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By *leasures4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

We have looked at the site and see that only a towel or undies can be worn at chams but have heard people on Fab mention dresses etc too?

We are attending tomorrow and i need confirmation.

For people who regularly attend can you please confirm...what do women wear?

Many thanks

Fem x

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By *utterflywingsWoman
over a year ago

Creswell Derbyshire


"We have looked at the site and see that only a towel or undies can be worn at chams but have heard people on Fab mention dresses etc too?

We are attending tomorrow and i need confirmation.

For people who regularly attend can you please confirm...what do women wear?

Many thanks

Fem x"

Ladies can wear sexy lingerie, well thats what i used to wear when i went

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By *leasures4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

East midlands


"We have looked at the site and see that only a towel or undies can be worn at chams but have heard people on Fab mention dresses etc too?

We are attending tomorrow and i need confirmation.

For people who regularly attend can you please confirm...what do women wear?

Many thanks

Fem x

Ladies can wear sexy lingerie, well thats what i used to wear when i went"

Thank you

We are staying over and I've packed about 5 sets not knowing what to wear...lol!

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By *utterflywingsWoman
over a year ago

Creswell Derbyshire

we always booked room 8 when i was part of a couple lol, best room there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daytimes I normally just wear a towel. Evenings a bit more dressy heels, lingerie, sexy little dresses.

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By *leasures4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

East midlands


"we always booked room 8 when i was part of a couple lol, best room there x"

Damn...we haven't got that room!

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By *leasures4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

East midlands


"Daytimes I normally just wear a towel. Evenings a bit more dressy heels, lingerie, sexy little dresses."

More than happy to wear a towel in the afternoon but like to dress up a bit at night so will go for lingerie.

Thanks x

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

Never quite understood (understand even) why single guys who go to Chams spend the entire evening wrapped up in a towel.

If these guys are looking to attract the attention of couples/women, why not wear something a bit more alluring or better still nothing at all.

Why only women wander around in sexy underwear or naked and guys stay wrapped in towels? Come in guys, show us what you got!

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

Short of wearing something leather/latex there isn`t a great deal of what I would call sexy underwear for guys

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By *leasures4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

I like to see nice tight boxers on a man. That's what my fella will be wearing..

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By *leasures4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

East midlands


"Never quite understood (understand even) why single guys who go to Chams spend the entire evening wrapped up in a towel.

If these guys are looking to attract the attention of couples/women, why not wear something a bit more alluring or better still nothing at all.

Why only women wander around in sexy underwear or naked and guys stay wrapped in towels? Come in guys, show us what you got!"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been lots of times now and remember how nervous i felt the 1st time and choosing what to wear was impossble!! I always wear sexy basque stockings and heels and when your in there you'd be surprised at how relaxed and sexy you feel. Although do wear heels you can walk in as the stairs can be tricky lol. Yes the male half is lucky as only ever has to wear a towel but that dont stay on for long Have fun and enjoy xx

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford


"Never quite understood (understand even) why single guys who go to Chams spend the entire evening wrapped up in a towel.

If these guys are looking to attract the attention of couples/women, why not wear something a bit more alluring or better still nothing at all.

Why only women wander around in sexy underwear or naked and guys stay wrapped in towels? Come in guys, show us what you got!"

Not sure what else your thinking?

Unless its a party night, in which case I take the opportunity to wear something, usually with a twist.

I did jazz up (yes i said jazz you perverts!) my towel up at Christmas and pinned a huge pair of shiny balls and tinsel on it!

To the op - as others said the women can wear "as sexy as they dare" which is usually Sexy underwear. But whatever you comfy in.

D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am grateful for this thread x

I will be visiting for an afternoon session, and wanted to know what to wear - have body issues (who doesn't?!) so would be more comfortable in undies rather than a towel x but it sounds as if, as long as I am comfortable, it doesn't matter x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only wear towels as it's convenient.

I made the mistake of dressing up on our first visit (corset & skirt) and a regular looked me up and down in the changing room and asked 'you walked across the car park dressed like that?' - like I was a sex fiend or something.

Well I am a sex fiend and so I've dressed up every time since too. But still only wear a towel inside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how big are the towels?? lol

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By *leasures4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

East midlands


" We've been lots of times now and remember how nervous i felt the 1st time and choosing what to wear was impossble!! I always wear sexy basque stockings and heels and when your in there you'd be surprised at how relaxed and sexy you feel. Although do wear heels you can walk in as the stairs can be tricky lol. Yes the male half is lucky as only ever has to wear a towel but that dont stay on for long Have fun and enjoy xx"

Thanks for the lovely post

I have worn just underwear in our local club and a lot less but I think that's because I'm familiar with the surroundings and people there.

I think a Basque is a good choice. I just wish I had a flat tummy....lol! x

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By *leasures4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

East midlands


"Never quite understood (understand even) why single guys who go to Chams spend the entire evening wrapped up in a towel.

