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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a single lady i generally only meet single guys inside a club. Am I being picky or am i right in saying the guys are out of order for not respecting this?

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Its your choice & only you can decide what you're comfortable with & feel safe doing.

I can however, also see it from a guys point of view.

He's on here to meet with people without having to pay club entry, membership & what not.

And many have been burnt by so called 'promoters' promising to be in a club; but when they've paid entry they find no promised meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single lady i generally only meet single guys inside a club. Am I being picky or am i right in saying the guys are out of order for not respecting this?"

You do what you are happy with.. if a guy won't meet you then it's his problem. Its s safe place to meet. So your well within your rights x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have asked single guys to meet me at my local club social. It is free entry and just like meeting at a pub, only with like minded people in it!

I feel more comfortable meeting here but most single guys run a mile. The benefits for the guy are there too. If we don't click, there are others that may take their fancy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have asked single guys to meet me at my local club social. It is free entry and just like meeting at a pub, only with like minded people in it!

I feel more comfortable meeting here but most single guys run a mile. The benefits for the guy are there too. If we don't click, there are others that may take their fancy "

this is the same, even at a free social, they seem to need someone to hold their hand...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single lady i generally only meet single guys inside a club. Am I being picky or am i right in saying the guys are out of order for not respecting this?"

I think it is perfectly reasonable to meet in clubs. If men don't respect this then they can always move onto the next profile. I would make it pretty clear though that there is no guarantee of play. Attraction has to be there.

So many men try the 'lets go as a couple' rubbish. We all know why!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Your life...your choice!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its your choice & only you can decide what you're comfortable with & feel safe doing.

I can however, also see it from a guys point of view.

He's on here to meet with people without having to pay club entry, membership & what not.

And many have been burnt by so called 'promoters' promising to be in a club; but when they've paid entry they find no promised meet. "

If guys get pissy about paying club fees then they aren't worth my time as that is only place I'll meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single lady i generally only meet single guys inside a club. Am I being picky or am i right in saying the guys are out of order for not respecting this?"

I've never gone to a club before.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a single lady i generally only meet single guys inside a club. Am I being picky or am i right in saying the guys are out of order for not respecting this?

I've never gone to a club before. "

you'd be eaten alive...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single lady i generally only meet single guys inside a club. Am I being picky or am i right in saying the guys are out of order for not respecting this?

I've never gone to a club before.

you'd be eaten alive..."

I'm going soon in London! You be there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bit far....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit far...."

Ahhh well. I'm from Newcastle too so might break my virginity up there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

IM am going to club f in Newcastle next Friday...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"IM am going to club f in Newcastle next Friday..."

Might see you there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its your choice & only you can decide what you're comfortable with & feel safe doing.

I can however, also see it from a guys point of view.

He's on here to meet with people without having to pay club entry, membership & what not.

And many have been burnt by so called 'promoters' promising to be in a club; but when they've paid entry they find no promised meet. "

Promotors? Does that even happen??

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By *pice of life 79Man
over a year ago

lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham

No if it's where you feel safe then it's a good idea to only meet in a club

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