!

On leaving the club (very soon after being told this) I spoke to the manager who confirmed that indeed, only couples can use the room. His reason . . . .because it gets too busy in there!!

Since when??

What are your thoughts on this?"

i am guessing the clubs you have been in are actually in the minority... because for the clubs in the north east, couples rooms mean couples only.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're not a couple are you?

Unless you have special dispensation owing to schizophrenia."

Schizophrenia isn't a split personality disorder. Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The three couples areas in the clubs that we most frequent va,op4f and chams to the best of my knowledge are couples only

Single ladies have to my knowledge always been allowed in at chams xx

I'm not saying your wrong but I've never seen it or stated anywhere

I'm sure it actually says it on the door, could be wrong as I didn't go in as a single female x "

Actually in chasm the notice is in the corridor. It clearly states "couples only beyond this point".

A couples room is for couples duh! It's not rocket science.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

There is a distinction between couples only and invite only rooms.

But since no-one is checking marriage licences at the door you can enter a couples room with a new playmate.

Single women often get advantages in clubs but it doesn't mean that we are above the rules. No still means no, we'd be out of order if we got handsy and you can't go where you're not entitled or you don't qualify to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The three couples areas in the clubs that we most frequent va,op4f and chams to the best of my knowledge are couples only

Single ladies have to my knowledge always been allowed in at chams xx

I'm not saying your wrong but I've never seen it or stated anywhere

I'm sure it actually says it on the door, could be wrong as I didn't go in as a single female x

Actually in chasm the notice is in the corridor. It clearly states "couples only beyond this point".

A couples room is for couples duh! It's not rocket science."

I must admit that was my understanding but we mainly go on Saturday nights so it might be slightly different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The three couples areas in the clubs that we most frequent va,op4f and chams to the best of my knowledge are couples only

Single ladies have to my knowledge always been allowed in at chams xx

I'm not saying your wrong but I've never seen it or stated anywhere

I'm sure it actually says it on the door, could be wrong as I didn't go in as a single female x

Actually in chasm the notice is in the corridor. It clearly states "couples only beyond this point".

A couples room is for couples duh! It's not rocket science.

I must admit that was my understanding but we mainly go on Saturday nights so it might be slightly different "

Maybe. No single guys allowed on Saturday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're not a couple are you?

Unless you have special dispensation owing to schizophrenia.

Schizophrenia isn't a split personality disorder. Just saying."

Dissociative disorder, doesn't have the same ring does it?

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By *acnShellCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I think some are missing the point on this. A couples only room only comes into effect on a mixed night. When its couples only in the club, everyone can go anywhere and there are never any issues, however on a singles, and couples night, there needs to be somewhere where couples can go, who just wish to meet up with other, genuine, couples.

We like to get to know other couples, people who we can swop numbers with and then meet a week later if possible. Not two singles who've managed to hook up at the bar and may never see each other again. We want genuine couples.

We welcome any club ensuring that a couples room applies to those who hold a couples membership, and not singles who may just get lucky on the night, regardless of gender.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some are missing the point on this. A couples only room only comes into effect on a mixed night. When its couples only in the club, everyone can go anywhere and there are never any issues, however on a singles, and couples night, there needs to be somewhere where couples can go, who just wish to meet up with other, genuine, couples.

We like to get to know other couples, people who we can swop numbers with and then meet a week later if possible. Not two singles who've managed to hook up at the bar and may never see each other again. We want genuine couples.

We welcome any club ensuring that a couples room applies to those who hold a couples membership, and not singles who may just get lucky on the night, regardless of gender."

But a single female wouldn't be there on a couples only night would they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some are missing the point on this. A couples only room only comes into effect on a mixed night. When its couples only in the club, everyone can go anywhere and there are never any issues, however on a singles, and couples night, there needs to be somewhere where couples can go, who just wish to meet up with other, genuine, couples.

We like to get to know other couples, people who we can swop numbers with and then meet a week later if possible. Not two singles who've managed to hook up at the bar and may never see each other again. We want genuine couples.

We welcome any club ensuring that a couples room applies to those who hold a couples membership, and not singles who may just get lucky on the night, regardless of gender.

But a single female wouldn't be there on a couples only night would they?"

Exactly all the clubs we've been to allow single fems on couples only nights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's actually one of the issues.

Couples only; does not mean actual couples, nor couples only.

It means single men and their fb, or fwb, or couples, or single women. In 99% of cases.