If these guys are looking to attract the attention of couples/women, why not wear something a bit more alluring or better still nothing at all.

Why only women wander around in sexy underwear or naked and guys stay wrapped in towels? Come in guys, show us what you got!

Not sure what else your thinking?

Unless its a party night, in which case I take the opportunity to wear something, usually with a twist.

I did jazz up (yes i said jazz you perverts!) my towel up at Christmas and pinned a huge pair of shiny balls and tinsel on it!

To the op - as others said the women can wear "as sexy as they dare" which is usually Sexy underwear. But whatever you comfy in.

D

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I'd be comfy in a dress but it may do me good to have to lose some clothes...

Thanks for your reply..

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think


"how big are the towels?? lol"

when you book in ask for a large towel

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By *leasures4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

East midlands


"I am grateful for this thread x

I will be visiting for an afternoon session, and wanted to know what to wear - have body issues (who doesn't?!) so would be more comfortable in undies rather than a towel x but it sounds as if, as long as I am comfortable, it doesn't matter x"

Yes we all have body issues but I find I'm getting more confident and do surprise myself at times. During play I let all inhibitions go but I think when in a bar etc its more nerve racking.

I also think it maybe how I feel on the day. I have some fat days like all women and feel good other days. x

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By *leasures4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

East midlands


"We only wear towels as it's convenient.

I made the mistake of dressing up on our first visit (corset & skirt) and a regular looked me up and down in the changing room and asked 'you walked across the car park dressed like that?' - like I was a sex fiend or something.

Well I am a sex fiend and so I've dressed up every time since too. But still only wear a towel inside."

Go girl! I (f) love confident women. They're much more beautiful and appealing... x

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By *leasures4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

East midlands


"how big are the towels?? lol

when you book in ask for a large towel "

This....or take your own? We do when visiting a club x

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

Have the new hotel rooms got a wet room shower/toilet?

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By *leasures4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

East midlands


"Have the new hotel rooms got a wet room shower/toilet?"

We have been told ensuite so hoping it has shower and toilet! Lol!

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By *leasurexxWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I've stayed in rooms by the decking area very nice..wet room with shower etc...I wear something like in my pics (red n black) with heels n hold ups

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have the new hotel rooms got a wet room shower/toilet?

We have been told ensuite so hoping it has shower and toilet! Lol!"

Of course it has. The rooms are quite nice and great to pop back to for a refresh on private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how big are the towels?? lol

when you book in ask for a large towel

This....or take your own? We do when visiting a club x"

i take my own towel now..coloured one so it stands out from club white ones as on my first visit someone took.mine whist in jacuzzi and i had to ask a guy to get me another from the bar. i did thank him later mmmmm

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By *leasurexxWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"how big are the towels?? lol

when you book in ask for a large towel

This....or take your own? We do when visiting a club x

i take my own towel now..coloured one so it stands out from club white ones as on my first visit someone took.mine whist in jacuzzi and i had to ask a guy to get me another from the bar. i did thank him later mmmmm"
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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Mr wears a towel Mrs wears a lace dress /heels or mesh dress perhaps bikini, some times tartan mini white top etcetc

We found it very friendly the first time we went.

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!


"I've stayed in rooms by the decking area very nice..wet room with shower etc..."

Great! That`s one of the things I liked about the original rooms was the wet room. A really good start to have a shower with your partner and "warm each other up" before you go into the club!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nik wore a corset stockings and heels once.no knickers,she looked amazing lol.really turned me on how everyone looked at her x

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By *rivate auditionsMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

Some of the guys wear shorts which is convenient for those like myself who like to go in and out of the jacuzzi or sauna,i find towels too are handy to wear in a wet club rather than a 2 piece suit,some of the ladies look very alluring wearing basques or a negligee,one lady i seen in there quite a few times wears just hold ups and high heels which is very eye catching indeed!.

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West


"Some of the guys wear shorts which is convenient for those like myself who like to go in and out of the jacuzzi or sauna,i find towels too are handy to wear in a wet club rather than a 2 piece suit,some of the ladies look very alluring wearing basques or a negligee,one lady i seen in there quite a few times wears just hold ups and high heels which is very eye catching indeed!. "

Mrs Hot tends to wear hold ups, high heels and a pearl necklace.

We love being naked any night or day at Chams and we love to try to get the towels off others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much are the rooms? I'm thinking of booking in for my next visit

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford


"How much are the rooms? I'm thinking of booking in for my next visit "

They vary in price room 5 I think is the largest and most pricey - about 65 I think? The terrace rooms are smaller, but newer and really handy. The main building rooms are smaller but cheaper. So whatever you fancy. For us it usually depends what's available as they tend to book up quite quickly.

Best to give them a call.

D

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By *leasures4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

We have paid £45 for our room

The only other option we was given was £60 for an executive room. We was recommended the one we booked by the lady we spoke to on the phone as the £60 rooms are down some steep stairs..

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