FabSwingers.com forum: male hit rate in a club

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Only ever been to clubs as a couple.

Was wondering what the sucsess rate of male visitors is.

I know a brad pit type is going to do better than a hairy arsed fat bloke but was just curious.

How many visits and how many times have you played?

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll let you know after Monday's visit to chams. Going alone for the first time.... short skirt & fuck me heels.....

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By *enuinetallstuMan
over a year ago

nr beauly

"Only ever been to clubs as a couple.

Was wondering what the sucsess rate of male visitors is.

I know a brad pit type is going to do better than a hairy arsed fat bloke but was just curious.

How many visits and how many times have you played? "
It is no good looking like Brad Pitt if you have the social skills and character of a corpse! Be relaxed and sociable and you will have fun

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By *asperthedogCouple
over a year ago

midlands

its getting worse, not as good as it was years ago. Still say the cheeky chappie approach works best, even if everybody is looking for "polite non pushy", and Brad Pitt look is no more successful then any other. Lot of guys won't let their wives play with the good looking ones, talented ones etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its getting worse, not as good as it was years ago. Still say the cheeky chappie approach works best, even if everybody is looking for "polite non pushy", and Brad Pitt look is no more successful then any other. Lot of guys won't let their wives play with the good looking ones, talented ones etc"

That's an interesting perspective and I suppose in some ways true for certain couples. When we have been to nights with single men the lack of good looking talented types has been very overt. I would never encourage her to play with a certain type but she does look for the better looking ones.

The last single night we went what can only be described as Worzel Gummidge shuffled over and said "do yoi mind if I sit on tha step next to youuuu and have a Tommy Tank" his kind offer was politely declined.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i've been trying for the last couple to find a way of answering the question... but "hit rate" as a phrase just sound awful.....

sorry.....

probably the best ay of answering the question is I don't think of hit rate, and just think of enjoyment....

if I have had a good night and laughed and smiled in good company... the rest is bonus

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

Yeah I suppose being a Brad Pitt kind of guy gives you better chances even if you are a creep, as opposed to being the bloke-next-door kinda guy

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield

Nick much prefers me to play with sexy talented good looking guys cos it turns me on !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to me the guys that have the most fun are those that know how to socialise and would have the same level of success with the ladies in a pub or a vanilla club.

Going to a swingers club isnt going to magically change anything.

Agree with Fabios comments laugh and smile, thats always a winner with the ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality own hair and teeth and looking like they have been to the gym is our personal preference.

And the ability to crack a joke and banter to us both rather than talking to her frankly awesome cleavage is for the win.

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By *asperthedogCouple
over a year ago

midlands

its ok having the banter, but over the years I've noticed that does not always equate to performance. To use some eastern wisdom, "those who know, don't talk, those who talk, don't know"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id say the people who expect to play dont do as well as the relaxed folk. I've always done really well at clubs because i take time to talk to other people. Im no Brad Pitt so personality is my finest weapon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its ok having the banter, but over the years I've noticed that does not always equate to performance. To use some eastern wisdom, "those who know, don't talk, those who talk, don't know"

But if they don't talk then how they meant to do the "walk" to the private room with us?

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By *asperthedogCouple
over a year ago

midlands

thats the dilemma, but then now you know you should be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going jaydees for my first time on Saturday so writing all this down lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to a couple of clubs in the past. I went without any expectations and although I made an effort to chat to people I had no luck at all

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I've been to a couple of clubs in the past. I went without any expectations and although I made an effort to chat to people I had no luck at all

Don't take it too badly. That happens to women too (or at least it keeps happening to me!)

I'd have talked to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why thank you

I'm very surprised it happened to you

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Why thank you

I'm very surprised it happened to you

I'm of the opinion that single men are so afraid to approach women now it means shy ones like me end up sat at the bar. I have a much better 'hit rate'

if I go with a friendly bloke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you mean, I was so nervous my first time, but the staff were great. I wouldn't leave you at the bar that's for sure

Expect alot of impending offers to accompany you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best advice I've read and adhere to is " leave your ego and expectations at the door "

That way you are more relaxed and chatty and under no pressure at all- anything that may happen will be a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best advice I've read and adhere to is " leave your ego and expectations at the door "

That way you are more relaxed and chatty and under no pressure at all- anything that may happen will be a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only ever been to clubs as a couple.

Was wondering what the sucsess rate of male visitors is.

I know a brad pit type is going to do better than a hairy arsed fat bloke but was just curious.

How many visits and how many times have you played? "

Don't worry, some people like hairy arsed fat blokes, so you might well get at least one 'hit'.

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By *atelotmanMan
over a year ago

Chatham

Im off to my first club on sunday to a private do at eureka so will let you know how an old boy like me does

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By *onkeydickspartiesMan
over a year ago

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"Best advice I've read and adhere to is " leave your ego and expectations at the door "

That way you are more relaxed and chatty and under no pressure at all- anything that may happen will be a bonus

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

"Best advice I've read and adhere to is " leave your ego and expectations at the door "

That way you are more relaxed and chatty and under no pressure at all- anything that may happen will be a bonus

I will agree with all of that and add to treat people the same way that you would like to be treated yourself

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"i've been trying for the last couple to find a way of answering the question... but "hit rate" as a phrase just sound awful.....

sorry.....

probably the best ay of answering the question is I don't think of hit rate, and just think of enjoyment....

if I have had a good night and laughed and smiled in good company... the rest is bonus"
agree! So very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been twice now to clubs and been lucky enough to play twice, although I do look like brad pitt I like to think its my good chat and polite manner that get me playtime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its ok having the banter, but over the years I've noticed that does not always equate to performance. To use some eastern wisdom, "those who know, don't talk, those who talk, don't know"

But if they don't talk then how they meant to do the "walk" to the private room with us?

They follow you in silence...I think they've been called 'zombies' here before.

Jasperthedog's philosophy is right of course and those occasions she speaks of are magic but unfortunately at least in my experience, rare. But I'm a keen student!?

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