Couples only actually just means no single men, and by that it actually means no single men without a fb or fwb.

A lot of single men are looking for a fb/fwb simply to get into venues cheaper and into couples only.

It's only ever single men that face restrictions 99% of the time.

As some couples like separate room swap, they cant enforce a come together stay together policy.

Anyone that thinks couples only means they are playing with married or living together couples sorry but that is unlikely. Just look at the number of couples profiles on here, that are not couples in the 'in a relationship' sense.

And couples are not excluded from any party nights either, in fact where as some women get in for very little, if you do the maths, single men bringing a female at couples rates then the single male gets in for less than half the price and the single female for free.

When we go to clubs, I pay half the rate of a single guy and my Mrs gets in for free

We've never had an issue taking a single fem anywhere with us and have never been told she cant go into any room.

We have used couples only rooms as a 3, because I like to be watched sometimes (I'm with 2 shit hot women, of course I want to be seen )but in an open playroom its not as relaxed as I have to watch for uninvited touching and in a private playroom we cant be seen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's actually one of the issues.

Couples only; does not mean actual couples, nor couples only.

It means single men and their fb, or fwb, or couples, or single women. In 99% of cases.

Couples only actually just means no single men, and by that it actually means no single men without a fb or fwb.

A lot of single men are looking for a fb/fwb simply to get into venues cheaper and into couples only.

It's only ever single men that face restrictions 99% of the time.

As some couples like separate room swap, they cant enforce a come together stay together policy.

Anyone that thinks couples only means they are playing with married or living together couples sorry but that is unlikely. Just look at the number of couples profiles on here, that are not couples in the 'in a relationship' sense.

And couples are not excluded from any party nights either, in fact where as some women get in for very little, if you do the maths, single men bringing a female at couples rates then the single male gets in for less than half the price and the single female for free.

When we go to clubs, I pay half the rate of a single guy and my Mrs gets in for free

We've never had an issue taking a single fem anywhere with us and have never been told she cant go into any room.

We have used couples only rooms as a 3, because I like to be watched sometimes (I'm with 2 shit hot women, of course I want to be seen )but in an open playroom its not as relaxed as I have to watch for uninvited touching and in a private playroom we cant be seen "

Well I wouldn't personally choose a couples only night as I like the dynamic and spice (and perspective) that the singles bring.

Seems pointless calling it a couples night really then as it's clearly not, it's a no men night.

I'm not personally concerned whether people are genuine couples or just fwb, I don't give a hoot about the nature of a couples relationship. Just would have thought the idea behind a couples night was to provide a balanced number of men and women.

Some clubs clearly state on their descriptions that couples nights provide equal numbers of men and women so I guess some clubs define couples as couples+1 as long as they're female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regardless of what night it was, if the room is for couples only it means you can only enter and play in male female pairs.

This particular club is obviously just enforcing that rule and the op isn't happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some are missing the point on this. A couples only room only comes into effect on a mixed night. When its couples only in the club, everyone can go anywhere and there are never any issues, however on a singles, and couples night, there needs to be somewhere where couples can go, who just wish to meet up with other, genuine, couples.

We like to get to know other couples, people who we can swop numbers with and then meet a week later if possible. Not two singles who've managed to hook up at the bar and may never see each other again. We want genuine couples.

We welcome any club ensuring that a couples room applies to those who hold a couples membership, and not singles who may just get lucky on the night, regardless of gender."

Sorry but how on earth would a club enforce that... We are not a couple in a relationship but are together sexually sometimes way more than proper couples.. then again we do hold couples memberships etc

However sometimes we both take someone else... And would play in couples room... How would people know who is a "genuine" coupleand who isn't

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By *ondonpride69Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"dont really see why clubs should bend the rules just for females, wrong for clubs to do this, if its a cpls room then its just for cpls."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some are missing the point on this. A couples only room only comes into effect on a mixed night. When its couples only in the club, everyone can go anywhere and there are never any issues, however on a singles, and couples night, there needs to be somewhere where couples can go, who just wish to meet up with other, genuine, couples.

We like to get to know other couples, people who we can swop numbers with and then meet a week later if possible. Not two singles who've managed to hook up at the bar and may never see each other again. We want genuine couples.

We welcome any club ensuring that a couples room applies to those who hold a couples membership, and not singles who may just get lucky on the night, regardless of gender.

