FabSwingers.com forum: first xtasia visit

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

we are very tempted to make a visit to _tasia early in the new year, probably for the sunday chill out thing as an easy, relaxed introduction to the club scene.

what is the protocol on club visits for couples?

not sure if we are going to play or not, but want to see if its a scene we would be interested in.

thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably a good club for club newbies

Xtasia has a big dance floor with a bar and feels like a regular night club. The play rooms are downstairs and separate. There should be no issues for couples going to have a look but not play. Downstairs includes a gloryhole room, a couples room, a dungeon and a room with a silhouette glass.

Near the top, there is a good size chill out lounge if you want to change the atmosphere too something more quiet.

It is quite easy to miss the hot tub and sauna which is downstairs on the other side of the dance floor. There is also a dogging area with cars upstairs that we have not seen so pay it a visit!

Your original question is based around etiquette and I suppose be respectful which I'm sure you are. When we played in the couples play room, it was the Phukt 2 event and it became a sweaty orgy and random people approaching each other for oral so quite fun. Mrs Z also had two girls go down on her on the dance floor which in normal circumstances is weird but fine for a swingers club so no issues of playing there either.

Walk around and see the play and get a feel for it. I would also consider just sitting together in the couples room and play with each other. In the moment all sorts of play can happened if you both want it to.

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By *hetwoovusCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"It's probably a good club for club newbies

Near the top, there is a good size chill out lounge if you want to change the atmosphere too something more quiet.

It is quite easy to miss the hot tub and sauna which is downstairs on the other side of the dance floor. There is also a dogging area with cars upstairs that we have not seen so pay it a visit!

Appreciate the detailed response as going to this club has come up in our conversations too and wondered the same as original poster. Not sure what day is best, someone mentioned a social night there but need to find out more. Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check out the swinging club/events ads for :

Xtasia Forum Social 1st Feb 2014 Pt6. Looks like its going to be a brilliant night xx

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By *hetwoovusCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Check out the swinging club/events ads for :

Xtasia Forum Social 1st Feb 2014 Pt6. Looks like its going to be a brilliant night xx "

Great will look into the event! Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we are very tempted to make a visit to _tasia early in the new year, probably for the sunday chill out thing as an easy, relaxed introduction to the club scene.

what is the protocol on club visits for couples?

not sure if we are going to play or not, but want to see if its a scene we would be interested in.

thanks"

Suday chill outs are probably a good time to go for a look round Xtasia, fairly quite (especially in Jan I would of thought). It will give you time to have a good look around the club as has already been mentioned, it is a big club an loads to look at, lots of which can often be missed on a busy night.

When you first go in, let Paul or whoever is on reception know that it's your first visit and someone will show you around and introduce you to a few of the regulars as well probably.

As for protocol, it's the same as most clubs, no means no, you don't have to do anything you don't want to, chat to as many people as possible, just because you chat, doesn't mean it has to go any further. If you want to play, play, if not just have a fun relaxed time and enjoy yourself.

I can't reccomend this club or the staff there enough!

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By *hetwoovusCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"we are very tempted to make a visit to _tasia early in the new year, probably for the sunday chill out thing as an easy, relaxed introduction to the club scene.

what is the protocol on club visits for couples?

not sure if we are going to play or not, but want to see if its a scene we would be interested in.

thanks

When you first go in, let Paul or whoever is on reception know that it's your first visit and someone will show you around and introduce you to a few of the regulars as well probably.

I can't reccomend this club or the staff there enough! "

Cheers! Good advice thanks!

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"we are very tempted to make a visit to _tasia early in the new year, probably for the sunday chill out thing as an easy, relaxed introduction to the club scene.

what is the protocol on club visits for couples?

not sure if we are going to play or not, but want to see if its a scene we would be interested in.

thanks"

Xtasia - 100% recommended

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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Please feel free to make contact with us directly and explain your worries and concerns. We'll do what we can to help and calm those fears, we were all newcomers once.

Sundays are becoming more Fet orientated this New Year, although the Jacuzzi and sauna are there for swingers to chill out in. Its probably better to take in a Friday or Saturday night, as you will see the club in its true colours, and can always avoid any serious play if that is the concern. As with any decent club, you can avoid as much as you wish, and feel under no pressure at all to do anything you wouldn't want to.

Look forward to showing you all round at some point.

Happy New Year to you.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"Check out the swinging club/events ads for :

Xtasia Forum Social 1st Feb 2014 Pt6. Looks like its going to be a brilliant night xx "

That would be on part 8 now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are heading to Xtasia tonight, and it will no doubt be another fun night. What a lot lf people thought (and we did too!) is that it's going to be very much all of nothing... That's so not the case. You can go and treat it just like a friendly place to drink and chat like a normal bar even, or you can go get your bits out in the right area. It's all about what you want, and what you feel comfy doing.

The staff there are also amazing and there's no messing about. No means no, without a battered eye lid from anybody.

Hope to see you there soon

C xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

we may well be taking the plunge at the lock n key party tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were thinking of heading there in a while lol C xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we may well be taking the plunge at the lock n key party tonight"

Glad to see that you took the plunge and seemed to enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ah yeah, it was great craic lol

she still feeling it this morning.

insatiable isnt a strong enough word lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ah yeah, it was great craic lol

she still feeling it this morning.

insatiable isnt a strong enough word lol"

I'm sure now you've been the once, you'll have trouble staying away

I normally need a few days to get over every visit there and the foam party at the end of the month followed by the Fab social will be no exception I would of thought

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

as we said on the review, it was mostly the grope box and the dungeon that we want to explore a little further.

may well go in a fortnight for the burlesque thing.

