FabSwingers.com forum: Under 35s

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't mean to be disrespectful to any one on here but finding it quite difficult to find any couples of our own age range (25-35). Does anyone know of any clubs, preferably in the North West that host an under 35s night?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got slated for asking something similar but the fact more people are asking suggests to me there is a market for it and swinging is for people of all ages. I think younger people would feel more comfortable generally with others their own age amd talk about similar things as well as the fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I completely agree! Would be great to meet more people our own age and show that there are younger people out there who enjoy the scene too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple really! Find a club and organise an event yourselves! Most club owners would relish the extra business and all you need to do is sort a date, 'advertise' via the forums, the site and possibly by sending a few messages - and bingo !!! - you have a club night aimed at your target audience!

Of course you could just sit and wait for an existing club to do this - but most will be unwilling to exclude existing members, rightly so - but at least by being proactive you could boost the number of couples in your desired age bracket!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thats what we were hoping to do but just thought we would put the question out there as weve seen over 50s nights advertised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we took time out to pm you in regards to this post and the message was deleted, maybe if you guys wernt quite as ignorant and didn't think the world owed you a supermodel meet you might have more fun.... just sayin!!

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By *otTheReal01Man
over a year ago

London

"we took time out to pm you in regards to this post and the message was deleted, maybe if you guys wernt quite as ignorant and didn't think the world owed you a supermodel meet you might have more fun.... just sayin!!"

Did you read their profile? They say they're sick of getting messages from couples with no pics of the male half. Which includes you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how on earth do u know what we pmd??? stop pointscoring cos u will make ur self look silly

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By *otTheReal01Man
over a year ago

London

I'm not sure how you figure I could be "points scoring". I'm over their age limit by almost a decade...

And you sounded like you were bitter that they'd rejected you because of your looks so I made a suggestion that it might be for another reason. Maybe you were right then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not sure how you figure I could be "points scoring". I'm over their age limit by almost a decade...

And you sounded like you were bitter that they'd rejected you because of your looks so I made a suggestion that it might be for another reason. Maybe you were right then."
please don't get bitter with us cos your struggling, why are you as a bi single profile trying to hijack the thread?? that's just a little bit worse than kettle and pot int it???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Simple really! Find a club and organise an event yourselves! Most club owners would relish the extra business and all you need to do is sort a date, 'advertise' via the forums, the site and possibly by sending a few messages - and bingo !!! - you have a club night aimed at your target audience!

If only it was really that simple, because it simply isn't, and we know we have tried.

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By *otTheReal01Man
over a year ago

London

"I'm not sure how you figure I could be "points scoring". I'm over their age limit by almost a decade...

And you sounded like you were bitter that they'd rejected you because of your looks so I made a suggestion that it might be for another reason. Maybe you were right then.please don't get bitter with us cos your struggling, why are you as a bi single profile trying to hijack the thread?? that's just a little bit worse than kettle and pot int it???"

Ah yes, the classic "we think we get laid more than you do, nyah nyah" response. That's always a killer.

And what makes you think I'm trying to "hijack" the thread? How outrageous of me for daring to post in a thread on your forum!

And I completely fail to comprehend where hypocrisy even comes into it. i admit you've lost me there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the hyp is that the first thing you attempted to pull our post on is the op preference?? at no point do they show any interest in bi males either, the difference is you piped up calling people hypocrates, are you on the same profile cos your getting a bit touchy? goodnight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only it was really that simple, because it simply isn't, and we know we have tried."

I know! It was an 'ideal world' scenario - but with good planning not impossible. Might take a few couples getting together to plan it - and as I said - no club will exclude it's members so there's the catch 22 situation that even a well planned night that draws in the under 35 crowd will also attract the over 35 members hoping to catch the eye of the younger element.

There are certain clubs that would seem more suited - as you guys know - Xtasia has the 'nightclub' feel that you'd expect would draw in younger attendees and events like Sam and Jamie's 'Phukt' nights are ideal. If enough couples got chatting on here there's nothing stopping them simply arranging to meet on a specified night. Fox and I started the ball rolling for tomorrow's social six months ago - and there's been 16 (soon to be 17!) threads running about it - probably more than for any specific event I can remember. Like anything - word of mouth and 'advertising' is key to build interest.

And even though only half of us falls under the 35 bracket (Not me! Lol) we'd love to see a successful under 35s night somewhere!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Dont understand why things are getting so heated in here? Purely asking if anyone knew of a specific night! Sorry if we offended anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi everyone, its not in the north but Fever holds under 40s night at clubs and country houses in and around London - we're going for the first time next week.