Sorry but how on earth would a club enforce that... We are not a couple in a relationship but are together sexually sometimes way more than proper couples.. then again we do hold couples memberships etc

However sometimes we both take someone else... And would play in couples room... How would people know who is a "genuine" coupleand who isn't "

I would have thought it's quite straight-forward in terms of single females in couples only rooms that clearly state couples only. It would mean either three people came in together or a woman entered a couples only room alone??

A lot of self-policing goes on in clubs where disregard for boundaries occur. This is just the same, you ask the person who shouldn't be there to leave.

Who is the couple is immaterial really, you have no idea if anyone is a couple in there. But what's going on is couples playing with couples.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Most clubs do allow single women in if invited....

If it is the policy of a club not to allow this, I keep my _iews to myself and simply accept it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a couples only room should be exactly that a couples only room, could you imagine the reaction if a single male went in

Yes, I can understand the rule about not letting single males in because it would be packed to the rafters, but the odd single fem? No harm surely.

I dont want to watch from the _iewing window as men see it as an open invitation to start a conversation or worse still, grope "

Why are you offended if a single guy tries to strike up a conversation with you...... Just curious ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some are missing the point on this. A couples only room only comes into effect on a mixed night. When its couples only in the club, everyone can go anywhere and there are never any issues, however on a singles, and couples night, there needs to be somewhere where couples can go, who just wish to meet up with other, genuine, couples.

We like to get to know other couples, people who we can swop numbers with and then meet a week later if possible. Not two singles who've managed to hook up at the bar and may never see each other again. We want genuine couples.

We welcome any club ensuring that a couples room applies to those who hold a couples membership, and not singles who may just get lucky on the night, regardless of gender.

Sorry but how on earth would a club enforce that... We are not a couple in a relationship but are together sexually sometimes way more than proper couples.. then again we do hold couples memberships etc

However sometimes we both take someone else... And would play in couples room... How would people know who is a "genuine" coupleand who isn't

I would have thought it's quite straight-forward in terms of single females in couples only rooms that clearly state couples only. It would mean either three people came in together or a woman entered a couples only room alone??

A lot of self-policing goes on in clubs where disregard for boundaries occur. This is just the same, you ask the person who shouldn't be there to leave.

Who is the couple is immaterial really, you have no idea if anyone is a couple in there. But what's going on is couples playing with couples."

my question was about how can a club police genuine couples only... as someone suggested that only real couples should be allowed.. ie not a single woman that's paired up with a single guy to play together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some are missing the point on this. A couples only room only comes into effect on a mixed night. When its couples only in the club, everyone can go anywhere and there are never any issues, however on a singles, and couples night, there needs to be somewhere where couples can go, who just wish to meet up with other, genuine, couples.

We like to get to know other couples, people who we can swop numbers with and then meet a week later if possible. Not two singles who've managed to hook up at the bar and may never see each other again. We want genuine couples.

We welcome any club ensuring that a couples room applies to those who hold a couples membership, and not singles who may just get lucky on the night, regardless of gender.

Sorry but how on earth would a club enforce that... We are not a couple in a relationship but are together sexually sometimes way more than proper couples.. then again we do hold couples memberships etc

However sometimes we both take someone else... And would play in couples room... How would people know who is a "genuine" coupleand who isn't

I would have thought it's quite straight-forward in terms of single females in couples only rooms that clearly state couples only. It would mean either three people came in together or a woman entered a couples only room alone??

A lot of self-policing goes on in clubs where disregard for boundaries occur. This is just the same, you ask the person who shouldn't be there to leave.

Who is the couple is immaterial really, you have no idea if anyone is a couple in there. But what's going on is couples playing with couples.

my question was about how can a club police genuine couples only... as someone suggested that only real couples should be allowed.. ie not a single woman that's paired up with a single guy to play together. "

I would think that's impossible, in my opinion as long as a male and a female enter together that constitutes a couple

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By *stwo80Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

Why are you offended if a single guy tries to strike up a conversation with you...... Just curious ?[/quote)

Seems to be more than one issue with the OP !!

Woe betide anyone who is pleasant to her !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a couples only room should be exactly that a couples only room, could you imagine the reaction if a single male went in

Yes, I can understand the rule about not letting single males in because it would be packed to the rafters, but the odd single fem? No harm surely.

I dont want to watch from the _iewing window as men see it as an open invitation to start a conversation or worse still, grope

Why are you offended if a single guy tries to strike up a conversation with you...... Just curious ?"

Same thought crossed my mind. Totally agree with the op's comment about groping but I'm lost as to why single men can be criticised just for talking to someone!