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

"we are very tempted to make a visit to _tasia early in the new year, probably for the sunday chill out thing as an easy, relaxed introduction to the club scene.

what is the protocol on club visits for couples?

not sure if we are going to play or not, but want to see if its a scene we would be interested in.

thanks

When you first go in, let Paul or whoever is on reception know that it's your first visit and someone will show you around and introduce you to a few of the regulars as well probably.

I can't reccomend this club or the staff there enough!

Cheers! Good advice thanks!

Back up this advice and this view 100% too. You don't have to go on a chill out Sunday. If your main thing might be to one day play with another couple, then go on a couples only night, Saturday. The layout of the club is such that there are plenty of social and chill areas so you can avoid walking into full on sex very easily. Just take your time and look around and talk to some people, have a dance and decide if its for you. Not everyone plays every time they go to a club anyway. The other thing is that your partner can dress far more erotically here than she can and will get no hassle at all compared to when you might be in a normal nightclub. So you wont have to worry about some random guy putting his hand up her dress every time you go to the toilet. That is an irony of the scene.

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

Didnt see you im afraid H+V ,reckon you must of spent all night in that grope box

, but what a load of people , we went along expecting it to be a tad quiet being into the new year but how wrong were we , a good night out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Back up this advice and this view 100% too. You don't have to go on a chill out Sunday. If your main thing might be to one day play with another couple, then go on a couples only night, Saturday. The layout of the club is such that there are plenty of social and chill areas so you can avoid walking into full on sex very easily. Just take your time and look around and talk to some people, have a dance and decide if its for you. Not everyone plays every time they go to a club anyway. The other thing is that your partner can dress far more erotically here than she can and will get no hassle at all compared to when you might be in a normal nightclub. So you wont have to worry about some random guy putting his hand up her dress every time you go to the toilet. That is an irony of the scene. "

this is actually what we talked about last night wile there.

she likes dressing up.

i like her dressing up

if this is an environment she can do that in without idiots coming onto her, or trying to grope when its not appropriate, then ts clearly a place we are happy to go, and thats how it seems.

so its a big thumbs up for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the club like for single guys?!

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

"What's the club like for single guys?!

There were a few going round like headless chickens when we went, this was 20 mins after it closed looking for sone action

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

couldnt comment, pete, we went on a night for couples and single ladies only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok thanks..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol.. That doesn't sound good!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the club like for single guys?!

Single guys who know how to interact with others? Great!

Those that don't? The same as any other club!

And we've been on as many Fridays as Saturdays! As with anything it's your inputs that determine your outputs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good advice thank you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the club like for single guys?!

Well I've nearly always attended Xtasia as a sigle guy and found it to be a great club. But as has already been said, it's down to the amit's amount of effort you put in and your attitude.

Chat to as many people as possible and go with the outlook that it's a night out for a drink and a chat in a relaxed atmosphere, anything more that may or may not happen is a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be making my first visit in the coming month. Let's see how it goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd be making my first visit in the coming month. Let's see how it goes.

Well you hope to get there the 1st of February, if you don't get lost that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd be making my first visit in the coming month. Let's see how it goes.

Well you hope to get there the 1st of February, if you don't get lost that is

Don't jinx it!!! I'm going to spam the threads for directions..

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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

"I'd be making my first visit in the coming month. Let's see how it goes.

Well you hope to get there the 1st of February, if you don't get lost that is

Don't jinx it!!! I'm going to spam the threads for directions..

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Did I mention you can be banned before you arrive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd be making my first visit in the coming month. Let's see how it goes.

Well you hope to get there the 1st of February, if you don't get lost that is

Don't jinx it!!! I'm going to spam the threads for directions..

Did I mention you can be banned before you arrive?

(Zips mouth and remains on best behaviour)

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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

"I'd be making my first visit in the coming month. Let's see how it goes.

Well you hope to get there the 1st of February, if you don't get lost that is

Don't jinx it!!! I'm going to spam the threads for directions..

Did I mention you can be banned before you arrive?

(Zips mouth and remains on best behaviour)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great club.

We loved the dogging loft it's just fantastic.

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

"Great club.

We loved the dogging loft it's just fantastic."

I think its great up there, does dogging have the same rules as swinging?

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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

"Great club.

We loved the dogging loft it's just fantastic.

I think its great up there, does dogging have the same rules as swinging?"
In the club yes, in the outside world...it varies, however we'd like to make sure club rules are adhered to throughout,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

think the dogging area is very well done, must admit, just the roof is too low lol.

didnt realise only midgets go dogging.

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

we spent a very enjoyable 10 mins trying to 'buff' the scratches out of the Alfa's bonnet with Mindys leather skirt on our first visit , to our amusement this couple slides out from beneath us ,,,, 'Dont mind us , were just checking the gear box oil level'

Didnt even know they were there LOL

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"we spent a very enjoyable 10 mins trying to 'buff' the scratches out of the Alfa's bonnet with Mindys leather skirt on our first visit , to our amusement this couple slides out from beneath us ,,,, 'Dont mind us , were just checking the gear box oil level'

Didnt even know they were there LOL"

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awesome thanks..

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