Definitely think its something we and lots of others would be interested in if anyone's arranging

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By *avindaWoman
over a year ago

North Wales

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By *avindaWoman
over a year ago

North Wales

"Don't mean to be disrespectful to any one on here but finding it quite difficult to find any couples of our own age range (25-35). Does anyone know of any clubs, preferably in the North West that host an under 35s night?"

Townhouse on the wirral does an under 35's night. Once a month l think. Check out their website to confirm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do agree there are not so many younger people at clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine attractive younger people don't need swingers clubs, they could pull anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I imagine attractive younger people don't need swingers clubs, they could pull anywhere.

Think again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I imagine attractive younger people don't need swingers clubs, they could pull anywhere.

Think again

Ditto, its difficult to know who to try to pull in a normal bar.... I guess that's why we're on here talking about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I imagine attractive younger people don't need swingers clubs, they could pull anywhere.

There's a difference between 'pulling' and swinging!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"I do agree there are not so many younger people at clubs "

there is a good mix of older and younger people at the clubs I go to......

the issue for the clubs I have been to that have tried it, is that quite frankly they just don't draw that well........

then what about couples where one half is a fair bit older than the other?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not just reply on the forum?

The name calling and abuse because they dared delete a message they never sought doesn't come across as very pleasant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I imagine attractive younger people don't need swingers clubs, they could pull anywhere.

There's a difference between 'pulling' and swinging!

ok pushing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP as the thread shows some clubs hold them and in addition to those already mentioned I think the Lodge does too.

But generally clubs are luck of the drawer on normal nights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do agree there are not so many younger people at clubs

there is a good mix of older and younger people at the clubs I go to......

the issue for the clubs I have been to that have tried it, is that quite frankly they just don't draw that well........

then what about couples where one half is a fair bit older than the other? "

I agree Fabio - I've been to clubs where the night has been billed as under 35 (ok - a few years back! Lol) or under 40 - and there hasn't been the desired result. Existing members will always be admitted and most have had a rule that so long as one half (9 times out of 10 the female!) is in the age bracket the other half gets in.

Doesn't mean there isn't a market for it or that such a night shouldn't happen - there's niche nights for many groups.

I do think though that often when people comment on a lack of 'younger' club goers - what they really mean is 'hot, attractive younger club goers' - and as we know there are parties that cater for this group.

It's just that many wouldn't 'qualify' according to the organisers and if the deciding criteria is age - then it should be age alone that determines entry rather than your face/body fitting!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I imagine attractive younger people don't need swingers clubs, they could pull anywhere.

Think again

As a couple attempting to "pull" in vanilla environment is a high risk strategy. We were flirting with a couple in a metal club recently and it was getting to the point where it was getting interesting. And then the bloke told me he was up for a foursome but I had to be aware that if he got jealous he might punch me... That said meeting singles is definitely achievable.

The suggestion that only older less attractive people attend clubs is laughably inaccurate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we would struggle attending a under 35 night as one is under and the other over the age limit. Tho must say we've swung with people alot older than me who were hot as hell.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" Townhouse on the wirral does an under 35's night. Once a month l think. Check out their website to confirm.

Yeah weve heard about this but cant see anything on the site about any coming up in the near future, will have to keep on checking i guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" Townhouse on the wirral does an under 35's night. Once a month l think. Check out their website to confirm.

Yeah weve heard about this but cant see anything on the site about any coming up in the near future, will have to keep on checking i guess

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By *avindaWoman
over a year ago

North Wales

" Townhouse on the wirral does an under 35's night. Once a month l think. Check out their website to confirm.

Yeah weve heard about this but cant see anything on the site about any coming up in the near future, will have to keep on checking i guess

The last few times I have been there have been quite a few young couples in there. Its a good night out whatever people attend. Have fun. x

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By *aydeesclubCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

We had two young couples who came along to our club last week and they met up together so they wouldn't be the only younger ones, we do gets younger ladies come along too one is bbw and 24 and another one is 25 and then our lovely angels of course lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We had two young couples who came along to our club last week and they met up together so they wouldn't be the only younger ones, we do gets younger ladies come along too one is bbw and 24 and another one is 25 and then our lovely angels of course lol.

Yea us

Will be there tonight darlings of anyone is a newbie p m me if you want to go and I will show you round xxx

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