FabSwingers.com forum: Clubs

By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln

My advice would be don't go alone on your first time. Go with a girlfriend or a guy you have met before.

They can be very daunting places when you first walk in. But everyone is friendly at all clubs.

By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"My advice would be don't go alone on your first time. Go with a girlfriend or a guy you have met before.

They can be very daunting places when you first walk in. But everyone is friendly at all clubs.

actually I would say the opposite...

if you looking to go as a single lady in future... then try it as one...

one of the things I find is that you almost "create a little bubble" around yourself if you go as a group or with someone else.. and makes it much harder for people to approach...

any club worth their salt will show you around, and will keep an eye out to make sure you are okay... you don't need a minder, and you are adult enough to say "no thank you" to people if they overstep the mark.....

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My advice would be don't go alone on your first time. Go with a girlfriend or a guy you have met before.

They can be very daunting places when you first walk in. But everyone is friendly at all clubs.

actually I would say the opposite...

if you looking to go as a single lady in future... then try it as one...

one of the things I find is that you almost "create a little bubble" around yourself if you go as a group or with someone else.. and makes it much harder for people to approach...

Good points. But ... I'd say as a single female for the very first ever club visit it would be easier going with a friend. A 'bubble' can make you feel safer.

Fair enough go alone for any visits afterwards. I do agree that going alone makes you talk to other people.