FabSwingers.com forum: What attracts you to a club

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all,

I'm looking for feedback on what attracts you all to clubs? Is it certain events like bi nights/couples only nights? Or do people look for something else?

For ourselves we prefer mixed nights and themed parties

Sinds xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally for me... I like to see if the club has a good Number of single women attending. I'm a single guy and only really interested in one on one play...

So that's what I look for!

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By *orthwest_cplCouple
over a year ago

Stretford

Someone pole dancing

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By *angerpointCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

Meeting new people and some downright dirty sex. (safe of course)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Someone pole dancing

I'm always dancing at The Gatehouse of a weekend

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally for me... I like to see if the club has a good Number of single women attending. I'm a single guy and only really interested in one on one play...

So that's what I look for!

So for you a singles only night would maybe work better

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By *id_nancyCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Me and a partner enjoy going to a couples only night or couple and bi female night

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By *orthwest_cplCouple
over a year ago

Stretford

"Someone pole dancing

I'm always dancing at The Gatehouse of a weekend

Will have to give this place a visit.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Safety and security

diversity and the unknown

facilities (sauna etc) private play rooms

social aspect of meeting/chatting with like minded people

A toastie (at chams) for when I've worked up an appetite

The ability to shower and get changed back into jeans so the kids & sitter have no idea what I wore/didn't wear whilst out

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Oh and hot sexy people for even hotter sexy steamy sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not a regular club goer I look out for special events or socials that intrest me mainly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different people and not the same old faces ... a good mix of single guys and girls plus couples ... a nice atmosphere and clean play areas .

Our favourites are the lodge in Gloucester and Chams in Darlaston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's got to be the atmosphere, the right mix of couples and singles, the facilities and above all else the cleanliness, if you can get a mix of these and staff that make the effort to look after you whether it be your first visit or 20th visit then you can't go far wrong.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If its couples only, I don't go.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

"If its couples only, I don't go."
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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

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By *eyshamcoupleCouple
over a year ago

morecambe

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By *eyshamcoupleCouple
over a year ago

morecambe

Safety and security

facilities (sauna etc) pool

private play rooms

social aspect of meeting/chatting with like minded people

Great staff..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a club that has a party atmosphere and DJ x not really into the spa type clubs - I also never go when single males cant go - as I am straight and like lots of singles guys - dont do couples xx

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

"It's got to be the atmosphere, the right mix of couples and singles, the facilities and above all else the cleanliness, if you can get a mix of these and staff that make the effort to look after you whether it be your first visit or 20th visit then you can't go far wrong.

this, but chuck in a hot tub/jacuzzi, bi nights and party nights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If its couples only, I don't go."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of invite only single guys who adhere to the dress code.

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

Much prefer the spa type of club and one that doesn`t have loud music because I have a hearing problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Controlled number of single men of which I am one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer cpl only and it's the facilities I look at. hot tub, sauna, play rooms and private play areas. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Safety and security

diversity and the unknown

facilities (sauna etc) private play rooms

social aspect of meeting/chatting with like minded people

A toastie (at chams) for when I've worked up an appetite

The ability to shower and get changed back into jeans so the kids & sitter have no idea what I wore/didn't wear whilst out

This!! After this weekend goung alone without my man in tow, I won't go again on a couples night as I just missed him too much!

I like the single men too when I'm there alone!

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"If its couples only, I don't go.

When we first started going to clubs together we preferred couples only nights, but now Mrs likes a bit (lot) of single guy action so we now avoid couples only.

As to what we look for in a club. The most important thing is the people, a decent mix of couples and singles and a good age mix. There are some clubs and/or nights that are just way too young for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any club is only as good as the people in it. We go to clubs which we think will be busy.

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By *orny69pussyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

Distance is obviously a factor.

But a good friendly atmosphere, with no pressure for a newbie like me really helps!

This is what I found on my first ever club night when I went to Angels. Was so nervous, but felt comfortable and had a great night

Looking forward to my 2nd visit this Saturday

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

Down to earth people

Music so I can have a dance

Respectful single men

A bar (lol!)

Quietish play areas where you can play without loud people having a conversation about what they had for tea!

Good washing facilities

Dungeon

Pool

Sauna

Yes...we're talking La chambre!

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