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paradise spa ? Help please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't think me totally daft as I know it's a spa but, does everyone walk about naked,with a towel or do some wear swimwear?

Or a mix of the above

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By *lade19752Man
over a year ago

London


"Don't think me totally daft as I know it's a spa but, does everyone walk about naked,with a towel or do some wear swimwear?

Or a mix of the above

"

You can choose a mix of the above .

Depends on how you feel comfortable .

Its the guys that have the strict dress code lol of towel or naked .

Hope you enjoy yourselves there and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a female, you can wear (or not wear) what you want there. Whenever I go, I tend to just go naked, without a towel (as I do at other clubs).

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By *issyyourbadWoman
over a year ago

Dorset

Will never go there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will never go there "

That's helpful

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By *issyyourbadWoman
over a year ago

Dorset

My brother works there ok you can wear what you like mostly just a towel

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you.really don't like the idea of walking around naked

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Never been but at Kestrels its your own choice this weather a robe is handy but in summer naked towel or sarong and some flipflops because the wooden boards are cold and you can get splinters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the worry I have about clubs and spas. I read a review of one club where the woman was told to remove her towel. It makes me think women are there for the benefit of the paying men. I want the choice to do and wear what I want

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is the worry I have about clubs and spas. I read a review of one club where the woman was told to remove her towel. It makes me think women are there for the benefit of the paying men. I want the choice to do and wear what I want "

Told to remove her towel !!! I'd be telling them what was going to be removed

And it wouldn't be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is the worry I have about clubs and spas. I read a review of one club where the woman was told to remove her towel. It makes me think women are there for the benefit of the paying men. I want the choice to do and wear what I want

Told to remove her towel !!! I'd be telling them what was going to be removed

And it wouldn't be nice "

me too but would probably get thrown out lol The more I read about clubs the less I want to go and I do really want to try at least once before I'm too old and wrinkly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is the worry I have about clubs and spas. I read a review of one club where the woman was told to remove her towel. It makes me think women are there for the benefit of the paying men. I want the choice to do and wear what I want

Told to remove her towel !!! I'd be telling them what was going to be removed

And it wouldn't be nice

me too but would probably get thrown out lol The more I read about clubs the less I want to go and I do really want to try at least once before I'm too old and wrinkly"

I've been to a couple, been to Silverleigh, which is also a spa-wasn't keen on there. I am old and wrinkly, hence the wanting to be covered up a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is the worry I have about clubs and spas. I read a review of one club where the woman was told to remove her towel. It makes me think women are there for the benefit of the paying men. I want the choice to do and wear what I want

Told to remove her towel !!! I'd be telling them what was going to be removed

And it wouldn't be nice

me too but would probably get thrown out lol The more I read about clubs the less I want to go and I do really want to try at least once before I'm too old and wrinkly

I've been to a couple, been to Silverleigh, which is also a spa-wasn't keen on there. I am old and wrinkly, hence the wanting to be covered up a bit "

I'm fine being naked with people once I get to know them. It's the thought of anyone who pays getting an eyeful I'm concerned about. Although it might actually be a turn on in reality lol It's the fear of the unknown that is putting me off. That and hygiene issues

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is the worry I have about clubs and spas. I read a review of one club where the woman was told to remove her towel. It makes me think women are there for the benefit of the paying men. I want the choice to do and wear what I want

Told to remove her towel !!! I'd be telling them what was going to be removed

And it wouldn't be nice

me too but would probably get thrown out lol The more I read about clubs the less I want to go and I do really want to try at least once before I'm too old and wrinkly

I've been to a couple, been to Silverleigh, which is also a spa-wasn't keen on there. I am old and wrinkly, hence the wanting to be covered up a bit

I'm fine being naked with people once I get to know them. It's the thought of anyone who pays getting an eyeful I'm concerned about. Although it might actually be a turn on in reality lol It's the fear of the unknown that is putting me off. That and hygiene issues "

I know what you mean, in normal play im fine with it, but I really don't like being on show

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By *oversinparadiseCouple
over a year ago

romford

hopefully this may help . The club is a” naturist spa” throughout the week were men wear a towel, (optional) women can wear a Swimming costume, (with a towel, optional),

On a Friday and Saturday night, couples, single ladies, single male members may stay dressed in the dry area if they wish to; or change into towels (optional) once in your towels you can use all areas, all non- male members only wear towels in all areas of the club,

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"This is the worry I have about clubs and spas. I read a review of one club where the woman was told to remove her towel. It makes me think women are there for the benefit of the paying men. I want the choice to do and wear what I want "

Be interested to know which club that was.

