FabSwingers.com forum: clothes on in clubs

By *arandjas OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

we are considering going to a club for the first time, but i(fem) am a bit nervous as to the rules regarding clothes Can you just go and if not feeling like playing(cos it would be my first time at a proper club) keep clothes on and just socialise, or would that be bad form?

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

after 8 club in edinburgh tends to be fully clothed except on lingerie night(only night with compulsory strip down). there is no pressure to do anything you don't want to- this includes playing or undressing.

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By *ightDiversionMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

It Depends on the club ...

There is never any pressure for you to do anything you don't want to - regardless of attire !

Most clubs cloths on is fine - some require you to dress sexy or towel !

The websites should give all you need to Know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cjs and after eight are no pressure clubs, just check the websites for any special party nights.

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By *arandjas OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

been to cj's, but didnt think of that as a club, more like a sexy house party lol, but thinking of broadening our horizons, but was unsure of the club etiquette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any club that dictates how much or how little you can wear isn't for us or you by the sound of it. We always avoid "wet" clubs for that reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any club that dictates how much or how little you can wear isn't for us or you by the sound of it. We always avoid "wet" clubs for that reason."

Yea avoid wet clubs and you should be fine

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

Pardon the [self-explanatory perhaps] question, but what are wet clubs? x

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By *arandjas OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

thank you for your replies, always feel stupid having to ask about stuff like that, cos some people can be a bit snippy sometimes,

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By *arandjas OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

now for my next question, what is the best club down south, near manc sort of area ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pardon the [self-explanatory perhaps] question, but what are wet clubs? x"

clubs with 'wet' facilities - jacuuzzis, sauna, steam room etc. Most require guys to wear just a towel/shorts. Women can wear towel/lingerie/sexy little dress etc

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"thank you for your replies, always feel stupid having to ask about stuff like that, cos some people can be a bit snippy sometimes,

Never feel stupid for asking a question

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

cheers x

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"now for my next question, what is the best club down south, near manc sort of area ? "

La Chambre in sheffield is a pub/nightclub style club with a clear demarcation between social and play areas. There is a well equipped large dungeon in the basement and the whole first floor consists of a variety of playrooms.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Oh, and it's a dressed club unless you're a single male.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could venture further south and try Xtasia, its a night club type of place with lots of social areas and play rooms and a wet area with changing room and lockers. The dress code will suit you as well.

Best of both worlds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people will recommend their local club.

The established ones near Manchester are Partners and Cupids, check the club reviews and make your own mind up.

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By *arandjas OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

thank you folks for answering, it is appreciated, have a few weeks before we need to decide, so will take time and see which suits us best and then away we go lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The clubs in Manchester tend to be dress down/towels/lingerie.

If you go a tad further south, we'd recommend adventures in lust, that's in stoke and more of a nightclub.

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By *orny69pussyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

Having my first club night at Angels this Saturday.. too flippin' cold to go with no clothes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New Liaisions in Rochdale/Manchester dosent have a dress down rule.

Check out the website on here on the clubs page.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isis Quest in Leeds doesnt have a dress down rule either.

very friendly club, check out the website.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some clubs you have to dress down right away, for instance cupids you are asked to change before you enter the main club areas ( there's a changing room next to where you pay to get in )

No 3 in Chorley you can stay dressed until 10:30 and then you are all asked to get changed

Partners allows you to stay clothed around the bar and lounge, unless you want to go into the play areas .. in which case you have to dress down

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral

"we are considering going to a club for the first time, but i(fem) am a bit nervous as to the rules regarding clothes Can you just go and if not feeling like playing(cos it would be my first time at a proper club) keep clothes on and just socialise, or would that be bad form?"

There's been various replies with several good clubs mentioned. My two favorites would be Infusions in Blackpool and Xtasia in West Brom.

Just to clarify the dress down rule for you at clubs especially as the concern was raised by the female half of this couple.

Most wet clubs require you to dress down, so taking the example of Cupids where you "dress down" on entry this means that for the guy he changes into either shorts, boxers or naked wearing just a towel. For the lady while dress down can mean naked with a towel, for 99% of ladies it would mean changing into a more sexy outfit like underwear, a corset, a chemise or a nightie or any combination of that mix. Most ladies while dressing very sexily in a dress down club aren't actually revealing their most intimate side unless of course they choose too.

In a nightclub style environment you'll often find ladies similarly dressed or wearing dresses that they probably wouldn't down at their local pub whereas guys in that type if club will be wearing a shirt and smart pants.

Hope that helps you a bit in your choice.

Mark

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"now for my next question, what is the best club down south, near manc sort of area ? "

your nearest club "club" then may well be club F in the north east.....

They allow you to wear what you like.....

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

There is also Infusions in Blackpool.

Cupids in Mancs, tends to be towel wearing club. (We wrongly thought otherwise before)

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By *arandjas OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

thank you all for your help, it has been very informative, now just to decide lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is also Infusions in Blackpool.

Cupids in Mancs, tends to be towel wearing club. (We wrongly thought otherwise before)"

No it isn't. All the ladies tend to wear lingerie.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"There is also Infusions in Blackpool.

Cupids in Mancs, tends to be towel wearing club. (We wrongly thought otherwise before)

No it isn't. All the ladies tend to wear lingerie."

They don't tend to, that's the dress code. Towel clubs are clubs where you wear either a towel or underwear.

It is a great club with a fantastic friendly atmosphere, but if you want to stay dressed then not the club to choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is also Infusions in Blackpool.

Cupids in Mancs, tends to be towel wearing club. (We wrongly thought otherwise before)

No it isn't. All the ladies tend to wear lingerie.

They don't tend to, that's the dress code. Towel clubs are clubs where you wear either a towel or underwear.

It is a great club with a fantastic friendly atmosphere, but if you want to stay dressed then not the club to choose."

Didn't want anything to think a towel club refers to what people actually wear.

We prefer dress down on arrival, we find the whole banging a gong thing and everyone piling into the changing room at the same time to be about as erotic as a school PE lesson. All a bit odd!

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By *S_PennyTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

If you don't mind dressing sexy or wearing towel then cupids is good. My particular favourite is the Gatehouse in Bolton though. No pressure club. The reason being it does get a number of trans people in there and so they obviously want somewhere they can dress how they want to. But you do get a good mix of people on weekends and the hosts are really friendly.

I go there to socialise because of the friendly crowd. I don't play there generally but do like to have a go on the pole. It's not as big as cupids but it's well equipped as you'd expect any club really.

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