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"I've wanted to go to a club for ages... I've chatted to the owners of the local and stuff. I'd not planned anything tonight so I thought I'd go for a drive to THI in the Wirral. I'm usually a confident guy but this is what i did 5 minutes ago: Parked in the car park.. watched carpark.. ha! Checked cars to see if I know them... Walked up to the door of THI then walked back to the the car! Haha! Wow! I never knew it would be this daunting! Ha!" You've got further than me mate, and I usually consider myself quite outgoing/carefree ![]() | |||
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"Wow!!! I did it! And also, re club buddies... Fella, if you want a club buddy - get one..... Fu*k everyone else! It's was good. I actually didn't stay but had a look round and a chat. I got some naughty looks from a fit lady too! Maybe I should have stayed. The owners are lovely and I was comfortable in less than 10 mins. Good place and I'm glad I went! People were nice, etc. Next time... Hehehe! Now I know what to expect, etc." Congrats fella! You have massive balls now you just need to empty them lol joking guys. I'm slightly jealous but made up you took the steps and inspiring me to go along when I can. | |||
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"Wow!!! I did it! And also, re club buddies... Fella, if you want a club buddy - get one..... Fu*k everyone else! It's was good. I actually didn't stay but had a look round and a chat. I got some naughty looks from a fit lady too! Maybe I should have stayed. The owners are lovely and I was comfortable in less than 10 mins. Good place and I'm glad I went! People were nice, etc. Next time... Hehehe! Now I know what to expect, etc. Congrats fella! You have massive balls now you just need to empty them lol joking guys. I'm slightly jealous but made up you took the steps and inspiring me to go along when I can." Ha, it did take balls, it really did... What's more though, women seem to understand that you have the confidence to go in. I was the youngest guy there I think. Most guys were about 40 ish. The balance between m/f was ok too. But anyway, when you realise that you don't know anybody there.... It just feels like a pub really. A pub where a woman was taking it from behind infront of everybody. While sucking a guys cock..... Lol. | |||
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"I've wanted to go to a club for ages... I've chatted to the owners of the local and stuff. I'd not planned anything tonight so I thought I'd go for a drive to THI in the Wirral. I'm usually a confident guy but this is what i did 5 minutes ago: Parked in the car park.. watched carpark.. ha! Checked cars to see if I know them... Walked up to the door of THI then walked back to the the car! Haha! Wow! I never knew it would be this daunting! Ha!" . ah bless you I would be the same, I went with a lovely gentleman friend for my first time as I would be petrified to go alone. Try and see if you can strike up a rapport with someone and progress to going together ![]() | |||
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"I've wanted to go to a club for ages... I've chatted to the owners of the local and stuff. I'd not planned anything tonight so I thought I'd go for a drive to THI in the Wirral. I'm usually a confident guy but this is what i did 5 minutes ago: Parked in the car park.. watched carpark.. ha! Checked cars to see if I know them... Walked up to the door of THI then walked back to the the car! Haha! Wow! I never knew it would be this daunting! Ha!" I said exactly the same on another site and got proper slated for it!!People on here are so much nicer!! | |||
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"I've wanted to go to a club for ages... I've chatted to the owners of the local and stuff. I'd not planned anything tonight so I thought I'd go for a drive to THI in the Wirral. I'm usually a confident guy but this is what i did 5 minutes ago: Parked in the car park.. watched carpark.. ha! Checked cars to see if I know them... Walked up to the door of THI then walked back to the the car! Haha! Wow! I never knew it would be this daunting! Ha!" I've done exactly the same a few laps of the block and then bottled it. Thanks for putting it out there maybe someone might put on a newbie night so it's not as scary | |||
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"I've wanted to go to a club for ages... I've chatted to the owners of the local and stuff. I'd not planned anything tonight so I thought I'd go for a drive to THI in the Wirral. I'm usually a confident guy but this is what i did 5 minutes ago: Parked in the car park.. watched carpark.. ha! Checked cars to see if I know them... Walked up to the door of THI then walked back to the the car! Haha! Wow! I never knew it would be this daunting! Ha!" You are not alone. Got through the doors on my 4th trip. ![]() | |||
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"If I ever wanted to go to a club as a single man I would happily walking. ONLY because I have been as a couple and know the ropes so to speak. If I hadn't been before I not sure I would have the stones to do it and fair play to you for admitting it. Once you do bite the bullet you will wonder what the fuss was about. Good luck next time. " ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I've wanted to go to a club for ages... I've chatted to the owners of the local and stuff. I'd not planned anything tonight so I thought I'd go for a drive to THI in the Wirral. I'm usually a confident guy but this is what i did 5 minutes ago: Parked in the car park.. watched carpark.. ha! Checked cars to see if I know them... Walked up to the door of THI then walked back to the the car! Haha! Wow! I never knew it would be this daunting! Ha!I've done exactly the same a few laps of the block and then bottled it. Thanks for putting it out there maybe someone might put on a newbie night so it's not as scary" Go when there's a social event on. I'm a big wuss and I was scared half to death but I went to a social and it was great fun. ![]() | |||
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"I am guessing it has to take some guts to walk in by yourself. Is there anyone who will go with you?" ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Well, at present. I am trying to pluck up the courage to go to Our Place for Fun. The nerves are kicking in - i really want to go and just see how a swinging club works. I'm so nervous, i cant even get my head round all this membership rules lol ![]() did you go? if so did you like it ? | |||