Kestrels is very free and easy of course you can wear cover ups. This time of year most people have a robe to walk around in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is the worry I have about clubs and spas. I read a review of one club where the woman was told to remove her towel. It makes me think women are there for the benefit of the paying men. I want the choice to do and wear what I want

Be interested to know which club that was.

Kestrels is very free and easy of course you can wear cover ups. This time of year most people have a robe to walk around in. "

I read it in here. Either on a club review or a forum post

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"hopefully this may help . The club is a” naturist spa” throughout the week were men wear a towel, (optional) women can wear a Swimming costume, (with a towel, optional),

On a Friday and Saturday night, couples, single ladies, single male members may stay dressed in the dry area if they wish to; or change into towels (optional) once in your towels you can use all areas, all non- male members only wear towels in all areas of the club,"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is the worry I have about clubs and spas. I read a review of one club where the woman was told to remove her towel. It makes me think women are there for the benefit of the paying men. I want the choice to do and wear what I want

Told to remove her towel !!! I'd be telling them what was going to be removed

And it wouldn't be nice

me too but would probably get thrown out lol The more I read about clubs the less I want to go and I do really want to try at least once before I'm too old and wrinkly

I've been to a couple, been to Silverleigh, which is also a spa-wasn't keen on there. I am old and wrinkly, hence the wanting to be covered up a bit

I'm fine being naked with people once I get to know them. It's the thought of anyone who pays getting an eyeful I'm concerned about. Although it might actually be a turn on in reality lol It's the fear of the unknown that is putting me off. That and hygiene issues "

Just read dress code rules on the club website. They aren't all dress down. It's fine, go with a friend. Never thought I'd go but I've been to a few now.

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By *unpearCouple
over a year ago

bristol

we went to the spa and on entry was told the RULES of the club was totally undress and we provide a towel if you need one. My wife left her sexy bra, stocking & suspenders on. The guy on the door told her she had to take them off or leave !!!!. She did and we still had a good thanks to meeting some nice people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we went to the spa and on entry was told the RULES of the club was totally undress and we provide a towel if you need one. My wife left her sexy bra, stocking & suspenders on. The guy on the door told her she had to take them off or leave !!!!. She did and we still had a good thanks to meeting some nice people "

exactly why I would not go there. It's a spa so clothing not expected but swimwear should be. Paying men don't want to see women in swimwear

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think

have been to Paradise Spa on numerous occasions and I have never been asked to remove my clothes!

OK I have attended on a Saturday night which as previously advised by the club earlier are party nights and couples are clothed. If you want to use the spa then obviously you undress.

My understanding is that single males are asked to wear just a towel on these evenings but single ladies are encouraged to dress sexy.

I'm sure the club will advise if I'm incorrect lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have been to Paradise Spa on numerous occasions and I have never been asked to remove my clothes!

OK I have attended on a Saturday night which as previously advised by the club earlier are party nights and couples are clothed. If you want to use the spa then obviously you undress.

My understanding is that single males are asked to wear just a towel on these evenings but single ladies are encouraged to dress sexy.

I'm sure the club will advise if I'm incorrect lol

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why should we dress sexy? To entice more paying men? The men getting erections under their towels I presume

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think

so what would you wear to a club then?

If I'm attending a naturist spa, I don't wear anything apart from a towel. If I'm attending a Swingers Club then I dress to please myself and my partner not anyone else, and usually this is sexy lingerie or if it's a theme night an outfit that fits the evening.

If the males want to get erections that is their choice, doesn't mean they are having sex with me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so what would you wear to a club then?

If I'm attending a naturist spa, I don't wear anything apart from a towel. If I'm attending a Swingers Club then I dress to please myself and my partner not anyone else, and usually this is sexy lingerie or if it's a theme night an outfit that fits the evening.

If the males want to get erections that is their choice, doesn't mean they are having sex with me! "

I don't have a partner to dress up for. If I went to a club I would not have my tits half out or stockings on under a teeny dress to tempt men into wanting me. Maybe I have the wrong idea of what a club should be about. I wouldn't expect the men to dress in gstrings. If I went to a naturist club I would expect to be naked and robe optional. That's the point of it. I just feel that single women are used to entice men and it has taken away freedom of choice. Paying men might expect action ??