To me the OP is attending on the wrong night if she doesn't want to be approached by single men why attend on a night that they are there?

The OP's attitude screams of a sense of self-centred entitlement.

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Its not unusual though !

I went to a well known club in the North West, with a lady, and went to the 'bar' to get a coffee for us both.

The only other person there was a lady, don't know if alone or part of a couple as we were both waiting to be served I said to her.

'It's busier here tonight than I expected considering the rain'

she looked at me, and her reply was

'don't waste you time, I don't fuck men'

I couldn't even think of a witty reposte !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not unusual though !

I went to a well known club in the North West, with a lady, and went to the 'bar' to get a coffee for us both.

The only other person there was a lady, don't know if alone or part of a couple as we were both waiting to be served I said to her.

'It's busier here tonight than I expected considering the rain'

she looked at me, and her reply was

'don't waste you time, I don't fuck men'

I couldn't even think of a witty reposte !"

How rude!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Its not unusual though !

I went to a well known club in the North West, with a lady, and went to the 'bar' to get a coffee for us both.

The only other person there was a lady, don't know if alone or part of a couple as we were both waiting to be served I said to her.

'It's busier here tonight than I expected considering the rain'

she looked at me, and her reply was

'don't waste you time, I don't fuck men'

I couldn't even think of a witty reposte !"

love it when the 'self importance' takes over, they do make me laugh...

bless her wee cotton socks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not unusual though !

I went to a well known club in the North West, with a lady, and went to the 'bar' to get a coffee for us both.

The only other person there was a lady, don't know if alone or part of a couple as we were both waiting to be served I said to her.

'It's busier here tonight than I expected considering the rain'

she looked at me, and her reply was

'don't waste you time, I don't fuck men'

I couldn't even think of a witty reposte !"

Similar thing happened to a guy I met, the weather was particularly grim so he joked to a woman

"did you drive here or just get blown through the front door"

She replied "why the fuck would I want to talk about the weather you boring bastard"

Luckily he's so nice he was killing himself laughing telling me and he just thought she might be having a crappy day.

I wanted to go and slap her about the chops with my velvet gloves lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couples room should be just that. Do u think single guys as well as ladies should be sllowed in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Why are you offended if a single guy tries to strike up a conversation with you...... Just curious ?[/quote)

Seems to be more than one issue with the OP !!

Woe betide anyone who is pleasant to her !!! "

Because single guys should feel blessed if women or couples talk to them so many on here belive lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a couples only room should be exactly that a couples only room, could you imagine the reaction if a single male went in

Yes, I can understand the rule about not letting single males in because it would be packed to the rafters, but the odd single fem? No harm surely.

I dont want to watch from the _iewing window as men see it as an open invitation to start a conversation or worse still, grope

Heaven Forbid somebody start a conversation in a club.... How Very Dare They!!! "

. .

Very well said!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Why are you offended if a single guy tries to strike up a conversation with you...... Just curious ?[/quote)

Seems to be more than one issue with the OP !!

Woe betide anyone who is pleasant to her !!! "

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley


"So single women, who get a great deal on admission at clubs and who can attend almost every club on what is supposedly a couples only night should also be allowed in a couples room... Is the clue not in the word "couple"?

Talk about a sense of entitlement. Struggling to see why you feel so aggrieved almost as much as I am struggling to feel any sympathy to your plight.

I wasn't looking for sympathy, I was asking for people's _iews, so thank you for yours

Can't see the problem.

As has been said - single guys would be laughed off the forums if they said they'd quit membership of a club for not allowing them in couples only areas.

I'd suggest not trying Xtasia - their new couples room is what it says on the tin !!

A"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We checked with chams on a recent visit and they said single ladies are allowed in the couples room.. it's just guys that aren't xx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"We checked with chams on a recent visit and they said single ladies are allowed in the couples room.. it's just guys that aren't xx"

So it's a couples and single females room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We checked with chams on a recent visit and they said single ladies are allowed in the couples room.. it's just guys that aren't xx

So it's a couples and single females room "
yes according to staff single women are allowed in the couples room and the sign on the door reads no single men

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"dont really see why clubs should bend the rules just for females, wrong for clubs to do this, if its a cpls room then its just for cpls."

I agree completely. There are _iewing windows for voyeurs

If I (female) go in the couples room it means I don't want spectators in my zone but am happy if anyone watches through the window.

Julie

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