FabSwingers.com forum: first club visit

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have visited Chameleons lots of times with fb's in the past. Its funny how many women say they want to try it for the first time on their profiles, yet when you raise the subject it appears that they lack the nerve! Do many others find this to be the case?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can take a lot of balls to push that boundary, I'd love to go to a club or party but I don't have the balls just yet but when I do it would be with someone random.

I'll build some trust in the person I attend with.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

I go on my own & with other single females. Only to certain clubs though. Chams is good & safe for single women

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

biggest stage is walking thru that front door....

after that when they walk in, and see everyone is (relatively) normal... and an orgy hasn't broken out on the floor in front of you.... people will be fine...

I just say to people... just talk and say hello, dont just crouch in a corner.. the more people they talk to, the more comfortable they feel...

now i am going to be controversial.. I dont think going in in a group, or with another couple, really helps... because you kind of seal yourself in a little bubble and almost become unapproachable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to la chambre Monday night on my own, Sunday I had been with a couple of other females, the hard part was going in, I had a few thoughts to turn around on my way but took a deep breath and went in

Once in and bought myself a drink I went to the lockers for a nice gentleman to say hi and asked how I was, to then sit down and another gentleman sat talking to me...

So onwards and upwards to many more visits x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"biggest stage is walking thru that front door....

after that when they walk in, and see everyone is (relatively) normal... and an orgy hasn't broken out on the floor in front of you.... people will be fine...

I just say to people... just talk and say hello, dont just crouch in a corner.. the more people they talk to, the more comfortable they feel...

now i am going to be controversial.. I dont think going in in a group, or with another couple, really helps... because you kind of seal yourself in a little bubble and almost become unapproachable

Totally agree with that last statement, you can also feel obliged to stick with the people you go in with.

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By *onkeydickspartiesMan
over a year ago

SALISBURY Sat 20th MAY Mixed Erotic Party

"biggest stage is walking thru that front door....

after that when they walk in, and see everyone is (relatively) normal... and an orgy hasn't broken out on the floor in front of you.... people will be fine...

I just say to people... just talk and say hello, dont just crouch in a corner.. the more people they talk to, the more comfortable they feel...

now i am going to be controversial.. I dont think going in in a group, or with another couple, really helps... because you kind of seal yourself in a little bubble and almost become unapproachable

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