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think

I understand where you are coming from and can assure you that clubs do not use single girls to entice men in fact most clubs are couples and single fems on a Saturday.

I don't always wear a teeny dress ( haven't got the figure for one!) and I have seen ladies in trousers , it's what you are comfy in but just make sure you don't go on a specified naturist day/ night lol

Think you will be pleasantly surprised if you went to a club

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"so what would you wear to a club then?

If I'm attending a naturist spa, I don't wear anything apart from a towel. If I'm attending a Swingers Club then I dress to please myself and my partner not anyone else, and usually this is sexy lingerie or if it's a theme night an outfit that fits the evening.

If the males want to get erections that is their choice, doesn't mean they are having sex with me!

I don't have a partner to dress up for. If I went to a club I would not have my tits half out or stockings on under a teeny dress to tempt men into wanting me. Maybe I have the wrong idea of what a club should be about. I wouldn't expect the men to dress in gstrings. If I went to a naturist club I would expect to be naked and robe optional. That's the point of it. I just feel that single women are used to entice men and it has taken away freedom of choice. Paying men might expect action ?? "

To be honest, if you go with the expectations you currently have, you are going to be proved right, just because that is what you are looking for. At the moment, I don't think a club is for you. At least certainly not a spa based club. Maybe try one that isn't or doesn't have a wet area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand where you are coming from and can assure you that clubs do not use single girls to entice men in fact most clubs are couples and single fems on a Saturday.

I don't always wear a teeny dress ( haven't got the figure for one!) and I have seen ladies in trousers , it's what you are comfy in but just make sure you don't go on a specified naturist day/ night lol

Think you will be pleasantly surprised if you went to a club

"

the club in question is the one named in the OP. I know someone who has been there and he said there were paid women there just for the men. He stayed with the 2 women he went with. I know the experience is different for each person and I would be going as a single woman. I don't have any expectations of any club or spa as I have read conflicting stories. Going back to the OP again it's dress code I am concerned about and the spa owners motives

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I've been a couple of times to the club in question, and have never been told to remove my clothes. The first time I went I was a little uncomfortable so stayed in my day clothes in the bar area.

The club owners have answered your questions above re dress wear.

I've always found the owners to be pleasant and amiable unlike some clubs I've been to where once they get your money, they don't give 2 figs about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been a couple of times to the club in question, and have never been told to remove my clothes. The first time I went I was a little uncomfortable so stayed in my day clothes in the bar area.

The club owners have answered your questions above re dress wear.

I've always found the owners to be pleasant and amiable unlike some clubs I've been to where once they get your money, they don't give 2 figs about you. "

that's what I like to hear. What was the inside like? It looks very small from the outside

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

It's a bit tardis like. It's a lot bigger on the inside then it looks to be.

Clean, the spa area is really good, and blokes do take no for an answer. There is an outside decking area too for when the weather is nicer.

If you want to avoid feeling like a piece of meat then avoid their greedy girl events which I think is a Wednesday. Whilst the guys that attend have more of an expectation, they do still take no for an answer and will back off.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

ive been several times and its surprising big inside.

the women can wear what they want in the dry areas, and swimming costume optional in the wet areas theres no presure to do anything and if u get hassel from any guys they will be removed you will have a good time its a great club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a bit tardis like. It's a lot bigger on the inside then it looks to be.

Clean, the spa area is really good, and blokes do take no for an answer. There is an outside decking area too for when the weather is nicer.

If you want to avoid feeling like a piece of meat then avoid their greedy girl events which I think is a Wednesday. Whilst the guys that attend have more of an expectation, they do still take no for an answer and will back off.

"

I wouldn't go to a greedy girl event for that reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this the Paradise Health Spa in Bournemouth we are talking about in this topic? If so, i only noticed it was around the corner from my flat a few days ago, is it generally good? What day is it most busy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is this the Paradise Health Spa in Bournemouth we are talking about in this topic? If so, i only noticed it was around the corner from my flat a few days ago, is it generally good? What day is it most busy?"

Hi, no the one in Dagenham/Essex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that was a fail then lol

Nevermind then

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By *rfunMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"Is this the Paradise Health Spa in Bournemouth we are talking about in this topic? If so, i only noticed it was around the corner from my flat a few days ago, is it generally good? What day is it most busy?"
read club reviews

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