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Why do people go the wrong way about it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just had a couple ask if I'm up for meeting them, they then asked for a face photo and then they block me!!! Why not just message bk saying sorry your not for us? Considering they contacted me in the first place, what a bunch of ***** ......... Ahhh that feels better#rantover

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

We agree its rude, a polite no thanks costs nothing.

Maybe their members of your grans blowling club or something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no need to be rude what ever the circumstances were allways polite, would have been so much easier to have said no thanks

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Maybe they know you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find it incredible that people cant just offer a polite no thanks.. or like one poster said, if they know you its still easy to say no.. but how often is the latter the case.

I will always offer a no thanks or if i get a no thanks will always accept and acknowledge positively

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By *ootleCouple
over a year ago

Romford, Essex

Think of it as a bonus - would YOU really want to meet people that shallow ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at how well you deal with rejection they maybe had a lucky escape?

There is a delightful irony in being disrespectful whilst moaning about someone else's lack of respect

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Looking at how well you deal with rejection they maybe had a lucky escape?

There is a delightful irony in being disrespectful whilst moaning about someone else's lack of respect"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking at how well you deal with rejection they maybe had a lucky escape?

There is a delightful irony in being disrespectful whilst moaning about someone else's lack of respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a couple ask if I'm up for meeting them, they then asked for a face photo and then they block me!!! Why not just message bk saying sorry your not for us? Considering they contacted me in the first place, what a bunch of ***** ......... Ahhh that feels better#rantover"

Ignore delete and move on they are obviously not interested and made their decision even if it was impolite. There are plenty more people out there.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Looking at how well you deal with rejection they maybe had a lucky escape?

There is a delightful irony in being disrespectful whilst moaning about someone else's lack of respect"

can i add a few

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looking at how well you deal with rejection they maybe had a lucky escape?

There is a delightful irony in being disrespectful whilst moaning about someone else's lack of respect"
. Why not? If somebody doesn't respect me then why should I show them respect in a rant? I believe you should always treat people the way they treat you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think of it as a bonus - would YOU really want to meet people that shallow ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking at how well you deal with rejection they maybe had a lucky escape?

There is a delightful irony in being disrespectful whilst moaning about someone else's lack of respect. Why not? If somebody doesn't respect me then why should I show them respect in a rant? I believe you should always treat people the way they treat you! "

I always laugh at threads like this. Take it on the chin. They probably blocked you because of previous bad experiences when the have turned others down.

9/10 when I send a polite thanks but no thanks I either get

a) abuse

Or

b) arguments from them about why I should meet them!

My advice is suck it up and move on to the next couple who catch your eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think of it as a bonus - would YOU really want to meet people that shallow ?"

There are some people who actually want to be attracted to the way a person looks, I'm one of them. Label it erroneously if you must but it's simply part of what some people call chemistry.

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By *ngel_screwballCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

The trouble is when a polite no is communicated as one of the previous mails on this thread said you normally get abuse and oh how can you possibly turn me down I am a single stud,which is not the way to handle rejection is it.

We regularly get messages along the lines of "let me do your wife she needs a real man and cock" and that is normally after we have said no thanks

So even if you are the nicest man in the world, I am afraid that there are single guys (and couples) on here who think they are above politeness and etiquette so guess you will just have to deal with it

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

maybe if it's a couple it's their way of knowing the other ones not interested.

but that said I'd always say no thanks first.

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford


"Looking at how well you deal with rejection they maybe had a lucky escape?

There is a delightful irony in being disrespectful whilst moaning about someone else's lack of respect. Why not? If somebody doesn't respect me then why should I show them respect in a rant? I believe you should always treat people the way they treat you! "

This isn't a dig, but maybe treat people the way you would like to be treated would be a better idea?

It's not about showing them respect - what it's showing them - is nothing, they blocked you because they don't care what you think. All your showing is everyone on here that it's wound you up.

So, show some respect to yourself, and don't post these type of threads because they are never going to show you in a good light. No matter how aggrieved you may feel.

D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners cost nothing a quick thanks but not thanks should have been sent as they made 1sr contact..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manners cost nothing a quick thanks but not thanks should have been sent as they made 1sr contact.."

Agreed but if people adopted the delete/block as a thanks but no thanks mindset then there'd be more acceptance on the site. All too many times actual courtesy is taken as an attack to the ego and abuse follows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a couple ask if I'm up for meeting them, they then asked for a face photo and then they block me!!! Why not just message bk saying sorry your not for us? Considering they contacted me in the first place, what a bunch of ***** ......... Ahhh that feels better#rantover"

Grrr that's just plain rude, just console yourself with the fact that they were the losers by not meeting you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, just take no response/ block as a no thank you and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had couples blow hot then cold, in the end however disappointing it is for me on my side it's their right to do so. Nature of the beast I guess!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i find it incredible that people cant just offer a polite no thanks.. or like one poster said, if they know you its still easy to say no.. but how often is the latter the case.

I will always offer a no thanks or if i get a no thanks will always accept and acknowledge positively "

Not everyone accepts a no thanks graciously

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By *mnesiablissCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

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By *mnesiablissCouple
over a year ago

Dundee


"Looking at how well you deal with rejection they maybe had a lucky escape?

There is a delightful irony in being disrespectful whilst moaning about someone else's lack of respect"

Definitely ironic.

Probably there's more to it than meets the eye..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think many couples on here feel superior to other men on here, perhaps because of popularity. I think its disgusting that couples and even females cant be bothered to message back just out of respect for the fellow swinger.

I recently had an email from a couple asking me to give them a tantric massage...then they decided to block me when i mentioned i was busy. Without even thanking me - i just felt like i was being used and thrown away.

My best advice is to ignore them! So annoying

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"i think many couples on here feel superior to other men on here, perhaps because of popularity. I think its disgusting that couples and even females cant be bothered to message back just out of respect for the fellow swinger.

I recently had an email from a couple asking me to give them a tantric massage...then they decided to block me when i mentioned i was busy. Without even thanking me - i just felt like i was being used and thrown away.

My best advice is to ignore them! So annoying "

So they asked you for a meet, you turned them down so they blocked you, maybe to ensure they didn't bother you again?

What's wrong with that?

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