FabSwingers.com forum: club first timer

By *palg OP Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Hi,

Tonight will be my first swinger's night at Jaydees.

I'm excited but a bit apprehensive. I would not want to upset any of the regulars.

I shouldn't do as I am a nice guy

But has anyone got any advice about how to approach couples without upsetting them?

Thanks

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

Hi Steve. I'm also going to JayDees tonight. Don't be at all concerned at being your first time there. JayDee and Tracey are wonderful hosts and providing there are a good few couples I'm sure you will enjoy yourself. Just go with the flow, talk to the other guests but as usual with swinger clubs, watch for the signs and respect couples that just want to play by themselves or with other couples. Looking forward to seeing you there. Brian

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never been to a club but really want to go as so curious just a bit aprenhensive i tbink hopefully iget to try sooner rather than later

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

"I have never been to a club but really want to go as so curious just a bit aprenhensive i tbink hopefully iget to try sooner rather than later "

There's no reason not to, in my experience they're friendly places and are packed full of fun. You might want to go with a regular playmate for your first time though x

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

hope you had fun xxx

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By *palg OP Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Had a brilliant time last night.

Meet a couple happy to chart with me and offer advice early on in the evening.

Loads of people putting a show on so plenty for the eyes.

Finished the night playing with another couple.

And the staff at Jaydees are great too, making you feel very comfortable.

So if you are hesitating, take the plunge and go to a club, it's not half as daunting as you think once you are there.

So much fun.

Thanks to ask who offered guidance and encouragement by the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good to hear that you had a good time, clubs can seem a little daunting but can be very good fun once you are there then as long as you are polite & respect the others good fun places to be. x

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

We thought you would be in safe hands....

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