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"I've wanted to go to a club for ages... I've chatted to the owners of the local and stuff. I'd not planned anything tonight so I thought I'd go for a drive to THI in the Wirral. I'm usually a confident guy but this is what i did 5 minutes ago: Parked in the car park.. watched carpark.. ha! Checked cars to see if I know them... Walked up to the door of THI then walked back to the the car! Haha! Wow! I never knew it would be this daunting! Ha!" get in there,they are excellent hosts.will show u round,and help where they can | |||
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"I always say to people the scariest bit is walking in the front door.... after that everything else is gravy... just go.... open mind, no expectations and just chat to people... don't be the person looking like a lost lamb... or patrolling the play areas like some sort of dark arts swinging ninja.... a "hello" goes a long, long way" ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I've wanted to go to a club for ages... I've chatted to the owners of the local and stuff. I'd not planned anything tonight so I thought I'd go for a drive to THI in the Wirral. I'm usually a confident guy but this is what i did 5 minutes ago: Parked in the car park.. watched carpark.. ha! Checked cars to see if I know them... Walked up to the door of THI then walked back to the the car! Haha! Wow! I never knew it would be this daunting! Ha!" I know what you mean, I went to a club for the first time tonight, took me ages to get up the courage | |||
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"Its refreshing to read some men are nervous about their first club visit alone.I have been trying to pluck up the courage since January to go to one. After reading this I may just give it a go. Well done you, hope u had a great time. Xxx ![]() I think it must be more difficult for a woman to go on her own. My wife recently took one of her female friends to a club for the first time and even though my wife is fairly experienced clubber she still felt very nervous without me by her side | |||
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"I've wanted to go to a club for ages... I've chatted to the owners of the local and stuff. I'd not planned anything tonight so I thought I'd go for a drive to THI in the Wirral. I'm usually a confident guy but this is what i did 5 minutes ago: Parked in the car park.. watched carpark.. ha! Checked cars to see if I know them... Walked up to the door of THI then walked back to the the car! Haha! Wow! I never knew it would be this daunting! Ha!" It is daunting, I was so overwhelmed at my first club. But now I just can't get enough! | |||
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"I'm probably going to my first club on Saturday so I will let you know how it goes. I will die if I walk in the door and it's like a Wild West film. The place goes deadly silent and a load of seasoned swingers in basques and leopard skin thongs give the beady eye!" Hahaha... that made me laugh. Don't forget the tumble and the sound of a bell ringing in the distance. Then the barman, who's busy drying a shot glass with a tea towel, looks up and says, "You ain't from round these parts, stranger. Folks round here don't take too kindly to strangers." Neither of the 2 clubs I've been to are anything like that fortunately ![]() | |||
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"I'm probably going to my first club on Saturday so I will let you know how it goes. I will die if I walk in the door and it's like a Wild West film. The place goes deadly silent and a load of seasoned swingers in basques and leopard skin thongs give the beady eye! Hahaha... that made me laugh. Don't forget the tumble and the sound of a bell ringing in the distance. Then the barman, who's busy drying a shot glass with a tea towel, looks up and says, "You ain't from round these parts, stranger. Folks round here don't take too kindly to strangers." Neither of the 2 clubs I've been to are anything like that fortunately ![]() Not kidding, I would so go to a club like that. ![]() | |||
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"I always say to people the scariest bit is walking in the front door.... after that everything else is gravy... just go.... open mind, no expectations and just chat to people... don't be the person looking like a lost lamb... or patrolling the play areas like some sort of dark arts swinging ninja.... a "hello" goes a long, long way" I am a dark arts swinging ninja, ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm probably going to my first club on Saturday so I will let you know how it goes. I will die if I walk in the door and it's like a Wild West film. The place goes deadly silent and a load of seasoned swingers in basques and leopard skin thongs give the beady eye! Hahaha... that made me laugh. Don't forget the tumble and the sound of a bell ringing in the distance. Then the barman, who's busy drying a shot glass with a tea towel, looks up and says, "You ain't from round these parts, stranger. Folks round here don't take too kindly to strangers." Neither of the 2 clubs I've been to are anything like that fortunately ![]() ![]() Me too, sounds such fun! | |||
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"I'm probably going to my first club on Saturday so I will let you know how it goes. I will die if I walk in the door and it's like a Wild West film. The place goes deadly silent and a load of seasoned swingers in basques and leopard skin thongs give the beady eye! Hahaha... that made me laugh. Don't forget the tumble and the sound of a bell ringing in the distance. Then the barman, who's busy drying a shot glass with a tea towel, looks up and says, "You ain't from round these parts, stranger. Folks round here don't take too kindly to strangers." Neither of the 2 clubs I've been to are anything like that fortunately ![]() ![]() Then slowly remove the cigar from the corner of your mouth, throw back your pancho, and listen to the fast strumming of a Spanish guitar as the barman looks down at your six shooter. ![]() | |||
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